how to survive long distance relationship (LDR)

for those who are in a LDR and managed to survive successfully so far,i wish you: congratulations.
for me who have been years (ckp mcm lameee giler,padahal its just 4years baru=P) in LDR and can attests : it was hard in the beginning but as time passes by, im getting used to it and Alhamdulillah im going through this calmly and patiently and become more understanding on how to make things work for both sides.makin lame makin pro bak kate org tua2=P

ok, below are my tips actually more to my opinion on how to survive in LDR. if saudara saudari sekalian got extra tips, u r most welcome to add here and there and share with me=)

so, i think first and foremost as usual, UNDERSTANDING:which is the most important part.

understand ur partner's job/situation:

bila dah jauh2 tu,kenela faham2 situations org dekat sana.eg: he/she is there for study, work etc.
mostly because of those 2 right? so, list down priority students and employees of certain companies.
eg: dia ade mase 24hrs ke nak mengadap lappie,in short nak mengadap fb,ym berchatting dgn ko srgje, mcm xde kerja laen nak buat. then xpayahla yg ko pon mengade2 nak ngadap lappie je 24jam tungggu dia online. bawak2la buat kerja laen.eg: memasak,buat tocang rambut,ketip kuku....etc etc...
actually part ni was hard in the beginning, mase kt office pon dulu2 i online psl tunggu si dia online and chat with me.end up both online tp xsempat bertegur sape or borak sepatah dua psl xmenyempat siapkan kerja.macammm hampeh!

getting to know your partner

yela kan zaman2 mase mula2 nak bercinta and in LDR plak confirm u ols memang nak full attention, rase nak dia spend time to chat with u or talk to u on d'phone whole day (ni mostly ladiesla), but pleasela understand ur partner's routine, habit and tabiat! sebab as for certain males yg xberape nak sensitive eg: my hubby, my hubby, my hubby, dr mula2 zmn bercinta mmg jenis bukan bercinta mcm nak rak.meaning dia kerja on shift kt offshore nun for 12 hrs straight, then 12hrs la d'other time nak tidoq,makan,lepak wif frens atas kapal,basuh bj bagai. so aftr work mmg he'll on his ym but xla ngadap je nak chat ngn i.kdg2 tgh chat dia, mcm dia diam skejap,tyn gi mane.ckp gi gym.ek eleh bgtaula siang2 kan? xpon, bc paper online.wahhhhh,geram seyyy i dok ngadap laptop ni mcm nak msk dlm lappie die bley bc online paper.at 1st mmg susah gakla (actually xla susah sgt if krg dpt boyfie yg type dia xbc paper, xgi gym, xlepak ngn kawan2,dunia dia ialah work n u.so memang heavenla u.pas keje je mesti dia ngadap u sampai tertido atas lappie. and org2 camni mostly perot buncit.hahahhaa.so, better my boyfie going to d'gymla and socialize wf his friend.saye rela.kekekee.give him boy time la jugak kan.so silalah fahami ape yg partner anda suka and tak. but the most important thing is toleransi.waahhhh, toleransi tuuuu.hehe. if krg tak bley accept and mmg very clingy xbley accept ur partner's life dekat sane mmg susahla.it somehow can add a whole lot of stress to your already strained couplehood. so chill-chill saja.

DO NOT COMPARE YOUR PARTNER/RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS

ok, this part kene stress kan cket because u will always surrounded with friends yg ala-ala sedang bercinta jugak.so nanti mmg u'll always face situations like:

situasi satu:
"td kereta i rosak, kamal dtg tolong repair u,sweet kan, dia dr penang tros turun kl tu nk betolkan tyre i yg rosak punye pasal"

padahal yg u ols plak kenela terhegeh2 tukar tyre sendiri, or else call AAM ke ape, or worst dok situ srg2 berjam2 sementare tunggu rescue.hahaha.
so,silela ade mental yg kuat and make preparation dulu for few things. tak payah compare, ckp dlm hati biarla, boyfie dia dekat,selalu ade dgn dia,romantic lg terus turun dr penang tinggalkan sup hameed yg sedap tu semata2 nk tolong dtg tgk kereta ko rosak, padahal dtg2 tu call mechanic je keja dia, tu bley buat sendiri kot

so tak payah pk sangat, things happen and find ways to solve it.dont blame situations especially ur LDR. like me i mmg know how to tukar tyr kereta since bwk satria kt ukm dulu, bcoz i know i srg2 kt kl,and xsuka if kene susahkan boyfie bab ni.ouh i mmg ade 1 perangai yg bile susah2 i xsuke call boyfie dulu, i suke call my bestfriend .yerp a guy ms kt ukm.so mcm tula, silela belajar few things untuk survive.tukar try bukan susah sgt.tapiii skrgni i rs kene take time la if nk suruh i tukar tyre sbab ms kerja terus beli kereta yg  ade tyre RFT( run flat tyre).hahahah.so,bab2 tukar mmg dah lame xberlaku. RFT if ade symbol pancit kt kereta bley drive lg dlm 100km cmtu. so lalalalalala.heheheh. takpela, jgn nak mengada2 sgt,make it as ur own knowledge, guys will find the woman with brain is HOT!heh! dulu mase i dgn hubby deting detong i la yg ajar dia nk tukar tyre, tolong dia pilih rim tyre, hubby i dulu mmg jenis tk give a dam sgt psl baru2 kerja n baru dpt kete,so advantage kepada sy disitu=P

situasi dua:

"ouh my, boyfie hanna giler romantic and cool, mase birthday dia ,boyfie dia dtg senyap2 dkt her house,bwk bunga and then teros bawak shopping you.sekali handbag chanel boyfie die zass utk dia!"

takpe, situasi ini memang akan membuatkan u ols rase nak menitik-nitik-nitik air mata sbab rase besh la kan if ade surprise cmtu (eh ke besh pasal ade part chanel disitu?).hahaha. so, silelah jgn mengharapkan situasi2 seperti ini berlaku.be realistic la cket. cemaneka boyfie anda nk dtg tiba-tiba wat surprise dpn rumah on ur bithday sedangkan u ols sedia maklum dia jauh nun di perantauan.so,jangan nak pening2kan diri nak2 bg i yg mmg tau schedule boyfie now hubby psl kerja secompany ni.so redha jela dgn "happy birthday sayang" -kat tepon or paling sadis kt screen ym je.haha.ape ade hal.gua tough "sile ckp kt diri sendiri berulang kali".hahahah.

situasi tiga:

"i pg td si zack hantar gi kerja, lunch nanti dgn dia, balik dia ambil, malam lepak2 kat rasta dgn dia n kawan2 dia"

ini clingy tahap serious!dr pg smpai petang semuala nak bersama.so,sila abaikan jika ade kawan2 anda begitu.being clingy bukan care hidup anda.give each other some space and jgn compare dgn org laen.maybe mereka selesa dgn care begitu tp anda tak mungkin face the same situation.maka redha la.tak semua org same.takpe berjauhan dulu skrg,insyaAllah if panjang umur murah rezeki, hari tua dapat bersama-sama.


