fuhhhhhh to the rusty and dusty blog.
hopefully im back for good this time *wink*
im a mom of two now. unbelievable? believe it yo! *Alhamdulillah*
till then. xoxo =)
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Sunday, November 23
im bored and i do miss blogging!
hey ya.
fuhhhhhh to the rusty and dusty blog.
hopefully im back for good this time *wink*
im a mom of two now. unbelievable? believe it yo! *Alhamdulillah*
till then. xoxo =)
fuhhhhhh to the rusty and dusty blog.
hopefully im back for good this time *wink*
im a mom of two now. unbelievable? believe it yo! *Alhamdulillah*
till then. xoxo =)
Thursday, March 7
here mommy...there mommy
so going to shopping malls nowadays,mommy needs to prepare like a bag of coins.the small cute clutch will do,not necesserily a biggg bag.guess for what? yes for the son who is capable to scream like kene pukul whenever mommy says no if dia tarik mommy dia nak men kete yg kete bayar syiling tu. haaa dapat x? those cars which u have to insert rm1(if at the mines) rm 2-3( if at klcc). and it depends on the cars or marry-go-round as well. d bigger d car the more expesive u olls!
ok... kita naik yg ni dulu mommyyy
seriously harge mmg depends dimanakah anda berada.if kt mines mura je.if kt klcc haaa amek.so time tula nak kene terkial2 fish out all the coins i have inside my wallet, pockets and segala celah yg ade tu xmsk terselit celah pelbagai cards dannnn sepahan receipts lagi.cisss...bayangkannn.... if dapat anak penyabar n faham bahase ckp 'wait,mommy's looking for coins' n beliau (anak itu pon duduk menanti pr berdiri menanti or meniarap menanti pon xkesah asalkan xmelalak) ...dapat si azriff...whatever u say he'll keep screaming like mcm kene pukul.nanti org semua pandang2 like...... mcm la i xreti jage anak adeh2 anakku. so haruslah prepare bag comel utk coins2 ituuuuuu. haha..
so sediakan payung sebelum hujan ya kawan-kawan =P
Wednesday, July 18
being "EMAK!"
yes, after entertaining my laziness for weeks now im back!hihi...
ok, simple. EMAK.MOMMY.IBU.UMMI. (ape lagi?ape lagi?)
motherhood is such a blissful and grateful thing for every woman in the world. (eh ye ke?)
motherhood for me is deeply fulfilling and rewarding! yes!its like the ultimate joy for me because what i think is life itself is borne out of this miraculous phenomenon. yes, both motherhood and parenthood =)
ok, so when already becoming a mommy, there's a lot of things to do such as ::and the list goes on::
its like a routine for me...
after work..dash off home and come to this!
semangat nak main bola (actually semangat nak bermain dekat luar tu).
anak lelaki kan,maka kita kena layankan.. dari dia ajak main masak2 ke,
main make up2 ke..tak ke payah???
then kena teman dia makan pulak.... makan nak sendiri je...tak mau dah mommy suapkan
nasib ade bibik, if not, siapekah nak mengemas??oooo mommy jugak??ermmm
then azriff the smart boy, asal lepas maghrib je terus pandai tarik mommy's hand and give mommy a signal that he want to go upstairs.
dah naik atas ape lagi????
y pampers je???sebab ini budak if dah salin pampers dia, dia mmg suka main kejar2,
nak pakaikan pampers pon mcm nak berperang... konon comellah dia lari sana sini buat mommy kejar lagi tak dapat kejar, lg dia sukaa...jd xmenyempat nak pakai seluar.gaaa!
mommy kene layan jugak! multitasking tak ini budak? =P
tang sampai ke pocoyo je, dia sebok dance, dgn mommy kene buat sekali, gerakkan tangan,
goyangkan punggung..wahhh azriff buat memangla chomel!mommy???
ini daddy dialah yg ajar, then bila dh ke offshore, yg kene meneruskan tabiat menari camni pasal
anak akan mengamok if kita tak join sekali is mommy dia!ergghhh!
