congratz lil boy if mine =)

thankful and grateful that he can cope up with his swimming lessons, even though we dont have swimming pool at home and we dont live at the condominium or apartment area which fully equipped with many things such as swimming pool. but Alhamdulillah he's such a fast learner and dare to try new things in his life =)

few months ago....

look at him: seems reluctant and didnt do it very well, in short:no style at all. haha

well now =)

with open eyes, more confident, closed mouth, even can hold his breathe longer, i'd say he did it with style this time =)

he's a big boy now. an ABANG to be.... hehe....

 

on things yg "dah lapuk dek hujan, dah lekang dek panas".

ok, flipping back memories bout before my married life. been quite active yo.yes, my work required me to stay in the office untill late night BUT i never consider it as something which stopped me from doing something else eg:socializing with me frens, gym-ing, playing squash, jamming session and many other things.seriously if stay kt office,pergi balik, pergi balik boleh membuncitkan perut kot.better do sumthing which could ease a bit rase-rase tension tu kan? kan?
so below were my activities semase masih anak dareeeee.yeeehaw!haha.

Gymgoer:

actually memang selalu gi gym since mula2 kerja.well u know to tone up the body n mengecilkan part-part mane yg harus dikecilkan or errrr...membersarkan part mane yg harus dibesarkan. eh ade ke? =P
normally,i'll be going early in the morning.somewhere nearby office.took celebrity fitness platinum.so can go everywhere.if pergi pagi2 (yes, pakse diri bagai nak rak bukak mate kol 6,ouh saye kagum dgn diri sendiri).then terus drive ke kl gi gym, then mandi n pi office. if petang,will be going to midvalley.memang menarikkk.selain dr tujuan2 kesihatan, pergi ke gym juga ialah kerana mahu mencuci mate.if x cuci mate,cemane mate nak bersihkan? =P so sile cuci mate anda melihat abang-abang body, ouh my.... sixpacks occcayyy!handsome2 belaka.pheeewitttt (ok,ini xtvt bfore kawen,setelah kawen gi gym tutup mate).eh?haha.

pole dance class:

ini memang tabiat luar biase saye kerana at 1st pergi dance class,then mcm nak lg mencabar gi pole dance class.it was hard in d'beginning but lame2 ok.memang niat di hati nak ade pole kt rumah, siap nk buat show kat hubby.buuutttttt xkesampaian, pasal pas kawen terus stop.hish rugi2.if not,still bley maen2 dgn mane tiang2 yg ade.boleh pnajat2 kesane sini.mesti Azriff kagum.muahahahaha.

my ouh my,i memang teruja giler nak ade pole sendiri at home.

guitar:

gile guitar since zaman sekolah.bnyk kali kene beli pasal jahanam,tali putus bagai.then ade la gi jamming pas kerja n lepak2 ngn member2.sukeeeee sangat tengok mamat2 men guitar.tp since laki i xreti maen,make guitar saye terletak di dlm store.sungguh kasihaaaannnnn.

sila perhatikan guitar mcm nak dibalut tikar.ini keadaan dalma store.sekian.

foreign language:

dulu2 ms kt secondary school, ade srg mamat ni (tgk kt tv) dia polis,tp dia belajar bnyk bahase.so mcm jadi idola kejap. ingat nak jd terror in many languages jugak,tapi apekan daye selalu xsempat after work nk gi class2 bahase (eh melepak ngn kengkawan sempat pulak kan?).mase dulu kt sekolah belajar arabic, jgn tanye dah ape maksud,semua lupa.arabic pon selalu skip class.haha. then uni belajar german language, perggghhh....susah giler ok,budget nak dok german,tp ntah ttahun bile.skrg sudah lupe ape yg dipelajari adelah. then mase kerja belajar mandarin.mcm poyo jap gi class, jap x gi,so ntah ape2 jadinye.langsung lupe skrg.wo ai ni. taulaaa.hahahaha.

ho-ho ini belajar bahase arab mase kecik2.muahaha. mandarin cert tak dapat ditemuai,di bawah katil dekat kampung maybe.sigh.

swimming:

ini kira daily xtvt mase dok kt rumah (dulu stay kt kondo kt keramat) maka sangattlaaa suka swimming.nyum nyum nyummmmmm.

diving&snorkeling:

ni lagila berhabuk, even slb pon ade buat.join sekali je kot.sbab manjang time kene nak gi ade je bende2 hal menyibuk,deadline la,client meetingla, deting time la.eh? pernah few times gi diving dgn member2.start kerja mmg slow.adoi!
but snorkeling memang quite often la,asal gi holiday kt pulau confirm akan pergi snorkeling.heheehe.