share the burden

part ni like krg kadang2 share la wif partner krg betapa rindunya, sayangnya krg kt dia but sometimes sedih jugak pasal anda berdua thousands miles away jauhnya.sobs sobs. maka beruntunglah anda if dpt partner yg "i jugak rindu u,sayang u ,kalaula bukan pasla kerja/study ,lautan pacific,atlantic,lautan nil ni i redah semata2 nak bersama dgn sayang yg comel,cun,hot dsb". menangis kegembiraan la anda dpt boyfie yg romantic tahap gaban cmtu, boyfie i yg merangkap hubby i skrg ni,ms dolu-dolu if i ckp cmtu die ckp "alaaa,sekejap je bukan lame, ramai lg org laen camni,ok je,lame2 biasela tu". so sile hantukkan kepala anda ke dinding dgn harapan dpt trus melupakan tentang part dia yg tak berapa nak romantic tu.in short, redha jelaaa.haha. tapi sekali sekala ckp la gak kat dia kan,dia bukannya takde perasaan.actually dia kat sane pon serabut gak,nak gak balik rumah jumpa mak ayah,u ols and member2 dia,tp nak buat cemaneka if dh situasi kerja mmg jauh.

make your time "together" fun

Talking with your partner on the phone is precious time together for you. Ensure you do your bit to make it a fun call. cakap bende yg lalalalala.jgnla everyday call mengadu problem kerja, family problem, and segala problem yg ade.sometimes drg nak offload their work problem for a day ke nak talk sumthing fun n chill2 je.so, tak payah nak asyik2 every call remind both of u psl how hard to survive in LDR, or else asyik nangis2 "i rindu u, i rindu u,i rindu u".so ur partner serabut kot nanti.cerita bende yg fun, if let say ade yg tak puas hati ,tunggu dia balik, dh jumpa baru ckp (yes,i always do that) sbab tak nak burden ur partner mase jauh2.kadang2 tunggu dia balik,sekali dia dh blk tgk muka dia,langsung tak jadi ckp sbab alamakkk muke seposennn arrr balik dr jauh,cute jugak.takpela,lupekanlaa part dia ckp perut aku buncit dr dia ms kat phone haritu.hahaha.ini contoh. perut saye tak buncit ok! wekkkk. hahaha.

dealing with loneliness

get urself busy with something else people! like ur work, study, or hang out more often with ur friends or family. like for me mmg dulu balik kerja lambat giler, lepak2 with friends,since family jauh so pejam celik-pejam celik taddaaaa tetibe sampai time boyfie now hubby balik.kan kan?yes i understand missing ur partner is sometimes the hardest part of all in a LDR. When the phone’s gone down, or you haven’t been able to speak for a few days how do you deal with the loneliness that can sometimes creep up on you. memang serious kadang2 sbab kapal punye satellite out of prospect la apela.so, takpela,redha je.deal with it. i dulu mase bercinta lg besh, boyfie now hubby tu call seminggu skali, dh tunang baru 2-3hari skali,dha kawen 2kali sehari,dh ade anak baru everyday weh!ini fakta!korang boley survive boyfie call seminggu skali je?conversation yg len menerusi email or chat saje.saye boleh sebab saye a strong person.(sile ckp kt diri anda berkali-kai).haha.insyaAllah boleh.i pon bkn yg type mengada2 sgt, if dia nak call seminggu skali biarla, mls nak pk sgt.lgpon masa mula-mula mmgla serious tp xsure bley survive ke tak,lame-lame "alah bisa,tegal biase" bak kate org german.chill je la.hehehe.ouh n i dulu mmg sentiase membusykan diri dgn gi gym after work, join pole dance class, lepak with friends, maen squasy  and macam2la to kill the loneliness.kene la tough sikit dah ini jalan yg dipilih.memang selalu ckp dkt diri sendiri.

Appreciate small things

bila dah jauh2 tu kan apela sgt bende boleh buat kan?so, make small things count peeps!like bila u bgn pagi,dia dh ym u ckp "morning sunshine". so sile pk,ouh dia bgn pagi2 dh ingat aku. or else ms dia call u when: let say mom u sakit ke,kucing tergeliat kaki, die terus call sbab tau u sedih n try to calm u down ms dlm kejauhan tu.sile appreciate.jgn ckp "i really hope u were here with me ms kucing i jatuh tadi, i sedih,nape u takde sini.nape?nape?nape?" wahhhh.serabot paleotak partner anda camni.sebenarnye percayelah lelaki rase mcm loser giler bile xdpt buat anything for girlfren/wifey dia yg tgh sdey especially time jauh2 camtu. maka sila appreciate.silalah berusaha!hehe

TRUST YOUR PARTNER

ok,bende2 mcm ni memang payah nak decsribe pasal mase dah jauh2 tu,mula lah kepala pusing pk bukan-bukan.bende yg takde diada-adakan. happen to me few times pon,hehe.cudnt help myself sometimes.but over time kite belajarla kan utk percaye dkt org.at first memang susah,lama2 insyaAllah ok. dan berdoalah.itu saje yang mampu time jauh2 tu. and u ols pula sile jgn nak create scene like

"u tau tak,td i gi mkn kt yong tau fu ampang, ade srg mamat bg fon no,die ckp i cun"

"td boyfie si hajar ckp i cantik,die pandang i semacamla u"

"dkt office i ramai lelaki asyik bg i bunga, call i everyday,hish geramla i"

tak payahla buat bende2 mcm tu sbab nak attention frm ur partner yg jauh tu.tok sah la menyerabutkan kepala dia.1st thing dia pilih anda sbab dia tau anda comel dah. tk payah nak ulang 40ribu kali kot untuk menghighlight yg anda comel untuk dia sentiase beringat2 supaya anda x terlepas ke tgn org laen. and tak payah nak buat dia jealous adn sometimes bende2 mcmtu boleh lead to something yg kita takmo eg: ur partner tak trust u or else rasekan yg dia jauh,ramai org nak kat u,maka u better go to them.hahaha.time ni padan muke anda.sbab ur partner dh surrender.tula ,sape suruh mengade2?=p

okla, above tips memang ape yg share dkt u ols la kan.if got anything, jangan segan2 tambah!=)

update: got 1 more thing i guess.important ni.

Boolayan with other people assumptions

part ni mmg la kadang2 kite kene consider ape org ckp la kan.tp xyah la percaye lebih2 sangat.check sendiri.jgn percaye ckp org melulu n jgn pulak percaye ur partner 200%.everything kene investigate dulu. like mine, org selalu ckp "atas kapal tu bahaye weh, ade pompuan ramai,then drg bile balik darat terus gian pompuan,book ke hotel teros".

like hello, macamla aku tak pernah pergi offshore.tak payah nak ckp bende pelik2.got this 1 fler ni,dia dahla xpernah kerja offshore in fact xpernah kerja oil and gas pon tetibe ckp kt u "i know atas kapal,monthly drg supplier perempuan,dtg via chopper ke kapal,beshla org2 kapal".