pandai pulak tu tak feel if buat sorang2....hadoiii...
then main lego or cubic ni..if tak dpt pusing or psg tak kene gaye,dia selambeeee je baling. sape yg kene kutip??? haaa pandai pon jawab!
then tabiat nak tido pulak kene baring sambil breastfeed dia sambil bacekan story book.then cepat aje tido....lepastu??mommy terkebil sorang2 looking at the ceiling while waiting for daddy to call....itulah dia kerja seharian...
siapa kata senang jadi emak??
but im blessed and im grateful =) Alhamdulillah
ok, simple. EMAK.MOMMY.IBU.UMMI. (ape lagi?ape lagi?)
motherhood is such a blissful and grateful thing for every woman in the world. (eh ye ke?)
motherhood for me is deeply fulfilling and rewarding! yes!its like the ultimate joy for me because what i think is life itself is borne out of this miraculous phenomenon. yes, both motherhood and parenthood =)
ok, so when already becoming a mommy, there's a lot of things to do such as ::and the list goes on::
its like a routine for me...
after work..dash off home and come to this!
semangat nak main bola (actually semangat nak bermain dekat luar tu).
anak lelaki kan,maka kita kena layankan.. dari dia ajak main masak2 ke,
main make up2 ke..tak ke payah???
then kena teman dia makan pulak.... makan nak sendiri je...tak mau dah mommy suapkan
nasib ade bibik, if not, siapekah nak mengemas??oooo mommy jugak??ermmm
then azriff the smart boy, asal lepas maghrib je terus pandai tarik mommy's hand and give mommy a signal that he want to go upstairs.
dah naik atas ape lagi????
nak pakaikan pampers pon mcm nak berperang... konon comellah dia lari sana sini buat mommy kejar lagi tak dapat kejar, lg dia sukaa...jd xmenyempat nak pakai seluar.gaaa!
mommy kene layan jugak! multitasking tak ini budak? =P
tang sampai ke pocoyo je, dia sebok dance, dgn mommy kene buat sekali, gerakkan tangan,
goyangkan punggung..wahhh azriff buat memangla chomel!mommy???
ini daddy dialah yg ajar, then bila dh ke offshore, yg kene meneruskan tabiat menari camni pasal
anak akan mengamok if kita tak join sekali is mommy dia!ergghhh!
pandai pulak tu tak feel if buat sorang2....hadoiii...
then main lego or cubic ni..if tak dpt pusing or psg tak kene gaye,dia selambeeee je baling. sape yg kene kutip??? haaa pandai pon jawab!
then tabiat nak tido pulak kene baring sambil breastfeed dia sambil bacekan story book.then cepat aje tido....lepastu??mommy terkebil sorang2 looking at the ceiling while waiting for daddy to call....itulah dia kerja seharian...
siapa kata senang jadi emak??
but im blessed and im grateful =) Alhamdulillah
Monday, June 25
my 21 y/o bibik
yes2. 21 y/o FYI =P i guess no problem with that...no problem at all *wink* ok ...tipu!!!! haha
the problem is, my husband's rotation is different from many husbands out there.
he'll be 5weeks (actually around 4 and half weeks) home and 5weeks offshore.
he wont be going to the office when he's having his 5weeks off. so he'll be staying with bibik while im in the working...???.if i have to attend trainings and overseas meetings???ocay, count azriff in, but err....azriff masih tidak boleh diharap untuk memberi laporan.sekian.haha.
but hubby knows how to calm me down .below is what the told me during our conversation in yahoo messenger:
p/s: ape part yg paling best? i have my personal driver!yeayyy....we go breakfast together early in d'morning then he send me to the office....wee =)
the problem is, my husband's rotation is different from many husbands out there.
he'll be 5weeks (actually around 4 and half weeks) home and 5weeks offshore.
he wont be going to the office when he's having his 5weeks off. so he'll be staying with bibik while im in the working...???.if i have to attend trainings and overseas meetings???ocay, count azriff in, but err....azriff masih tidak boleh diharap untuk memberi laporan.sekian.haha.