adventurous xtvties,

like hiking (panjat gunung kinabalu), camping, travelling with friens (ouh saye memang sukaaa iniiiiii), white water rafting, free fall xtvties adn u name it la.memang sangatttt sukaaaaa.rs mcm nak gi selalu if ade mase.memang release tension habis.

this was 1 of company's activity, mase tu Quay2 still my boyfie.auwww=P

muka ganas:memang nampak sgt exaggerate,pose for d'camera!

naik bot,but i wasnt d'coxwain, encik hubby tau la nk bwk bot,saye tatau!

parasailing... yes we did it!in bali ya'alll.*berlagak mcm bagus=P*

yezza.bali with d'gurls!

 langkawiiiiiiii....yeehawwww

hello u,meet my frennnnnnnn...=P

maka itulah ye kawan2, if ade mase lapang sementare muda ni,rajin2kanla berxtvt selain kerja anda.besh ke gi kerja,balik kerja je?u should have hobbies and passions to do things which out of ur ordinary routine.so once u dah pop like me, u'll fell satisfied.like ouh ini i dh try,ini pon dh.heeee.but 1 thing i still xbuat2 lagi is sky diving.serious nak buat but manjang xsempat.hopefully wiLl find time to do it someday!

taaa peeps!

how to survive long distance relationship (LDR)

for those who are in a LDR and managed to survive successfully so far,i wish you: congratulations.
for me who have been years (ckp mcm lameee giler,padahal its just 4years baru=P) in LDR and can attests : it was hard in the beginning but as time passes by, im getting used to it and Alhamdulillah im going through this calmly and patiently and become more understanding on how to make things work for both sides.makin lame makin pro bak kate org tua2=P

ok, below are my tips actually more to my opinion on how to survive in LDR. if saudara saudari sekalian got extra tips, u r most welcome to add here and there and share with me=)

so, i think first and foremost as usual, UNDERSTANDING:which is the most important part.

understand ur partner's job/situation:

bila dah jauh2 tu,kenela faham2 situations org dekat sana.eg: he/she is there for study, work etc.
mostly because of those 2 right? so, list down priority students and employees of certain companies.
eg: dia ade mase 24hrs ke nak mengadap lappie,in short nak mengadap fb,ym berchatting dgn ko srgje, mcm xde kerja laen nak buat. then xpayahla yg ko pon mengade2 nak ngadap lappie je 24jam tungggu dia online. bawak2la buat kerja laen.eg: memasak,buat tocang rambut,ketip kuku....etc etc...
actually part ni was hard in the beginning, mase kt office pon dulu2 i online psl tunggu si dia online and chat with me.end up both online tp xsempat bertegur sape or borak sepatah dua psl xmenyempat siapkan kerja.macammm hampeh!

getting to know your partner

yela kan zaman2 mase mula2 nak bercinta and in LDR plak confirm u ols memang nak full attention, rase nak dia spend time to chat with u or talk to u on d'phone whole day (ni mostly ladiesla), but pleasela understand ur partner's routine, habit and tabiat! sebab as for certain males yg xberape nak sensitive eg: my hubby, my hubby, my hubby, dr mula2 zmn bercinta mmg jenis bukan bercinta mcm nak rak.meaning dia kerja on shift kt offshore nun for 12 hrs straight, then 12hrs la d'other time nak tidoq,makan,lepak wif frens atas kapal,basuh bj bagai. so aftr work mmg he'll on his ym but xla ngadap je nak chat ngn i.kdg2 tgh chat dia, mcm dia diam skejap,tyn gi mane.ckp gi gym.ek eleh bgtaula siang2 kan? xpon, bc paper online.wahhhhh,geram seyyy i dok ngadap laptop ni mcm nak msk dlm lappie die bley bc online paper.at 1st mmg susah gakla (actually xla susah sgt if krg dpt boyfie yg type dia xbc paper, xgi gym, xlepak ngn kawan2,dunia dia ialah work n u.so memang heavenla u.pas keje je mesti dia ngadap u sampai tertido atas lappie. and org2 camni mostly perot buncit.hahahhaa.so, better my boyfie going to d'gymla and socialize wf his friend.saye rela.kekekee.give him boy time la jugak kan.so silalah fahami ape yg partner anda suka and tak. but the most important thing is toleransi.waahhhh, toleransi tuuuu.hehe. if krg tak bley accept and mmg very clingy xbley accept ur partner's life dekat sane mmg susahla.it somehow can add a whole lot of stress to your already strained couplehood. so chill-chill saja.