well, hello ape kejadah company nak supply pompuan?ini bukan pekerjaan suak-suka,ini kerja 12jam busuk2 atas kapal bersihkan barnacles (uweeekkk), dlm coverall pergi back deck kerja poloh2,pastu offshift time nak tido,lepak,makan tgk dvd ,gym-ing or maen ping pong bang oi. i pon pernah gi offshore.yg ramai ialah lelaki,bukan pompuan. lawak giler bile org luar judge.siap ckp blk teros check in hotel.eh,i ade itenerary laki i laaaa dr die keluar kapal naik chopper,naik 2-3flights baru smpai rumah,semua ade.sent by company lg.nak melencong apenye.and if terdapat keraguan like certain time got cases yg hubby takley call in certain countries, and flight die have to reschedule psl tertinggal chopper bagai, i ade direct contact with company's coordinator utk check.org2 yg hati busuk camni jgn dilayan sbab memang xberpekdah. dia boyfie/laki ko,maka ko je yg paham kerja dia.and jgn pening2 kepala nak percaya org ckp bende karut2.lainla if kerja rig,let say kt vietnam,then seminggu turun rig drg lepak2 kt town itu ade possibility la.ini laki gue kerja kapal ok.KAPAL. maka if time port call pon kejap je naik darat and fyi, sgtla jarang nk stranded kt shore lame giler.if stranded lebih 3hari meh sini i fly brasil,besh gak jalan2 gi ipanema lepak2 kt beach dia.ahhhhhhhh (mcm besh nak suggest ni kt hubby for next anniversary.eh melalut=P) .

ok, peeps,daaaaaaaa

past and present....

ok, fine.

am feeling depressed/sad all of a sudden!why ouh why? maybe i can whatt??? blame the hormones!yes!haha.kesian jadi hormon asyik kene blame.

ok,come to think of pimple, ill give huge-huge sigh to all the pimples on me face! seriously. if la pimples2 ni bley ckp kt diri mereka "eh biarla kasi can muka minah ni licin setahun" confirm i buat kenduri=P like seriously!

tried sooo many products from cheap to expensive ones but still no changes. dulu2 mase anak dareeeeee...anak dareee ok, pimples jarang nak singgah2 kt muka psl makan hormone pills Dr ting yg famous tu. his clinic situated at jalan imbi. but since after kawen ,takkan pulak nak makan hormone pills nanti takut xdpt baby. ni dah dpt baby, takot makan pills psl nak breastfeed baby,takot effect ke ape (eh xcheck plak with docs kan?bley ke tak ek?. then next year tak bley jugak amek pills because rase-rase mcm nak beranak lg (eh seriously kerja beranak je ke kau?) my frens always ask me that.so bilenye kulit nak smooth like a baby'?haha. well,different org differentla planningnye kan.insyaAllah if ade rezeki =). so godek2 balik pics lame2, dapatla pics time muka tak berape nak ade pimples like skrg, pic skrg krg tak pyahla tgk, sebab baik post pics Azriff kot dr diri sendiri.wuwuwu.

                                             ini masa dating!eh miss that long wavy hair!

inside the cable car.langkawi. zaman2 bercinta.

ok,pics ni mmg sangat sukeeee sbab menampakkan ciri2 kayuan pada seorang yg tak ayu.haha *eh prasan*

1st time got prezzie frm boyfie (now hubby).sweet giler ok.auuwwww=P

berposing ngn "coach" sbab sepanjang kerja xrase nk beli pon,rase membaziq!tp bile boyfie(now hubby) belikan senyum sampai telinge. this time i was 24.wahh muda kan? kan? haha

bab products pulak mcm2 dah try, dr yg made in malaysia, Japan,US bagai.mcm hampeh semua xjadi. *ini fakta seidh sila nangis beramai2*. sobs. products yg i dh try:

1) felissa cosmetics -ok jugak actually product ni pakai ms zaman2 study but the peeling part was too agressive.sakit ok.so stop mase kerja.

2) alken -langsung tak ok!

3) olay - tidak memberikan kesan langsung!

4) tia emilia - ok jugak but after 6 mos dah immune n not working at all.


5) SK2 -pffft!hate this.u buy expnsive products and it was just not match with ur skin type.the pitera was like triggered the pimples to come out more often then it should be!saddddd.


6) took new york skin solutions treatment. it was like everytime pergi ad eje bende kene beli n muka tak ok2 jugak.the heck kan? so, memang benci giler,now just pergi for normal facial je since dah byr beribu2 for the treatment kan.wasted!

well,if u u n u got any suggestions on how to get perfect flawless skin, please do not hesitate to share with me.am dying to get flawless skin.pretty please =) thank youuuuuuu.

tips to handle baby on a long haul flight

hi, hi, hi

im no pro, but would like 2share few tips -handling baby on a long haul flight. yerp, we went to UK last and that was like a "wow, we meet again london and scotland aftr 3years, with my baby this time.how time flies!"..how was london&scotland?will make my blog lenghty n told ya bout the trip in the next entry. now lets go for the tips!=) as i said, im no pro,please help if you have additional advices or tips =)

1) try to avoid a super duper long haul flight like more than 3 hrs. for us, actually flight to Heathrow for 12hrs, then to aberdeen around 1hr.so total 13hrs.but we stopped over in dubai,so we took 6+6+1 hours flight. phew!

2) make sure (as usual) baby foods, breastmilks or formula milk, plain water are in the baby bag all the time. yes in flight they can served u with the milk and plain water,this one is in case baby lapar kat terminal ke kan. for me i didnt bring much EBM this time just bg supply on demand je.bwk EBM just few je.maleh.haha.

3) ok, during landing and take off try breastfeed baby or let baby chew something or give baby drinks ke, it'd help to relive baby's ear pressure during take-off and landing and for Azriff this time i didnt brest feed him, its either this is his 2nd time in flight experience or because of the pilot was smart enough in making smooth landing and take off,which the pressure gradually chaged during take off and landing,not changed drastically which can course worse ear pressure's effect.auch!


4) hug&play with ur baby during take off and landing.calm him down if he cries.

 

5) yes, just bear with the 10kgs baby and pagku him sepanjang dia tidur.zzzzz.kebas tangan ok!few ppl asked me y i didnt take extra seat. i) because its gonna be normal price like my tix, membaziq! haha. ii) because Azriff still cant seat properly, nanti takut effect backbone dia, he still needs car seat bile naik kereta, tak boleh just pakai seat belt je.the possibility for him utk gelincir turun is tooo high!hehe. iii) actually we thought he still can sleeps in the bassinet.but obviously NO!he's longer than bassinet.so how!haha.

6)     makan time!

7) let him play on the floor, most babies dont like to be carried all the time, they need time for themselves, they want to play with their toys or something.just let em free for a while. but be careful la kan, jgn pulak biar je baby lepas terus dlm flight,silap2 sampai kt kokpit, terkejut pilot.hahhaa.

8) ok, so after few minutes playing on the floor, he bored already, now he wants to go panjat2 and play with daddy.obviously nak main ape yg daddy pakai kt telinga tu (earphone)

9) ok,he wanted to play with the remote.its his new toy for now!

10) ok,nak tgk movie pulak!

11) ok,makannnnnnngggg lagi! yes azriff eats a lotttttt.no wonder more than 10kgs now!

12) ok nak maen dkt bawah! biar aje!

13) so, we are enjoying our in flight dinner and azriff's playing with his toys joyously!

14) ok, seat belt what? thish ish mys toyyysssshhhh!

hope tips above will help u guys a bit la kan=) for babies yg menanigs je in flight, i seriously do not know what to do since Azriff dia auper duper happy if berjalan, if meragam pon a little bit, not much.nangis sikit2 sbab lapar or nak tukar toys or to change environment dia nak maen. tu je la. Alhamdulillah. if got situations like baby nangis all the time, maybe because baby still tka biase with new environment,take time for baby to adapt with new situation, kene try slowly and cuba bace ayat kursi, insyaAllah will be ok=)

till then, taaaaa.