but hubby knows how to calm me down .below is what the told me during our conversation in yahoo messenger:
they say....trust is d'most powerful thing right?
so now i have to trust, doa and tawakal....
insyaAllah everything gonna be okay =)
if anything happen (nauzubillah) , all i can say is :
"im tooo HOT and pretty for him, thats why he chose a maid =P".... jahat tak? jahat tak? *kidding*. hehehe...
p/s: ape part yg paling best? i have my personal driver!yeayyy....we go breakfast together early in d'morning then he send me to the office....wee =)
Thursday, June 21
the story about my 1st maid!
gosh!terrible! i guess those who have maid, will understand what ive been through since the selection process, than the monitoring + supervising process, the final day after you are done with evaluations and all, you have to make a final say either you want the maid to stay with you or change the maid. even sometimes dilemma involved in between. its quit impossible to get the perfect maid, but at least someone that you can trust... the most important thing is someone who can takes care of your kids patiently + can bear with their various type of perangai2 especially with my son, whoaaaa active 24/7/hhehehe.
so here im listing down my previous maid's perangai pelik2 when she was still working with us.ouh thank God i sent her back to the agent, otherwise i dont know what gonna happen .seriously. and now i have a new maid *grin* .the 21 y/o maid =) that part ill tell you in my next entry.
oooo, just fyi, this is our 1st time having maid in the family both me and hubby never had any experiences pasal bibik2 ni... mak2 kitorang mane ade bibik....
1) pemalas tahap super. ewah...sedap nak ckp org malas.padahal diri sendiri lebih kurang.hehehe...but since we hired her as a maid not a boss, so pandai2la dia fikir kan... memang malas buat kerja, there's one time i went to china for traning and left azriff with her and my PIL. dia pukul 8mlm dh tido, xjage bby langsung mlm, my PIL kene jage, then selambe bg my MIL task
"buk, mau pulang rumah jam brapa ?(my MIL ulang alik bila siang ke rumah dia n my house, rumah ktrg dekatkan)
tak tau lagi, kenapa?
nanti mau pulang,dikejut saya buk....
mak mertua i pening. sape yg bibik ni? dahla tak jage azriff, dia siap nak tido siang-siang buta and suruh my MIL kejut.wow! bagus punye bibik!
2) makan ya ampun!!!! tahap super! my SIL ckp "bela jin ke apa dia ni?" muahahahahah. habis segala coco crunch , honey stars azriff dia rembat. dgn biscuit oat i bwk pi keje pon dia makan. nasi + lauk jgn ceritala, memang dia yg habiskan..... kalau suap azriff, mau 5 masuk dlm mulut dia, 1 je msk dlm mulut azriff.my PIL pernah bwk nescafe 3 in 1 .ade dlm 9 sachets kot. esok pg tgk tinggal 1 ke 2. siapa yg kerjakan??? hadoii! ini bukan nak berkira psl makan, tapiiii if dh mkn bnyk giler sampai kene buat groceries shopping 2-3kali seminggu, hangin gak diri ini.wuwu. ouh time gi groceries shopping :
"buk, ini tempenya beli 4 ke 5 ya buk saya suka tempe" (ewah, ikot tekak ko je kan? tekak ku nak letak dimanakah?)
"buk, senduk ibu dirumah nggak bagus, beli yg ini bagus buk, yg dirumah saya tak biasa guna" (ewah ewah ewah bnyk cantik, nak komplen i nye senduk??? memangla senduk murah, tp i gune ok je,grammmmmm
"buk, iya yang ini ayamnya besar ,senang dimasak dan dipotong, kok dibeli yg kecil nggak cukup, susah dipotong" (time ni i memang mengucap panjang, menahan sabar takot kot2 tindakan luar kawal senduk tadi masuk dlm mulut bibik ni,tahap kesabaranku dahla berada di paras terendah sekali di abad ini)
3) malas cuci tong sampah!