DO NOT COMPARE YOUR PARTNER/RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS

ok, this part kene stress kan cket because u will always surrounded with friends yg ala-ala sedang bercinta jugak.so nanti mmg u'll always face situations like:

situasi satu:
"td kereta i rosak, kamal dtg tolong repair u,sweet kan, dia dr penang tros turun kl tu nk betolkan tyre i yg rosak punye pasal"

padahal yg u ols plak kenela terhegeh2 tukar tyre sendiri, or else call AAM ke ape, or worst dok situ srg2 berjam2 sementare tunggu rescue.hahaha.
so,silela ade mental yg kuat and make preparation dulu for few things. tak payah compare, ckp dlm hati biarla, boyfie dia dekat,selalu ade dgn dia,romantic lg terus turun dr penang tinggalkan sup hameed yg sedap tu semata2 nk tolong dtg tgk kereta ko rosak, padahal dtg2 tu call mechanic je keja dia, tu bley buat sendiri kot

so tak payah pk sangat, things happen and find ways to solve it.dont blame situations especially ur LDR. like me i mmg know how to tukar tyr kereta since bwk satria kt ukm dulu, bcoz i know i srg2 kt kl,and xsuka if kene susahkan boyfie bab ni.ouh i mmg ade 1 perangai yg bile susah2 i xsuke call boyfie dulu, i suke call my bestfriend .yerp a guy ms kt ukm.so mcm tula, silela belajar few things untuk survive.tukar try bukan susah sgt.tapiii skrgni i rs kene take time la if nk suruh i tukar tyre sbab ms kerja terus beli kereta yg  ade tyre RFT( run flat tyre).hahahah.so,bab2 tukar mmg dah lame xberlaku. RFT if ade symbol pancit kt kereta bley drive lg dlm 100km cmtu. so lalalalalala.heheheh. takpela, jgn nak mengada2 sgt,make it as ur own knowledge, guys will find the woman with brain is HOT!heh! dulu mase i dgn hubby deting detong i la yg ajar dia nk tukar tyre, tolong dia pilih rim tyre, hubby i dulu mmg jenis tk give a dam sgt psl baru2 kerja n baru dpt kete,so advantage kepada sy disitu=P

situasi dua:

"ouh my, boyfie hanna giler romantic and cool, mase birthday dia ,boyfie dia dtg senyap2 dkt her house,bwk bunga and then teros bawak shopping you.sekali handbag chanel boyfie die zass utk dia!"

takpe, situasi ini memang akan membuatkan u ols rase nak menitik-nitik-nitik air mata sbab rase besh la kan if ade surprise cmtu (eh ke besh pasal ade part chanel disitu?).hahaha. so, silelah jgn mengharapkan situasi2 seperti ini berlaku.be realistic la cket. cemaneka boyfie anda nk dtg tiba-tiba wat surprise dpn rumah on ur bithday sedangkan u ols sedia maklum dia jauh nun di perantauan.so,jangan nak pening2kan diri nak2 bg i yg mmg tau schedule boyfie now hubby psl kerja secompany ni.so redha jela dgn "happy birthday sayang" -kat tepon or paling sadis kt screen ym je.haha.ape ade hal.gua tough "sile ckp kt diri sendiri berulang kali".hahahah.

situasi tiga:

"i pg td si zack hantar gi kerja, lunch nanti dgn dia, balik dia ambil, malam lepak2 kat rasta dgn dia n kawan2 dia"

ini clingy tahap serious!dr pg smpai petang semuala nak bersama.so,sila abaikan jika ade kawan2 anda begitu.being clingy bukan care hidup anda.give each other some space and jgn compare dgn org laen.maybe mereka selesa dgn care begitu tp anda tak mungkin face the same situation.maka redha la.tak semua org same.takpe berjauhan dulu skrg,insyaAllah if panjang umur murah rezeki, hari tua dapat bersama-sama.