7billions

ok,this is cool.want to know ur no? if korang nak tau korang no brape dlm dunia ni,maka silalah ke website and check.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-15391515

The world at seven billion

As the world population reaches seven billion people, the BBC's Mike Gallagher asks whether efforts to control population have been, as some critics claim, a form of authoritarian control over the world's poorest citizens.

my no is:

4,815,819,539

hubby's no is:

4,722,606,029

Azriff's no is:

6,943,746,214

ok,this no might be wrong la kan.the chances to be right is tooo low since this just based on assumption. plus this for registered populations only, how bout those who are unregistered? but takpela, just for fun!

on things that matters to me....

hi all

its been ages since my last update.always remind myself to blog more often but fail tremendously.ouh God huge no-no to my laziness and always claim tak larat to update blog after been very busy whole day. well, nway, will try to update more frequent after this *ouh yes, another promises.wuwwuwu. till then. happy birthday sweetheart saya mr Azman Azis=)

the collection of Hard rock T

holla peeps,

these are my HRC T collection =)

whenever im going abroad,its a must for me to stop by at HRC and buy the Tshirt.

adding up the tshirt collection and try to not miss it everytime we r traveling.heheehe.

unless if the country has no HRC. special case.

d'lucky 7. yerp got HRC membership card skali. cna get discount worlwide woo

HRC singapore

HRC London

HRC Surfers paradise - gold coast

HRC Amsterdam

HRC Paris

HRC Oslo- Norway

HRC Bali

HRC gotteberg -Sweeden

taa peeps. got class and mid term exam.wish me luck! =)

xx

p/s:HRC didnt pay me a single cent pon,awat aku pi iklan tshirt drg?hahaha

the P.A.C.I.F.I.E.R

heh,

when it comes to this topic,many of u will say no to the P.

because maybe some of u takot ur kids gonna have protruding teeth or double teeth ke ape kan.

but for us, we dont mind,no la dont mind bout the "jongang" part.

but our parents told us, "korang dulu hisap puting smpai besar,tak jongang pon".weeeee.

so,Alhamdulillah we have beautiful straight teeth.ngeeeeee.hahahaa*terpuji diri sendiri*

both of us memang takyah pakai braces ke ape.so, what we think is,if keturunan xjongang,

insyaAllah tak "J".wahhh,,dat simple maaa?hehe.

actually malas nak lyn,as i said,ms dlm pantang hafto amek exam bagai,so mmg nak senang je...baby nangis,bg puting.but mase baby tido,tarik balik puting tu.dats d'secret of takmo bg baby "J" kot (thats what my MIL told me la,scientific proven?dunno.haha).

plus, when Azriff drinks his milk (using bottle).sumtime he falls asleep while drinking, dah bgn,tepuk2 dia,then dia nak lg susu.about 1oz then tido blk,takmo kejut dia.o just msk puting,make sure he sucks the pacifier so that i know yg dia tak simpan air dlm mulut.(p/s:this situation depends ok,if baby already drink bout 3-5oz,silela tepuk.im talking bout when he drinks very little amount je,yg sumbat puting.malas kejut dia.hehe).

another 1 thing psl i xsuke sgt die melekap kat big BB.serious xsuke.nanti susah nk buat kerja, and another 1 thing bcoz i paaaaliiingggggg TAK sukaaaaaa if baby nangis lame2.if only me.hubby n Azriff at home xpe,but if when the times yg we going out or travelling,memang i tka boleh dgr baby nangis dpn org ramai.annoying giler.bcoz, i memang tak suke dgr baby nangis .rase mcm naks ound mak dia je. (jahat x?dulu xde anak xtau,skrg dh ade anak baru tau,wuwu.) but Alhamdulillah Azriff xde suka sgt nangis.

ouh got 1 time when we were traveling in HK, azriff felt uncomfy while we were queuing and waiting for train to go to The Peak.so got lots of people in front of us,behind,left,right.ouh panas hati i. hubby plak slowje dia nak keluarkan pacifier n bottle susu.i ngamok ok.hubby mmg tak kisah if baby nangis, but i saaaaaangattttt kisah.wwuwuwuuw.smpai hubby sound "biasela tu syg if baby nangis,semua org phm". ouh and mase naik flight pon,ill make sure Azriff dok diam and tido.if menangis dlm flight memang horror la.whenever im travelling,bende paling i tak suke,baby nangis dlm flight.so ill make sure my baby tak nangis dlm flight.hehe.but Ahamdulillah,Azriff is a good boy and if nangis pon,sumbat the P or bIg BB.ngeeee.thats 1 of the benefit of breastfeed baby kan?besh!ape2 pon,sumbatttt aje!

Azriff pulak d'type yg memang when he's asleep,automatically dia luihkan pacifier dia.

so a bit easy for us to monitor him. dont la 24/7 sumbatkan baby pacifier kan.not good la.

actually our Dr pon advice no need pacifier,memang got potential bley "J" and double teeth.

so,thats y monitor jugak.hehe.memang scientifically proven as Dr said.so,dgr jela ckp doc.

tetibe terpk if la i tak pakai pacifier dulu,confirm gigi lg cun dari ni...haha. eh terperasan lagi.grrrrrr! =P

today,Azriff already 4months,he doesnt need pacifier anymore.terus dia takmo dah if bagi.easy right?sangat sukeeeeee.sekejap je die pakai the P =) .but everytime jalan2 bawak jugak,takot tetibe die melalak.pergghhh!jatuh reputasi.hahaahaha.

nitey nite peeps =)

LABOUR ROOM's experience

ngehehehhee...sampai dah entry ni.yes!

okla,1st of all sorry if this entry got few "18sx" words like "bukaan beberapa cm..." "jolok" and all...heheheeh.cant be avoided la kan in the process...

ok.1stly, during my pregnancy,i have few wishes and really hope that Allah will grant my wishes.

1)my first baby is gonna be a BOY,perfect&healthy -Alhamdulillah Allah granted my wish.speechless.i have 3siblings.all girls.and my mom also hoping that im gonna get a baby boy.everybody is happy when at 7mos of pregnancy (ouh,pemalu anakku cam mak die kan? 7 bulan baru nak tunjuk2 sikit.haha). seriously lots of people told me im carrying a baby girl.only mom said a baby boy ouh and my grandma too.mom said "mak time pregnant dulu muka berseri2,suka make up xmcm ko,pregnant selekeh muka". (padahal mak ku mmg suka bermake up xkire mase.haissshh). but finally,a baby boy.ouh my,so happyyyyyy =)

2)normal birth without epidural -just like how my mom did mase deliver her all 3heroins.hehe. Alhamdulillah Allah granted my wish,normal without epidural. indescribable pain but managed to bear with it patiently and strongly.my a not-so-supportive hubs really helped me a lot in went through the critical moment by saying "sayang,sayang boleh punya,sikit je lagi, syg dh tahan lame dah".eh i yg nak bersalin,dia pulak yg boleh.haha.

3)if possible,can my baby born in between time after Thursday maghrib-bfore solat Jumaat?-because its consider as Friday in islamic calendar.

actually Azriff was born in the same month wif our prophet Muhammad S.A.W (rabiulawwal). was hoping as well,that he gonna born on 12rabiulawwal,but terlajak sikit.but Alhamdulillah still thursday night (mlm jumaat).