"buk, ini plastic yg dibeli barang ini, kecil bangat buk, letak di tong sampah nggak bisa buk, nanti tumpah2 sampahnya, ibu beli yang besaaarrrr itu, mudah"
(banyak cantik muka ko, plastic jusco ,tesco giant tu free ok, tak koserr nak gi beli plastic sampah tu.if penuh buangla, sebab tu kene cuci tongnya, nak senang je, sekeh nak?)
4) suka memasak!
bab ni paling hangin, di amemang kerja nak masaaaak je.jage azriff tak nak. padahal ktrg dh ckp tka nak dia msk, ktrg xkan mkn ape maid masak. dia sebok pagi2 dah tung tang tung tang kat dapoq.masak punye banyak. bukan utk dia srg.grrrrrrr.... tak taula di aade niat apeka rajin sangat memasak tu.tp di amcm xbg i masak, dia ckp kt MIL i dia xsuke masakan org malaysia .nggak enak katenye.... serious bibik ni mintak pelempang kan?
5) tengking Azriff
i tak pernah dengar, tp my MIL dengar. dia ckp bibik tengking azriff bile azriff merengek, dia ckp " APAAAAAaaaaaa" (gaye menengking ala mak limah marah anak pulang petang).... ok, i tka kesah if nak mara azriff ke ape, tapi jgn tengking plis. aku pon tak pernah tengking anak sendiri!
6) errr.......... gaya nak ngurat FIL
hahahha.ini lawak.
"pak, nak kopi kocok?" (wahhhhhh)
"pak, emangnya saya juga tau bawak motor, saya ingin skali ke kedai, saya numpang bapak ya"
(mau x gelabah mak mertua ku, nak ditumpangnye motor bapak mertuaku, waduhhh kacau ini bibik)
7) makan semeja
ini bibik dia senang je
"buk makan buk" (sambil dia dh duduk dekat meja, makan dulu before us. dia dah ngadap segala lauk, ktrg kene pi dapur sendiri ambil nasi lauk semua. padahal mase dia mula2 dtg rumah ktrg, i ajak dia makan, siap sendukkan nasi dia lg...hampeh betol, tgk dlm tv maid sediakan nasi, tuangkan air, adekah itu dusta belaka?.sigh)
8) tengok tv sambil baring2 lagi...
korang ade maid camni? angkat tangan! i ade!!!!wuwuwwuuw...germa sungguh pernah sekali tu, dia selambe je tukar channel, i ngn hubby tgh tgk cerit alain, dia tukar channel siap. bagus tak? gempak giler kan!
9) bawak bende2 pelik nak black magic ke ape ka. mase dia 1st time dtg, i dh check bag dia. tp xnampak ape2. tula ad ehubby yg super prihatin dia xbg i check bag bibik without telling her. uncivilized katenye. sekali bgtau dia, maybe dia sorrokan dulu la tu. (sorry sayang, next time i check je, civilized ke tak i dont care lagi dah.srik) wuwuwuw.... sekali dh hantar dia kt agent, siap jumpa bawang putih+ lada hitam+ kemenyan + xtau ape lagi + rambut ...xsure rambut dia ke tak, yg penting bukan rambut ktrg...adeh2.... geram sungguh. ad epic dia i pernah letka kt fb, tp hubby suruh delete, geli kate dia. so of curse la xley letak kt blog, nanti confirm dia suruh delete jugak (isteri mithali kan ni? hahahhha. nak jugak!)
10) handfon 24jam
ni memang, hfon dia ade 2 ok!kalah tuan rumah! dahla canggih.katenye 1 utk main game, 1 utk call family. wahhh siap ade fon utk main game. kelazzz nyahz! dia dhla umor 40plus! nak main game lagi, ape ingat i hire u utk main game bik???
11) nak berniaga
dia ckp kt MIL i , nanti raye balik indon di anak bwk balik jamu. dia pandai buat jamu
"nanti ibu tolong jualkan ya jamu2 saya, mujarab benar bu, saya yg bikin"
(facepalm, rase nak hantuk dahi kt dinding! ko dtg cni nak meniage ke nak kerja,if ko nak jual jamu, sape nak jage anak aku????)