share the burden

part ni like krg kadang2 share la wif partner krg betapa rindunya, sayangnya krg kt dia but sometimes sedih jugak pasal anda berdua thousands miles away jauhnya.sobs sobs. maka beruntunglah anda if dpt partner yg "i jugak rindu u,sayang u ,kalaula bukan pasla kerja/study ,lautan pacific,atlantic,lautan nil ni i redah semata2 nak bersama dgn sayang yg comel,cun,hot dsb". menangis kegembiraan la anda dpt boyfie yg romantic tahap gaban cmtu, boyfie i yg merangkap hubby i skrg ni,ms dolu-dolu if i ckp cmtu die ckp "alaaa,sekejap je bukan lame, ramai lg org laen camni,ok je,lame2 biasela tu". so sile hantukkan kepala anda ke dinding dgn harapan dpt trus melupakan tentang part dia yg tak berapa nak romantic tu.in short, redha jelaaa.haha. tapi sekali sekala ckp la gak kat dia kan,dia bukannya takde perasaan.actually dia kat sane pon serabut gak,nak gak balik rumah jumpa mak ayah,u ols and member2 dia,tp nak buat cemaneka if dh situasi kerja mmg jauh.

make your time "together" fun

Talking with your partner on the phone is precious time together for you. Ensure you do your bit to make it a fun call. cakap bende yg lalalalala.jgnla everyday call mengadu problem kerja, family problem, and segala problem yg ade.sometimes drg nak offload their work problem for a day ke nak talk sumthing fun n chill2 je.so, tak payah nak asyik2 every call remind both of u psl how hard to survive in LDR, or else asyik nangis2 "i rindu u, i rindu u,i rindu u".so ur partner serabut kot nanti.cerita bende yg fun, if let say ade yg tak puas hati ,tunggu dia balik, dh jumpa baru ckp (yes,i always do that) sbab tak nak burden ur partner mase jauh2.kadang2 tunggu dia balik,sekali dia dh blk tgk muka dia,langsung tak jadi ckp sbab alamakkk muke seposennn arrr balik dr jauh,cute jugak.takpela,lupekanlaa part dia ckp perut aku buncit dr dia ms kat phone haritu.hahaha.ini contoh. perut saye tak buncit ok! wekkkk. hahaha.

dealing with loneliness

get urself busy with something else people! like ur work, study, or hang out more often with ur friends or family. like for me mmg dulu balik kerja lambat giler, lepak2 with friends,since family jauh so pejam celik-pejam celik taddaaaa tetibe sampai time boyfie now hubby balik.kan kan?yes i understand missing ur partner is sometimes the hardest part of all in a LDR. When the phone’s gone down, or you haven’t been able to speak for a few days how do you deal with the loneliness that can sometimes creep up on you. memang serious kadang2 sbab kapal punye satellite out of prospect la apela.so, takpela,redha je.deal with it. i dulu mase bercinta lg besh, boyfie now hubby tu call seminggu skali, dh tunang baru 2-3hari skali,dha kawen 2kali sehari,dh ade anak baru everyday weh!ini fakta!korang boley survive boyfie call seminggu skali je?conversation yg len menerusi email or chat saje.saye boleh sebab saye a strong person.(sile ckp kt diri anda berkali-kai).haha.insyaAllah boleh.i pon bkn yg type mengada2 sgt, if dia nak call seminggu skali biarla, mls nak pk sgt.lgpon masa mula-mula mmgla serious tp xsure bley survive ke tak,lame-lame "alah bisa,tegal biase" bak kate org german.chill je la.hehehe.ouh n i dulu mmg sentiase membusykan diri dgn gi gym after work, join pole dance class, lepak with friends, maen squasy  and macam2la to kill the loneliness.kene la tough sikit dah ini jalan yg dipilih.memang selalu ckp dkt diri sendiri.

Appreciate small things

bila dah jauh2 tu kan apela sgt bende boleh buat kan?so, make small things count peeps!like bila u bgn pagi,dia dh ym u ckp "morning sunshine". so sile pk,ouh dia bgn pagi2 dh ingat aku. or else ms dia call u when: let say mom u sakit ke,kucing tergeliat kaki, die terus call sbab tau u sedih n try to calm u down ms dlm kejauhan tu.sile appreciate.jgn ckp "i really hope u were here with me ms kucing i jatuh tadi, i sedih,nape u takde sini.nape?nape?nape?" wahhhh.serabot paleotak partner anda camni.sebenarnye percayelah lelaki rase mcm loser giler bile xdpt buat anything for girlfren/wifey dia yg tgh sdey especially time jauh2 camtu. maka sila appreciate.silalah berusaha!hehe

TRUST YOUR PARTNER

ok,bende2 mcm ni memang payah nak decsribe pasal mase dah jauh2 tu,mula lah kepala pusing pk bukan-bukan.bende yg takde diada-adakan. happen to me few times pon,hehe.cudnt help myself sometimes.but over time kite belajarla kan utk percaye dkt org.at first memang susah,lama2 insyaAllah ok. dan berdoalah.itu saje yang mampu time jauh2 tu. and u ols pula sile jgn nak create scene like