4)water birth-haaaa,bab ni terpengaruh kt novel shopaholic,ouh my god,cool kannnnn????but whut to do,my gynae bfore this was working in Arab Saudi,she said arab saudi nye water birth much better than malaysia.here just a small pool,the plastic one like for kids tu and no jakuzi and all bfore the process.so,not recommended.ouh soo sadddd!after googling,i found only hospital pantai,penat pergi.skali Dr tak recommend.so, fine la.we go for the normal process,on bed punye (hubs kate ngade2 je nak dlm air bagai).actually i can use his privilege tau, can deliver baby anywhere in the globe, sure company cover.i dh request kat UK ke US ke tp xdilayan.nyampah!hahaha.(budget if branak kt overseas muka anak cam omputihla?)haha.

ouh my God,macam2 kan my wishes,certain people claimed im a "freak". hahahaha.

so, during my pregnancy,my gynae ouh my good very islamic,experienced and very good in assisting patients.mmg everytime nak check ke,everything she wanna do like rubbing lotion bfore she scan my tummy she'll bace doa,tgh2 check bace doa,and crita je ape prob kat dia.ade je doa dia suruh bace.so,jatuh cinta with her.haha.she told me with her,insyaAllah takde sakit2 emergency nak beranak ni,dia akan monitor frm time to time.i pon cuakla.alamak,camane nak monitor,because normally what i heard frm others,semua sakit2 nak bersalin baru gi hospital.what a good thing bout experienced Dr ni, dia bley agak dah bila nak bersalin.so,my EDD actually on 25th february but i really hope dpt deliver awal so that during confinement hubs will be here wif me.(giler x aci ok,dlm pantang srg2,nak amek exam bagai). so a week before i deliver baby,dh ckp kt Dr nak deliver next week (which is week yg 17th feb tu),so Dr ckp,if nak bersalin awal kene buat 3things:

1)ok,segan sikit nak tulis but since all my readers are ladies(i hope),haha.

having sex regularly like 1/2 times everyday.

2)play wif nipple.(suruhla hubs yg buat,jgn buat sendiri pulak,serious xfeel.haha)

3)pray continuously

so, after a week,went for check up,doc ckp dh bukak 3cm (ok,i dah cuak.gilo.xsakit xape,tetibe doc ckp dah bukak.ouh my God).that time rabu ptg(15th feb).so doc ckp balik rumah pack brg,lek2 gi hospital.and guess what?ktrg ni dah set in mind,since no rushing at all dr ckp nanti time bersalin,ktrg ape pon xprepare brg2 hospital.boley?haha.so, blk after maghrib,gerak pi Tropicana Medical Centre. then sampai sane dok tido je smpai the next day (thursday).pasai xsakit ape2pon.hehehe.then Dr dtg subuh tu ,she checked still 3cm, and asked "tak sakit ka?".i ckp "takde pon".then my doc ckp "ok,i tolong ni...." and she ...errrr jolok2 cket. few minutes after out of sudden my water broke.ouh my god,pebende yg doc buat td???hahahaha.then since after subuh tu barula rase sakit sikit2.the pain was like gradually increase.mase tu baru 4cm bukak.i tido bangun,tdo bangun.hubby?ouh kesian dia,kene tdo atas sofa,psl dlm labour room 1 bed je.tp nyenyak ooo die tido.takde la cuak ke ape.cettt!

then,after zohor ke asar baru rase sakit cam mencucuk2 sikitla,tahan lagi.tido bangun,selera makan xde dah.actually boring kot dok je atas katil.tp ade one nurse tu ckp,when my water broke,i cannot go anywhere,kene rest atas katil.gerammmmm jeeeeee!!!!org nak jalan2 barula bley distract sakit ni.but when nurse checked,still 4cm.apekaaaa???dr subuh td 4cm.grrrrr....then,after asar tu barula kemuncaknye.every 3mins sakit,every 3 mins sakit.then,ckp kt hubs,nak amek epidural la.actually nurse dah offer awal2,doc pon,but i reluctant to take it at first.mmg dah set takkan ambil epidural.no matter what.nak rase sakit beranak cane.hubs plak ckp "dosa u tu dahla banyak, bawak2la rase sakit sikit,baru insaf".cetttttt...wife mithali dikate dosa banyak.hahahaa.

then,when dah sakit2 tu,ckp kt hubs nak amek epidural,he said "sayang mesti ok,sayang dh tahan dr after subuh lg,ni tinggal sikit je,syg boleh".hangin gue.i yang sakit,dia yg boleh.tp mmg kuatkan smangat pon,bende yg keep on playing in y mind is what my mom gonna say bile amek epi.ooooo,mak i pedasssss wooo.hahahaha.die dh ckp awal2 "nenek ko beranak kt rumah,releks je takde epidural ke pejadah tu? mak dulu pon okje.ko jgn nak ngade2 amek bende2 yg tak tau effectnye...pot pet pot pet..." nanti if i amek,confirm die sebut2 smpai dapat cicitlaaa.hahaha.tu yg xmo.tp mcm dah sakit sgt kan,so,i ckp kt nurse call dr soh cepat dtg,bley amek epidural lg ke tak.nurse call dr,selambe dr ckp tunggu dia dtg.org dah sakit2 ni dr after Asar tu,bley plak doc dtg dkt2 nak isyak.dia ade operation buang ovari patient.kesian patient tu, tgh pregnant,ade cancer ovari pulak but they saved the baby,just buang 1 ovari.dont ask me how.dunno.after asar tu nurse check still 4cm bukak.haiyerr,pehal slow sgt tak bukak2.

then,dkt2 isyak doc sampai,dr check and she said "ok,dah bukak 10cm,we r ready k,boley start push".ok, menggelabah giler.apekah td nurse ckp 4cm tak gerak2.grrrrrrrr.....fyi, i tak mkn since lunch tu pasai tak selera,n rs mcm sengal giler dok hospital lame2,terbaring atas katil.serious the 2nd one nanti i nak gi jln2 pusing2 hospital tu kasi nak freshen up my mind and it'll distract myself frm thinking bout the pain.apedaaa nurse sengal, xkasi jalan2 pulak.

then,when everything was ready,dr ckp "bile rase sakit je push..."so,pushla bile rs sakit,i actually xdengar ape yg hubs i ckp mase tu die kene tlg ampu my head and push it towards the chest mase i push.doc suruh.so,maybe dia diam je kot.i mmg dah pesan awal ,jgn ckp "sabar yang" and yg seangkatan dgnnnye.org tgh sakit ckp sabar,mmg nak kenela.hehehee.so,maybe beliau diam dgn jayenye.hahaha. then halfway push i bley ckp "saye tak mampula dr...""...hahaahaha,bile ingat2 part plg lawak tu la.adeke bley ckp camtu mase push.doc ckp "eh,jgn maen2,baby dah engage,kene cepattttt...pushhhhh"....haiyerrrrr..so push la lagi.finally baby keluar Alhamdulillah.