12) lipstik merah mak ngah!
ooooo dia kalau keluar rumah lipstik dr merah dr i u olzzzzz! kelazzz ok. memangla dia kate dia janda, tapi haruskah begitu sekali. hadoi... dia dh 40 plus. pening kepala den!
13) tipu umur
kt passport dia 37, tp sebenarnye dah 43
"ibu jgn bilang sama puan ya, umur saya sebenarnye 43, tp takot mau bilang sama puan" (time ni dia mcm sengal2 alang cket, tak tau asal die bgtau MIL i, ewah bnyk cantik xbg my mil bgtau i, dah sah2 muka ko mcm 40an pon.grrrrrrrrr....ktrg mmg xmo yg tua, psl tkt xlarat buat kerja, plus mcm xsampai hati nak suruh itu ini..30plus is the limit..so memang harus tukarla kan!)
14) A SMOKER!
dia admit sendiri dgn MIL yg dia smoker dulu, tp sbab jage azriff dia stop. perrgghhh! tp agak sengal disitu kerana cerita kt my MIL. and mmg dia smoker, i jumpa kotak rokok kt bilik maid bwh tu..... ouh my god! cant imagine dia smoke depan azriff. dhla ktrg mmg ade rules xley smoke dlm rumah. my hubby is not a smoker! waaaaaaa...marahnyeeeee!!!!!!
sekian! itula dia ape yg i ingat sepanjang bibik tu kerja, fikir2 balik boleh tensi. mengapakah kene hadap bibik berperangai mcm ni???! hadoi! rase mcm trauma pon ade! wuwu.....
keyboard off =)
so here im listing down my previous maid's perangai pelik2 when she was still working with us.ouh thank God i sent her back to the agent, otherwise i dont know what gonna happen .seriously. and now i have a new maid *grin* .the 21 y/o maid =) that part ill tell you in my next entry.
oooo, just fyi, this is our 1st time having maid in the family both me and hubby never had any experiences pasal bibik2 ni... mak2 kitorang mane ade bibik....
1) pemalas tahap super. ewah...sedap nak ckp org malas.padahal diri sendiri lebih kurang.hehehe...but since we hired her as a maid not a boss, so pandai2la dia fikir kan... memang malas buat kerja, there's one time i went to china for traning and left azriff with her and my PIL. dia pukul 8mlm dh tido, xjage bby langsung mlm, my PIL kene jage, then selambe bg my MIL task
"buk, mau pulang rumah jam brapa ?(my MIL ulang alik bila siang ke rumah dia n my house, rumah ktrg dekatkan)
tak tau lagi, kenapa?
nanti mau pulang,dikejut saya buk....
mak mertua i pening. sape yg bibik ni? dahla tak jage azriff, dia siap nak tido siang-siang buta and suruh my MIL kejut.wow! bagus punye bibik!
2) makan ya ampun!!!! tahap super! my SIL ckp "bela jin ke apa dia ni?" muahahahahah. habis segala coco crunch , honey stars azriff dia rembat. dgn biscuit oat i bwk pi keje pon dia makan. nasi + lauk jgn ceritala, memang dia yg habiskan..... kalau suap azriff, mau 5 masuk dlm mulut dia, 1 je msk dlm mulut azriff.my PIL pernah bwk nescafe 3 in 1 .ade dlm 9 sachets kot. esok pg tgk tinggal 1 ke 2. siapa yg kerjakan??? hadoii! ini bukan nak berkira psl makan, tapiiii if dh mkn bnyk giler sampai kene buat groceries shopping 2-3kali seminggu, hangin gak diri ini.wuwu. ouh time gi groceries shopping :
"buk, ini tempenya beli 4 ke 5 ya buk saya suka tempe" (ewah, ikot tekak ko je kan? tekak ku nak letak dimanakah?)