"u tau tak,td i gi mkn kt yong tau fu ampang, ade srg mamat bg fon no,die ckp i cun"

"td boyfie si hajar ckp i cantik,die pandang i semacamla u"

"dkt office i ramai lelaki asyik bg i bunga, call i everyday,hish geramla i"

tak payahla buat bende2 mcm tu sbab nak attention frm ur partner yg jauh tu.tok sah la menyerabutkan kepala dia.1st thing dia pilih anda sbab dia tau anda comel dah. tk payah nak ulang 40ribu kali kot untuk menghighlight yg anda comel untuk dia sentiase beringat2 supaya anda x terlepas ke tgn org laen. and tak payah nak buat dia jealous adn sometimes bende2 mcmtu boleh lead to something yg kita takmo eg: ur partner tak trust u or else rasekan yg dia jauh,ramai org nak kat u,maka u better go to them.hahaha.time ni padan muke anda.sbab ur partner dh surrender.tula ,sape suruh mengade2?=p

okla, above tips memang ape yg share dkt u ols la kan.if got anything, jangan segan2 tambah!=)

update: got 1 more thing i guess.important ni.

Boolayan with other people assumptions

part ni mmg la kadang2 kite kene consider ape org ckp la kan.tp xyah la percaye lebih2 sangat.check sendiri.jgn percaye ckp org melulu n jgn pulak percaye ur partner 200%.everything kene investigate dulu. like mine, org selalu ckp "atas kapal tu bahaye weh, ade pompuan ramai,then drg bile balik darat terus gian pompuan,book ke hotel teros".

like hello, macamla aku tak pernah pergi offshore.tak payah nak ckp bende pelik2.got this 1 fler ni,dia dahla xpernah kerja offshore in fact xpernah kerja oil and gas pon tetibe ckp kt u "i know atas kapal,monthly drg supplier perempuan,dtg via chopper ke kapal,beshla org2 kapal".

well, hello ape kejadah company nak supply pompuan?ini bukan pekerjaan suak-suka,ini kerja 12jam busuk2 atas kapal bersihkan barnacles (uweeekkk), dlm coverall pergi back deck kerja poloh2,pastu offshift time nak tido,lepak,makan tgk dvd ,gym-ing or maen ping pong bang oi. i pon pernah gi offshore.yg ramai ialah lelaki,bukan pompuan. lawak giler bile org luar judge.siap ckp blk teros check in hotel.eh,i ade itenerary laki i laaaa dr die keluar kapal naik chopper,naik 2-3flights baru smpai rumah,semua ade.sent by company lg.nak melencong apenye.and if terdapat keraguan like certain time got cases yg hubby takley call in certain countries, and flight die have to reschedule psl tertinggal chopper bagai, i ade direct contact with company's coordinator utk check.org2 yg hati busuk camni jgn dilayan sbab memang xberpekdah. dia boyfie/laki ko,maka ko je yg paham kerja dia.and jgn pening2 kepala nak percaya org ckp bende karut2.lainla if kerja rig,let say kt vietnam,then seminggu turun rig drg lepak2 kt town itu ade possibility la.ini laki gue kerja kapal ok.KAPAL. maka if time port call pon kejap je naik darat and fyi, sgtla jarang nk stranded kt shore lame giler.if stranded lebih 3hari meh sini i fly brasil,besh gak jalan2 gi ipanema lepak2 kt beach dia.ahhhhhhhh (mcm besh nak suggest ni kt hubby for next anniversary.eh melalut=P) .

ok, peeps,daaaaaaaa

tips to handle baby on a long haul flight

hi, hi, hi

im no pro, but would like 2share few tips -handling baby on a long haul flight. yerp, we went to UK last and that was like a "wow, we meet again london and scotland aftr 3years, with my baby this time.how time flies!"..how was london&scotland?will make my blog lenghty n told ya bout the trip in the next entry. now lets go for the tips!=) as i said, im no pro,please help if you have additional advices or tips =)

1) try to avoid a super duper long haul flight like more than 3 hrs. for us, actually flight to Heathrow for 12hrs, then to aberdeen around 1hr.so total 13hrs.but we stopped over in dubai,so we took 6+6+1 hours flight. phew!