so,the metaphor "mase bersalin mmg sakit,tp bile tgk baby hilang semua sakit"..booooo..tipuuuuuu...hahahaahah.din applied to me.1st time doc showed Azriff ms after mandikan dia,mase daddy dia nak taknikkan dia tu, i pandang je dia.dlm hati i ckp "budak ni la td yg nak keluar bkn maen susah"..bley ckp gitu?i bukan not being grateful.but i was blank.tak pernah layan budak kecik and actually i dont really like kids pon.i tak pernah babysit anak sape2,even my sist.psl gap jauh2 and mom never asked me to help her.and for us,yg beria2 nak anak was my hubby.i mase tu xde prasaan,husband ckp nak anak,kita layankan aje...hehehe.thought nak tunggu after i finish my master,but hubs tortured me la wehhh.everyday kt offshore called ckp nak baby.penat telinga dgr,6months after get married,production pon start Alhamdulillah tros jadi.heheeh.if la xplanning, maunye bunting pelamin.xdapekla gi eurotour.eh pasal tu plak i pk.hehe.

so,that was the process la.Alhamdulillah it went smoothly as planned, after deliver doc siap ckp "ok,dah deliver khamis mlm jumaat, as you WISHED =) ,nama dia ade muhammad lagi better psl ambil keberkatan Jumaat tu". at 1st ktrg tgh pk nak letak ke tak muhammad tu,bile dr dh ckp camtu,tros decide letak je muhammad. so,MUHAMMAD AZRIFF NAASHIF =). ouh i tak menangis pon mase sakit bersalin and mase push nak bersalin.mase tgk baby pon tak menangis.like certain mom,tgk anak terharu kan.i takde pon.wuwwuuw.am i a bad mom??? mase tu mcm2 yg ade dlm kotak fikiranku,dgn nak exam,assignment.few dys after deliver baby dh start pegang buku.wuwu.and my hubs pon takde nangis plak mase i deliver.grrrr.husband org laen siap ckp "if kite dpt 1 anak ni pon takpe,after this u takyahla bersalin lg ye,abg tak kesah".perghhhh...husband i?dlm pantang lg dh ckp "pasni Azriff dh 2years,dpt adik baru lg ok".i tny dia "nape syg tak nangis ms i deliver?" ."nak nagis watpe?"...uwaaa..kayu betul husbandku.tp since i pon tka nangis,so i tak rase apela.few of my frens said maybe sbab everything went smoothly.i takde terjerit2 sakit dlm tu,takde bende2 pelikla yg jadi like air ketuban tk cukup,baby cant breat ke ape.everythng was going ok.Alhamdulillah sangat2.thats y both of us rase mcm okey if ade baby lg insyaAllah =).

but i need to mention here,actually i feel glad,got hubs sooo kayu like that,certain women dont like that type of guy,a -non-romantic-type of guy (which is good laaa kan,takde org len nak.muahahaha).sometimes because of him,i become stronger and not easily give up.nak mengade2 pon tak boleh.mmg takkan dilayan.wuwu. and fyi, i didnt face any nausea,morning sickness,sakit pinggang ke ape throughout my pregnancy.Alhamdulillah.sebaliknya siap lagi bnyk berjalan and kehulu kehilir lagi.hehehe.mmg feel grateful sangat.im blessed wif excellent health during my pregnancy.puasa full sebulan =).yes,i should be strong for my baby.hopefully baby will be strong like mommy&daddy =)

till the next post.daaa =)

ouh my,schooo cute!

cute tak????eippppppppp!!!! cant wait to see azriff wearing these! =)

his hobby:scratching his own face =( tak ensem dah anak mommy

randomness

hey,im back!

ouh this entry wont be labelled under "baby/mommy" ok.dont worry.i know people will be getting bored if all entries are bout baby&mommy:P

oklah.scroll down to know more bout my idol.Tan sri syed Mokhtar AlBukhary.jika ade rezeki nak jadi mcm dia jugak.wuwuwu.got this info from few websites when i was doing for my masters assignment last semester. fyi,this tycoon is among 40 richest in malaysia.no 8 tu!hats off!

50 Perkara Dari Tan Sri Syed Mokhtar Al-Bukhary

1. Ada sebab kenapa saya bekerja seperti tiada hari esok. Agenda sosial dan kerja-kerja kemasyarkatan itulah antara sebabnya. Saya mahu meninggalkanwarisan untuk anak bangsa yang kekal berpanjangan

2. (berkenaan know who) Bangsa lain tak mengapa tapi orang Melayu kena berdamping dengan orang politik sedikit-sedikit. Tapi masalahnya kita tidak mahu melalui kesusahan; banyak yang mahu senang dengan mendampingi orang politik semata-mata.

3. Tiada apa-apa rahsia. Saya ini hamba Allah biasa, budak dangau macam saudara semua juga. Tuhan jadikan manusia ini sama sahaja. Proses kematangan saya yang membezakannya. Saya percaya sesiapa pun boleh menjadi apa sahaja asalkan mereka berusaha dengan tekun. Tetapi tentulah ia memakan masa. Tiada jalan singkat.

4. Saya mengenali kekuatan dan kelemahan saya. Apa yang tidak mampu buat saya akan minta orang lain tengok-tengokkan. Saya melalui jalan yang susah tapi itulah jalan yang kekal.

5. Kita perlu menggunakan kepakaran mereka (bangsa Cina) kerana mereka jauh lebih maju dan mahir daripada kita. Apa yang kita kurang faham kita berkongsi dengan tujuan untuk belajar dengan mereka. Apabila sudah faham baru kita boleh menjaga kepentingan kita.

6. Saya sedih melihat sistem sekolah pondok di Kedah. Saya ada cita-cita mahu memodenkan sekolah pondok. Kita kena maju.

7. Saya terlibat dalam perniagaan ini kerana saya tiada pilihan lain.

8. Untuk memajukan perniagaan, memang kena banyak sabar dan kuat berusaha.

9. Tidak ada jalan singkat. Saya belajar tentang perniagaan ini sejak kecil lagi dan saya juga biasa kena tipu.

10. Saya pun suka kemewahan. Saya pun suka tengok dunia, ke Tokyo , New York dan London . Saya pun suka pakai baju elok. Tapi kita hendak bermewah setakat mana, hendak pakai baju banyak mana, hendak tidur dalam berapa rumah satu malam, hendak makan pun sampai larat mana ?

11. Dalam hidup ini kita sebenarnya tidak ada status; ada masa di atas, ada masa di bawah.

12. Ketika Allah memberika kemewahan, kita kena turun ke bawah, tengok mana-mana yang boleh dibantu. Allah beri rezeki melalui kita untuk kita tolong orang lain. Rezeki itu bila-bila masa dia boleh ambil balik. Jika ada orang korporat Melayu yang tidak mahu turun ke bawah mungkin kerana bayangan duit itu lebih kuat daripada yang lain.

13. Korporat Cina turun ke bawah membantu. Orang Cina ada pelbagai persatuan. Kita tidak ada; kalau ada pun berpecah. Orang Melayu kita tidak mahu bekerjasama kerana perasaan dengki menguasai diri. Sudahlah tak mahu berusaha, apabila orang lain berusaha mereka marah

14. Rezeki yang ada itu sebenarnya untuk orang lain. Memang dari segi hukum pun begitu. Kita kena keluar zakat dan fitrah. Tetapi zakat fitrah banyak mana sangat. Islam agama yang adil; ia minta sedikit saja. Oleh itu, kalau ada duit yang lebih ia seharusnya dibelanjakan dengan baik.