"buk, senduk ibu dirumah nggak bagus, beli yg ini bagus buk, yg dirumah saya tak biasa guna" (ewah ewah ewah bnyk cantik, nak komplen i nye senduk??? memangla senduk murah, tp i gune ok je,grammmmmm
"buk, iya yang ini ayamnya besar ,senang dimasak dan dipotong, kok dibeli yg kecil nggak cukup, susah dipotong" (time ni i memang mengucap panjang, menahan sabar takot kot2 tindakan luar kawal senduk tadi masuk dlm mulut bibik ni,tahap kesabaranku dahla berada di paras terendah sekali di abad ini)
3) malas cuci tong sampah!
"buk, ini plastic yg dibeli barang ini, kecil bangat buk, letak di tong sampah nggak bisa buk, nanti tumpah2 sampahnya, ibu beli yang besaaarrrr itu, mudah"
(banyak cantik muka ko, plastic jusco ,tesco giant tu free ok, tak koserr nak gi beli plastic sampah tu.if penuh buangla, sebab tu kene cuci tongnya, nak senang je, sekeh nak?)
4) suka memasak!
bab ni paling hangin, di amemang kerja nak masaaaak je.jage azriff tak nak. padahal ktrg dh ckp tka nak dia msk, ktrg xkan mkn ape maid masak. dia sebok pagi2 dah tung tang tung tang kat dapoq.masak punye banyak. bukan utk dia srg.grrrrrrr.... tak taula di aade niat apeka rajin sangat memasak tu.tp di amcm xbg i masak, dia ckp kt MIL i dia xsuke masakan org malaysia .nggak enak katenye.... serious bibik ni mintak pelempang kan?
5) tengking Azriff
i tak pernah dengar, tp my MIL dengar. dia ckp bibik tengking azriff bile azriff merengek, dia ckp " APAAAAAaaaaaa" (gaye menengking ala mak limah marah anak pulang petang).... ok, i tka kesah if nak mara azriff ke ape, tapi jgn tengking plis. aku pon tak pernah tengking anak sendiri!
6) errr.......... gaya nak ngurat FIL
hahahha.ini lawak.
"pak, nak kopi kocok?" (wahhhhhh)
"pak, emangnya saya juga tau bawak motor, saya ingin skali ke kedai, saya numpang bapak ya"
(mau x gelabah mak mertua ku, nak ditumpangnye motor bapak mertuaku, waduhhh kacau ini bibik)
7) makan semeja
ini bibik dia senang je
"buk makan buk" (sambil dia dh duduk dekat meja, makan dulu before us. dia dah ngadap segala lauk, ktrg kene pi dapur sendiri ambil nasi lauk semua. padahal mase dia mula2 dtg rumah ktrg, i ajak dia makan, siap sendukkan nasi dia lg...hampeh betol, tgk dlm tv maid sediakan nasi, tuangkan air, adekah itu dusta belaka?.sigh)
8) tengok tv sambil baring2 lagi...
korang ade maid camni? angkat tangan! i ade!!!!wuwuwwuuw...germa sungguh pernah sekali tu, dia selambe je tukar channel, i ngn hubby tgh tgk cerit alain, dia tukar channel siap. bagus tak? gempak giler kan!
9) bawak bende2 pelik nak black magic ke ape ka. mase dia 1st time dtg, i dh check bag dia. tp xnampak ape2. tula ad ehubby yg super prihatin dia xbg i check bag bibik without telling her. uncivilized katenye. sekali bgtau dia, maybe dia sorrokan dulu la tu. (sorry sayang, next time i check je, civilized ke tak i dont care lagi dah.srik) wuwuwuw.... sekali dh hantar dia kt agent, siap jumpa bawang putih+ lada hitam+ kemenyan + xtau ape lagi + rambut ...xsure rambut dia ke tak, yg penting bukan rambut ktrg...adeh2.... geram sungguh. ad epic dia i pernah letka kt fb, tp hubby suruh delete, geli kate dia. so of curse la xley letak kt blog, nanti confirm dia suruh delete jugak (isteri mithali kan ni? hahahhha. nak jugak!)
10) handfon 24jam
ni memang, hfon dia ade 2 ok!kalah tuan rumah! dahla canggih.katenye 1 utk main game, 1 utk call family. wahhh siap ade fon utk main game. kelazzz nyahz! dia dhla umor 40plus! nak main game lagi, ape ingat i hire u utk main game bik???