2) make sure (as usual) baby foods, breastmilks or formula milk, plain water are in the baby bag all the time. yes in flight they can served u with the milk and plain water,this one is in case baby lapar kat terminal ke kan. for me i didnt bring much EBM this time just bg supply on demand je.bwk EBM just few je.maleh.haha.

3) ok, during landing and take off try breastfeed baby or let baby chew something or give baby drinks ke, it'd help to relive baby's ear pressure during take-off and landing and for Azriff this time i didnt brest feed him, its either this is his 2nd time in flight experience or because of the pilot was smart enough in making smooth landing and take off,which the pressure gradually chaged during take off and landing,not changed drastically which can course worse ear pressure's effect.auch!


4) hug&play with ur baby during take off and landing.calm him down if he cries.

 

5) yes, just bear with the 10kgs baby and pagku him sepanjang dia tidur.zzzzz.kebas tangan ok!few ppl asked me y i didnt take extra seat. i) because its gonna be normal price like my tix, membaziq! haha. ii) because Azriff still cant seat properly, nanti takut effect backbone dia, he still needs car seat bile naik kereta, tak boleh just pakai seat belt je.the possibility for him utk gelincir turun is tooo high!hehe. iii) actually we thought he still can sleeps in the bassinet.but obviously NO!he's longer than bassinet.so how!haha.

6)     makan time!

7) let him play on the floor, most babies dont like to be carried all the time, they need time for themselves, they want to play with their toys or something.just let em free for a while. but be careful la kan, jgn pulak biar je baby lepas terus dlm flight,silap2 sampai kt kokpit, terkejut pilot.hahhaa.

8) ok, so after few minutes playing on the floor, he bored already, now he wants to go panjat2 and play with daddy.obviously nak main ape yg daddy pakai kt telinga tu (earphone)

9) ok,he wanted to play with the remote.its his new toy for now!

10) ok,nak tgk movie pulak!

11) ok,makannnnnnngggg lagi! yes azriff eats a lotttttt.no wonder more than 10kgs now!

12) ok nak maen dkt bawah! biar aje!

13) so, we are enjoying our in flight dinner and azriff's playing with his toys joyously!

14) ok, seat belt what? thish ish mys toyyysssshhhh!

hope tips above will help u guys a bit la kan=) for babies yg menanigs je in flight, i seriously do not know what to do since Azriff dia auper duper happy if berjalan, if meragam pon a little bit, not much.nangis sikit2 sbab lapar or nak tukar toys or to change environment dia nak maen. tu je la. Alhamdulillah. if got situations like baby nangis all the time, maybe because baby still tka biase with new environment,take time for baby to adapt with new situation, kene try slowly and cuba bace ayat kursi, insyaAllah will be ok=)

till then, taaaaa.

mi familia

iftar -felda villa restaurant - family

pink is our theme =)

before dat: shopped at pavillion

i call it "a perfect day wif my family"

cheers

*ache*

*pole dance progress*

i can do the serpent now =) *happy mode*
will be struggling to do scorpio next....

but i need to practice more, to get myself "into" every movement that ive learned .
im rarely go to the class,
always skip summore. sigh. malaskan?
and i dont have a pole, that's the main reason y i always fail to perform well,
as i said to get myself doing well in this thing, i need to practice more and more.

cant wait to live in the house wif a pole attached to the d'ceiling..
most probably by end of this year kan baby? =P

Ramadhan is cominggggg..happy ramadhan all - semoga Ramadhan kali ini penuh makna...insyaALLAH.

the Diary: Our sweet, sour, bitter 14 days....=)

recap : me & fiance's activity for the whole last 2 weeks
since: after kursus kahwin -


dinner wif fiance's family at tupai2.
the steamboat taste realllyy goood.!
yummydelicious~~ woohooo...

katie got extra bonuses this month!
so, all the gurls got free marco's pizza-hooray!
*congratz katie n thanks a lot*
lucky u having the bonus, me? uwaaa..... dont ask! pathetic! i wish i have bonus2 as well.

-reunite after more than 2 years- thanks to d'ladies-

-Dudes-

then,i took 2 days off last week to settle my wedding thingy.
we chased time and seemed like 24 hours per day is not enough for us, i wish i have more time for our wedding preparation and on top of it, i really hope mr fiance will be in mesia longer than 2weeks. but.....
nvm, up to today, we managed to settle few things :

1) had meeting with our wedding planners for both side, confirm about or theme (our theme wont be revealed now,will let you guys find out-by attending our wedding) , colour, wedding costumes and make up. - so for both side-DONE!