15. Saya tak kisah kalau saya tak buat semua ini. Saya boleh tak buat apa-apa dan balik ke Alor Star. Tetapi saya rasa hidup ini sia-sia. Orang Kedah kata kalau mati nanti mata tidak tutup rapat kerana tanggungjawab depan mata kita tidak buat. Orang lain ambil kekayaan kita, ambil hak kita dan pergunakan kita, kita masih tidak buat apa-apa !

16. Saya ada emotional attachment kepada agama, bangsa dan ummah. Saya bukan individualistik. Diri saya tidak penting. Pangkat dan gelaran ini kepada saya tidak mustahak .

17. Saya sedih media tonjolkan saya begini. Saya malu kerana orang Cina kaya beratus-ratus kali ganda daripada saya. Tapi saya tahu orang Melayu kalau hendak berjaya kena kerja kuat tidak kira siang malam. Kita ada kekuatan yang tuhan beri melebihi daripada bangsa lain. Tetapi untuk maju kita perlu berusaha.

18. Saya asal daripada tidak ada apa-apa. Apa yang saya tidak tahu saya belajar, minta tolong daripada orang. Saya tidak malu. Saya bukannya mencuri. Saya usaha sendiri. Sikap pemalas dan pemalu ini yang orang Melayu kena atasi. Kita kena berani kerana benar. Apabila kita dapat keuntungan dan rezeki lebih, bolehlah kita menolong orang.

19. Kaya itu bukanlah kepada diri sendiri. Kaya itu adalah kepada kumpulan perniagaan ini, kepada bangsa dan kepada orang ramai. Saya hanya memegangnya untuk sementara sahaja.

20. Saya tiada keinginan untuk menyimpan kekayaan ini untuk anak dan isteri. Duit ini tidak akan kekal. Saya percaya hanya perkara yang baik yang kita lakukakan akan kekal. Bukan duit yang akan melindungi saya nanti tapi apa yang saya lakukan sekarang.

21. Saya perlu terus mencari peluang dan perniagaan lain supaya kita terus dapat bantu orang lain mengembangkan diri masing-masing. Saya bukan buat semua ini untuk diri saya semata-mata.

22. Ada juga yang saya usaha tapi tak dapat dan orang tak tahu. Apa yang saya dapat itu yang jadi masalah kononnya Syed Mokhtar sapu semua. Bangsa lain memegang pelbagai kepentingan dalam ekonomi, siapa pun tak kata apa. Ini masalah orang Melayu. Di kampung orang Melayu berpecah kerana politik, di bandar berpecah kerana ini (wang).

23. Saya percaya kalau rezeki itu Allah beri kepada saya ia bukan untuk saya tetapi untuk orang ramai juga. Orang tidak tahu banyak syarikat yang saya ada ini gagal dan tidak maju kepada saya tetapi orang tidak tahu.

24. Banyak orang percaya bahawa dia mesti ada RM10 juta atau RM20 juta dalam tangan baru hidup boleh selamat. Ini yang menyebabkan mereka hanyut daripada menolong orang lain. Mereka lebih takutkan diri sendiri. Mereka lupa bahawa kekayaan tidak boleh membantu selama-lamanya.

25. Orang kata saya takda duit tapi banyak hutang. Orang berniaga mana yang tak berhutang. Tapi mesti tahu bagaimana hendak meminjam dan membayarnya semula. Ada cara boleh kita buat. Tapi sebelum berhutang RM100 juta mesti sudah fikir bagaimana hendak membayarnya balik. Mesti ada tanggungjawab. Banyak orang mahu senang tapi tidak ramai yang mahu bertanggungjawab.

26. (perasaan setiap kali mendapat rezeki) . Saya ini kata orang Kedah, lebai kodok bukan lebai pondok. Tapi saya tahu hal-hal asas. Kalau mahu saya minta terus dari tuhan. Tuhan beri manusia akal dan fikiran. Kalau hendak pakai baju dan seluar biarlah padan dengan badan.

27. Kesenangan yang saya perolehi ini datang dengan tanggungjawab (bila pinjam bayar balik dan buat amal jariah). Kalau hendak dibandingkan dengan bangsa lain, perniagaan saya ini tidak ada apa. Tetapi walaupun sedikit tetapi yang sedikit itu ada berkatnya.

28. Saya suka kalau nikmat sedikit yang saya dapat itu orang lain boleh berkongsi sama.

29. Saya kadang-kadang kecewa dan sedih melihat anak orang alim yang sesetengahnya lupa diri setelah mendapat kekayaan. Saya pun sama seperti orang lain suka hendak ke luar negara tetapi kita tidak boleh lupa kubur kita dan asal usul kita. Di kampung kita mungkin ada jiran-jiran yang perlukan bantuan .

30. ……kalau tidak mungkin saya sudah ke Haatyai dan jadi nakal. Saya manusia yang banyak buat kesilapan. Tetapi saya insaf, beristighfar dan jalan lagi. Sejak awal saya ada kesedaran mahu mengekalkan hak kita sebagai orang Melayu.

31. Saya kata kepada diri sendiri kalau kerana itu saya terpaksa bersusah sedikit pun tidak mengapa.

32. Kekayaan ini tuhan beri kepada saya untuk saya menolong orang lain pula. Saya percaya kepada keberkatan rezeki. Hari ini kita tolong orang, esok lusa orang akan tolong kita pula dengan cara yang lain.

33. Kalaupun tidak sanggup tunggu 34 tahun seperti saya berilah sedikit masa untuk faham selok belok perniagaan, Insya Allah boleh maju.

34. Kita jangan cepat putus asa. Putus asa boleh tapi kena cepat-cepat kuatkan semula semangat untuk bangkit balik. Jangan jadikan agama hanya satu tempat untuk kita bergantung apabila kita susah. Tanggungjawab ibadah adalah tugas seharian.

35. Lifestyle ? Saya tidak ada lifestyle yang kena masuk kelab sana dan sini. Tapi tak semestinya saya tidak boleh turun ke kelab. Orang Melayu kalau hendak ke depan mesti ada cara hidup yang fleksibel, boleh naik dan turun.

36. Lifestyle ini sebenarnya satu penyakit. Saya biasa pakai Mercedes tapi sekarang saya pakai Proton Perdana untuk sokong kereta nasional. Kereta itu pun cukup untuk bawa saya ke mana-mana.

37. Tiada sebab kenapa orang Melayu tidak boleh maju. Ini saya berani perang dengan sesiapa pun. Orang Melayu boleh maju . Kalau saudara jadi wartawan saudara kena tanam semangat suatu hari nanti mahu ambil alih akhbar ini. Tidak ada sebab kenapa ia tidak boleh berlaku.

38. Kejayaan dan kelemahan orang Melayu bukan disebabkan oleh bangsa kita dan agama kita. Ia berkait dengan sikap dan cara kita berfikir. Gigih, tekun dan tidak mudah putus asa merupakan kunci kejayaan kita. Tapi perkara ini kurang wujud dalam cara orang Melayu berfikir.

39. Tuhan memberi peluang kepada siapa saja yang bekerja kuat. Apa yang ada pada saya ini hanya usaha. Kalau anak dangau macam saya boleh, tidak ada sebab orang lain terutama mereka yang dari pekan tidak boleh.