11) nak berniaga
dia ckp kt MIL i , nanti raye balik indon di anak bwk balik jamu. dia pandai buat jamu
"nanti ibu tolong jualkan ya jamu2 saya, mujarab benar bu, saya yg bikin"
(facepalm, rase nak hantuk dahi kt dinding! ko dtg cni nak meniage ke nak kerja,if ko nak jual jamu, sape nak jage anak aku????)
12) lipstik merah mak ngah!
ooooo dia kalau keluar rumah lipstik dr merah dr i u olzzzzz! kelazzz ok. memangla dia kate dia janda, tapi haruskah begitu sekali. hadoi... dia dh 40 plus. pening kepala den!
13) tipu umur
kt passport dia 37, tp sebenarnye dah 43
"ibu jgn bilang sama puan ya, umur saya sebenarnye 43, tp takot mau bilang sama puan" (time ni dia mcm sengal2 alang cket, tak tau asal die bgtau MIL i, ewah bnyk cantik xbg my mil bgtau i, dah sah2 muka ko mcm 40an pon.grrrrrrrrr....ktrg mmg xmo yg tua, psl tkt xlarat buat kerja, plus mcm xsampai hati nak suruh itu ini..30plus is the limit..so memang harus tukarla kan!)
14) A SMOKER!
dia admit sendiri dgn MIL yg dia smoker dulu, tp sbab jage azriff dia stop. perrgghhh! tp agak sengal disitu kerana cerita kt my MIL. and mmg dia smoker, i jumpa kotak rokok kt bilik maid bwh tu..... ouh my god! cant imagine dia smoke depan azriff. dhla ktrg mmg ade rules xley smoke dlm rumah. my hubby is not a smoker! waaaaaaa...marahnyeeeee!!!!!!
sekian! itula dia ape yg i ingat sepanjang bibik tu kerja, fikir2 balik boleh tensi. mengapakah kene hadap bibik berperangai mcm ni???! hadoi! rase mcm trauma pon ade! wuwu.....
keyboard off =)
Monday, June 18
why ouh why?
1stly,
who got a domestic maid at home? hands up! i believe for those who have, you have your own reason why and why u are willing to put some amount of money just to get a stranger to stay with you at home.
please know that actually me n hubby seriously dont like any strangers to stay at our home. i mean, well not really stranger la, let say if family members pon, (can come over and sleep at our house for some occasions or what i mean not staying with us for forever or errrr...more than few days) kejam tak statement tuan rumah?mesti xde org nak tido myhouse after this. dont get me wrong, if dtg visit, melawat melepak ok, but tinggal cni for any reason, mcm susahje.sebab kami suka berdua-duaan eh skrg ber3-3 an. if ade org kt rumah like parents or anybody else, rs cam susah je nak bermesra-mesraan dikhalayak rumah. i pulak jenis kt rumah memang tak pernah tak seksi, pakaian di rumah tiada yg mencapai tahap piwaian tertinggi kesopanan&kesusilaan.(dolu2 pakaian kt luar pon mcmtu-hehehe). so mcm susah nak cover2. bila hubby's offshore, PIL will come to my house, teman menantu dgn cucunya (mase xde maid)-baik kan mak mertua i? so mmg kene bersopanla dpn FIL ku...tp if hubby balik, they wont be around, so only 3 of us in the house.yippie-yay!
actually, me and hubby toyed with so many different options before settling on maid option. But we've decided to take a maid for few reasons:
1 - Quality time (ewahhh2, mengade).its because hubby's working 5weeks offshore and has only like 4 and half weeks onshore(break). so during that time only we can hang out together, watching movies, doing our fav things together...etc...etc..if we are maidless, yes we can send azriff to nursery, but we have to pick him up at 6pm, 630pm at the latest!.if i send him to nursery, for sure around 630 i have to be home. so no gym for me? i prefer to go to the gym after work, so 5-6 at the gym and then dash off home. so sending azriff to nursery is not a good option for me plus when azriff's daddy is around so we cant go out dating-datong after work?okayyy, thats not healthy for us=P seriously if my hubby is working in KL, office hour, we definitely wont take maid because pergi-balik kerja dah bersama-sama.hihihi....everyday pon jumpa kan? ni sekali sekala jumpa.....got certain time we only see each other for 2weeks (like this time laaaa).sobs.