2) HIV test, borang nikah,- filled up!-DONE! (but didnt get approval from imam yet, he told mr fiance to come again in october because the validation date for nikah form itu will only last for 3 months. so, better submit it in october- see malaysia punye birokrasi- grrrrrr

3) Hantaran stuffs - for wedding it'll be 9th-11th. we've got all the things except for 3 things -so, more or less 85% done la kan ?am i right?

okie, continue with the update- so, i took 2 days off (thursday and friday, we bz-ed ourselves with HIV test, *i got the long story for this*- d'day bfore i took day off, mr fiance showed fever and flu symptoms, so i advised him to go see doc, but he hesitated to go and insisted it was a normal flu & fever. so, i told him,if his condition getting worse,we need to go to clinic asap n he agreed. so, ok, we went for our HIV test. after the process done ( thank GOD we r free from HIV), we were about to step out from hosp and suddenly he collapsed on d'bangku2 kt hosp tu. i was shocked. asking the guard and people there to call doc. then sum1 came wif a wheelchair and i still holding my fiance , i looked at him, his lips & face turned white.very pale. ok, "dont panic i told myself", so i gave all infos to the d'doc, like he' juz coming back from US last week, he had fever and flue since yesterday and bla,bla,bla....they checked his BP, sugar and heart beat. dr claimed he had low sugar level( hipoglisemia- mind my spelling-keke) . he was half conscious. and dr asked whether he ate anything since morning, he said no. ceh! geram beta! bley plak tk makan since morning, if he's in healthy condition, i dont mind, but he was having flu and fever at that time.so, dr said, " kene masuk glukos la ni". mr fiance tros segar when he imagined the big needle and jab? whoaaa, patrick sgtla allergy.-hahaha.lawak2... trs die ckp "no, im ok"... then, i ran to petronas nearby n bought him 2 buns, mineral water and milo. dr n nurses let him rest for few minutes bfore another checked up and after that, they measure again BP, heart beat n sugar level, n they satisfied with the improvement of those, so, they allowed him to go home. then we straight away drove to pavillion, met my wedding planner ,talking & discussing & bla,bla,bla, only after 2 hours later we had proper food at madam kwan's (sian mr fiance, lepas sakit tros kene gi discuss2 n pk2 pasal wedding, then br makan).
then, around 1900hrs, we packed our stuffs and drove all the way to malacca. of course i drove that night since mr fiance wasnt feeling well. almost 2200hrs we arrived at malacca, planed to visit our kiosk, but mom already do the closing. so, juz straight away go to mom's. porridge and chicken soup was ready for mr fiance (my mom mmg bias dkt encik fiance, bile tau die sakit,tros je prepare food for him, cube kalau i..harapan!), then we watched CSI miami (abang HHHHHHHHHHHHHHH =P), ceh sekali tk mati pon, tipu btol. then we went to sleep.

the next day, we went to malacca mall, visited our kiosk, big boss eager nk tgk kiosk die, then he checked the cleanliness,arrangement of the things like this thing need to be in first compartment, that 1 should be on the left side, bla,bla.. (tell you he's more concern bout food quality,cleanliness and stuffs arrangement than money that we've got that day, so i checked stocks in and out, money in and out and many thingsla we discussed and plan to improve few things in future.
then, we had lunch at grannny's. grandpa siang2 dah kopekkan kelape mude untuk mr fiance yg demam, and grandma cooked us few kampong dishes. kami makan joyously. hehe. then, borak2, gelak2 n my baby di served with biscuit kampong tu, alaaa, yellow colour ,thick, n hard biscuits but when u dip it into hot water, it taste better than its look. then we headed to mom's. we planed to go back to to kl that evening (thursday), because we have another meeting wif nurul shukor d'next day. but bfore that, we went to clinic nearby mommy's home, bf got examined, dr confirmed he got high fever-seee, degil,awal2 tkmo pi jumpe dr. so,again i drove back to kl.

big boss checkin' the kiosk





- gambar ini hanyalah dapat dilihat bila anda berada di kawasan perkampungan-

-mommy and grandma- kami adalah keluarge yg tak akan gemok!hehehehe-insyaALLAH.

patrick bermesra2an dgn grandpa-kene belajarla kan


our reflections


serious nak focus kt grandpa's kebun but patrcik selalu ngelat focus kt die =P


my baby wif booties-haha

the next day, P.A nurul last minte told us the meeting will be postponed to sunday.sigh - if we knew it earlier,we'll stay at mommy's much longer. but nvm, mr fiance had a good rest dat day, he spent the whole friday morning and evening on bed and at night we went to his parent's.