40. Kita tidak usahlah selalu mengulang-ulang perkara yang boleh memberikan kesan psikologi negatif kepada orang Melayu (kereta dan rumah besar). Kita kena kurangkan bercakap tentang kereta besar dan rumah besar .Sesiapa pun mahu pakai kereta mewah tapi bukan itu matlamatnya.

41. Orang Melayu sebenarnya kena membantu diri sendiri, kena bekerja keras dan fokus.

42. Sikap merendah diri perlu sentiasa ada dalam diri seseorang walau setinggi mana pun kejayaan dicapai.

43. Apa yang saya buat ini (kerja-kerja sosial) semuanya bermula daripada didikan orang tua saya sendiri.

44. Saya sendiri berhutang sambil berniaga dan buat sumbangan amal jariah. Saya tak mahu tunggu hutang habis baru hendak buat semua ini. Saya takut kalau hutang habis saya pun mati dan apa pun tak sempat saya buat.

45. Saya biasa saja. Hidup saya tidak berubah, dari dulu beginilah. Saya terima apa saja nikmat yang diberikan oleh Allah. Tidak ada segelas air, ada setengah gelas pun saya bersyukur.

46. Kalau kerana sedikit bantuan itu mereka lulus peperiksaan dan hidup mereka menjadi lebih baik, saya sudah gembira. Saya tidak boleh buat banyak. Alhamdulillah, lebih baik buat sedikit daripada tidak buat langsung.

47. Saya tiada minat untuk beli kapal layar atau kapal terbang. Saya fikir kalau saya beli sesuatu biarlah orang ramai boleh pakai. Saya suka kalau saya beli sesuatu yang mahal, biarlah orang ramai boleh pakai.

48. Saya gembira dapat membantu. Saya mahu orang lain merasai (kesenangan) apa yang saya pernah rasa. Saya tahu bagaimana perasaanya.Saya kata kepada diri saya, apa yang saya dapat saya mesti beri orang lain merasainya sama. Jangan beri kurang, lebih tak mengapa. Itu yang membuat hati saya seronok.

49. Saya rasa saya ingin menyumbang lebih daripada ini. Saya kata kepada kawan-kawan ini baru warm-up saja; kita belum berjalan lagi.

50. Saya rasa kita terlalu banyak ketinggalan.

EBM & travelling

holla peeps =)

ok, malas nak intro2.will go straight bout EBM&traveling.

normally me prefer backpacking, but hubs not really prefer the too much hassle,or in short not a relaxing vacation.he prefers to stay in the nice comfy hotel,sleeps on bed,having coffee and tea in the room.i pulak suke bab2 challenging like tido kt train station time travelling.done that in sweeden and amsterdam. 2nights in a row slept at train station, kene halau dgn police drg,tido dkt bus station.mandi?man-man aje dkt public toilet!muahahahaah.itu gaya org muda travel (padahal sbab duet cukup2 makan aje).heheheh. when we did our eurotrip last year.got 1day actually unintededly to stay in Milan, but we stuck in that fashion city because that time there was big celebration going on in that city,so all hotel fully booked,ended up we stayed at train station,i mcm biase.cool.so,managed to sleep soundly lagi.haha.bising ka,apa ka.tarahal!but poor my baby,woke up in the morning he asked "how can u sleep when semua org bising2 ke sane kemari,bunyi announcement bagai".hahaah.dia xdpt tido rupanye...kekekeke.ok,so conclusion nye dh ade baby,lagila xley back pack.sian baby.wuwu. (eh just now i said no intro,but intro terpanjang pula-sigh).

ok 1st thing 1st.important stuff for baby when we are traveling (kawan2,pls bear in mind,im not an expert,so, if got missing here and there bout my way doing this and that,please correct&guide me k,much appreciated =) ).

1) cooler box for EBM - it depends on how long the journey is.like our trip,only took about 4hrs.so checked in the cooler box with our luggage.dont forget to write "fragile" on urbaggage.takot drg campak sane sini dgn harshnye. because EBM still frozen,so lambatla die cair sendiri.sampai HK still half frozen lg. got two packs of EBM yg ktrg make as hand carry,but already informed the stewardess earlier,so ok je.and can ask for hot water dlm flight if nak warm the EBM.

so,if we gonna be in a long journey like more than 5hrs,we can carry the cooler box as hand luggage.already asked stewardess,they said ok, but hafto fill in the form ke ape prior check in.nanti in october ktrg bgtau ye how's the procedure bcoz flight to UK is about 12hrs.

brand-coleman.bersepah kt jusco.hehehe.

ok,so when everyday we want tog o out frm the hotel,so just bring 1 beg for baby stuff.depends la if u all nak beli brand ape.i din buy any,bcoz when we bought medela,it came wif biiiggg bag (just like our handbag in bigger version),so mmg gune tu la.and got travel kit as well.so,use that tu put EBM and cooler pack.soo senang.buy 1 set of medela,got many things for free.hehehe...

put EBM &cooler pack inside.easy right?if u r going out whole day,budget2 how mane EBM nak bwk,like me i gilir2 so dat xyah pump =)

so this is the medela bag.dr bag ni terhumban dlm store buat pekasam,i gunela bag ni as baby bag for now.gantung dkt stroller,so i still can carry my handbag.huh, i really against the statement like 'xyahla bwk hangbag,ade baby,baby bag tu la handbag ko'.welll i dont practise that.(still mau bergaye tu).hahahha

but for hubby,of course he doesnt like to carry this bag ,so bag yg kt atas tu gonna be used bile i keluar wif baby and my frens ke,or to shopping mall.but when we r travelling,gunela backpack tu.so,senang we&hubby nak carry.lgpon time travel jrg bwk stroller,bwk baby carrier je.

2) travel changing mat

easy to use,anywhere&everywhere.hygine sikit and badan baby xsakit letak mane2 pon =) esp when its time to change his diaper.

the brand is -first year.boleh lipat2 sampai jadi kecik.msk beg.tadaaa.

3)diapers& baby wipes -

if going out for jalan2,bwk baby wipes yg travel pack aje.tkyah yg besar gedabak tu.wuwu

minyak yu yee if perut baby meragam,maklumla time travel takut mkn bende tk tentu hala.effectnya kat baby jugak.wuwu.

4)baby's toiletries&handkerchief& minyak yu yee cap limau

5) blanket -bley gune untuk kegunaan dibwh,as baby blanket or fold it nicely and become a baby pillow.(maklumla,time travel,nak jimat space bag,xkan nk bwk bantal,hehe)

7) thermometer &nail clipper. thermometer is important,manela tau bwk baby jalan2 tiba demam ka.haiyerr...kan susah.heheehe.

9) water flask

10) pacifier-if ur baby needs it

11)baby bips and napkin

11) baby carrier -actually i prefer baby wearing but bila pk2 blk,takpela,biar daddy carry azriff.mommy wanna rocks that 2/12 inch boots.hehe.actually nak biar daddy&son bonding tu lebih sikit psl daddynye selalu xde.so, belila baby carrier.

ouh God, i looooveee my boys! =)

12)clothes -spare-mane tau tetibe nak mandikan baby kt baby's room inside the shopping mall.or baby poo a lot smpai tembus ke kan.

so,thats all,if got extra tips,please share =) im still learning!

till then..taaaa