on saturday -was our hantaran hunting day- ouh, we went to dzull de classique first. tempah babju melayu for nikah n baju kurung for khatam Quran. then we went to starhill galllery and pavillion -shopped for our hantaran. after 6hours melepak di pavillion, we realized that we spent...err... biasela, for us yg tak biase wif branded stuffs and spending that much money perday, so for us its quite like..whoaaaa...wth? and when i placed my palm on patrick's forehead "baby demam lagi,panas ni?", "mane tk panas syg, banyak keluar duet today"..
ngeeee- so better the kasut hantaran, ill buy by my own, nanti patrcik pengsan when he look at the figures (ouh,im not gonna buy damne luxury brand for heels, its just you knowla patrcik ni tk biase, some time not too expensive pon,but he still thinks its expensive), i dont know what's the limit for my hantaran heels, patrick didnt say bout the price limit yet, but i think im gonna propose the price to patrick,if he didnt agree, then better i buy it by myself. ouh, we bought his mom and dad a handbag n wallet for hari raya (see, bakal menantu yg baik, reminding patrick to buy new things for his parents-heheheh)
then, at nite lepakin' at william's wif d'gurls (nadia and azwa) n then droped by at mina's, then balik rumah.

On sunday, i went to the office,checked jobs running and submitting jobs and then off to fiance's sister's. at first, i planed to cook few dishes for patrick n the family, but plan changed last minute due to unavoidable reasons, kekekee..ended up patrick's sister served us wif her nasi ayam. menarik kannn..kekekke....

then,we went to nurul shukur touch, confimed n discussed bout this n that... for our wedding of course... then, we had dinner at yong tau fu.

so, dats it laaa....the story for d'last 2 weeks until yesterday.until d'day i sent him to KLIA, sacrifice again for his work. yerp, for d'next 5 weeks.may he reach monarch safely. we had pretty tight schedule for 2 weeks, but we had quality time together, we shared our own moments, wasnt juz a happy part,we shared our sad, sick time and involved ourselves in a lil arguement as well- yeah,that's d'true colours of relationship.we shared everything. it seems perfect. because we cherish each other and we being thankful to GOD for who we r. we never expected more than what we have now. and because we care, we love and we appreciate each other..Muccchhhhhhh!

i love you baby.I really DO.

1st anniversary =) 01012009

hehehe..lazy blogger..today only update bout occasion that happened like almost 5 months ago
dig out all my old pics in d-considered-as-old-portable-hard-disk as well,
ive found memorable pics of me n mr bf =)
our 1st anniversary early january 2009.
we had a romantic dinner at kl tower. my treat!
*comelkan saye-kekekke*

i requested him to wear exactly d'same attire like during our fist met.
*we met and officially talked to each other during slb's year end party (2007) at ritz carlton hotel*- additional info-hehe.
ok you can go browse this entry D'blast 1, and you'll notice dress i wore dat nite.

so,yerp, after we had cosy & romantic dinner there, we went home
and then he proposed me to be as his wife..whoaa..
dat story will be in another entry =) -giler potong..kekekkeke..

then, he showed me "nice thing" he bought from US, (ouh, we had an issue on dat bag few days before)- i memang spoilt d'surprise.yess it should be a surprise thing for me, but i ruin it.
ampun sayang - tk buat lagi dah.. apelagi, dat lil browny coach tu laa..supe nice!
ade taste jugak bf saye rupenye -hehhhe..
*for me la kan, if u guys think d'other way around,whut to do* hehehhe..

ouh,anyway just finished my pole dance class...super duper fantastic!
i think im gonna like it more!!!wuuwuwuwu...
it just i need a lil bit more time to catch up few difficult steps, ill try harder next time..
and seems like i need dat tiang!it gonna be as my best buddy when mr bf isnt around.
*baby, i want dat pole-pleaseeeee* -wink-
i cant post any video of my pole dancing in here
mr bf doesnt allow me to do so, keep it for himself he said..
yess, baby u gonna watch me play around wif dat tiang..sooon... on december.kekekeke..
another few months je kan? =P

okie, okie pics of ours-1st anniversay...

table no. je =P

My treat baby-eat as much as u can -hehehe

happily being together for a year and 4 months now =)

tetibe nampak winter park..laan jerk...was for xmas kot

our theme: whiteyyy

mY second coach for last year =)

thanks to baby

biasela tu, a couple yg suke berposing depan cam =P

ok peeps, niteyyy....