2- and how if i do get held back at work.more than 630pm? who going to pick up Azriff at nursery? if im going abroad for meetings, trainings etc ? when im hanging out with the gurls at night? (i pefer to have this kind of lifestyle than later i meroyan and keep saying "no me time laaa" "im not a fun person anymore after being a mom" or else everytime the gurls keluar i'll sedih sendiri psl i xdpt keluar, kene balik awal.gosh, hugeee no!its not necessary to go out every night, i mean like once a month, sometimes got speacial ocassion like birthday party, bachelorette party so of course la karaoke bagia nak rak. then who is going to take care of Azriff? of course the maid......if krg yg hubby always around to bolehla mintak tlg hubby takes care of your baby, but like if hubby's working, how? as i said, if both of us working in the office, memang tak la nak amik maid.yes, we live nearby our parents house, but still....our PIL is busy with their other cucu....plus we are independant like that =P (kononnye) =P
3- my super duper rajin hubby!krg kalau nak kawen tu tlg tengok2 sket hubby tu rajin tak. if rajin memang ok, tp if SUPER rajin, krg sila blah awal2.hahahahah.... 1 good thing is, memanggg krg takkan face things like :
"yang, u tak boleh gantung ke towel u, asal letak atas katil ni?"
"baby, baju u tu tolong letak dlm washing machine ye,eiii yg bau busuk ni ape? ur socks ke?gosh!"
"yang, i letih laaaa.... tolong lipatkan baju tu, kalau u nak bilik ni jd gunung baju, okayy je u takyah lipat,i campak u campak, kan sweet sehati sejiwa gittew"
memang serious bertuahnye jadi dirini ini, tak pernah membebel kat hubby pasal bende2 diatas TAPI. ye ade tapi SAYA lah insan yg selalu diBEBELI!....haaa,kan dh wujud such word? hahahaha....ini penting ye utk mengekalkan healthy relationship psl if not, mmg asyik nak bertekak je la, iyela, hubby 5weeks keje offshore, tak jage anak bagai, im d'one yg who takes care of Azriff , hal2 rumah semua i settelkan sendiri. soi bila time dia balik, sajela nak bg tasks kt dia.hehehhe...biar dia kemas rumah, dia dah memang the youngest child, so memang xreti jage budak. asal nangis pass kt i, itujela kejenye.haha. dia xmerungut pon kene kemas. tapi kadang2 bising jugak.sooo utk mengelakkan BISINGAN itu, mari kite amek maid!hehehe....1 more thing, hubby super rajin ni, keje dia pantang tengok sepah,dia kemas.weekend ke, weekedays ke..keje memang kemas. rimas ok tengok. haaa,sekali amek maid, baru tenang cket hidup ni, xla di aasyik mengemas je.hubby memang spesis morning person, kol 7 bgn then tetibe gi bwh kemas, mungkin dia xley tido pk pinggan mangkuk last nite yg xbasuh!erggghhh! so ambil maid, memang phew! tiada BEBEBLAN lagi!mungkin yg akan dibebeli is the maid.hahahaha....sbab dia ade gak merungut few things
"syg, dia mop xbersih ni, i xsuke camni"
"syg dh ckp kt dia bersihakan betol2 lantai tu? i nak yg memenuhi piawai i ok, bukan sygnye piawai"
(cissss, piawai dia adalah super bersih, tahap laintai dh mop mcm upah 10org org gaji mop, langsung xde kesan debu dan kotoran)...hadoi....
4- how if dah beranak 2-3-dan 4? still no maid at home? we sent azriff to nursery but seriously every week he got different type of disease. this week fever, next week flu, next 2weeks cough+flu...so memang non stop on medicine.gaaa! thats why we chose to have maid at home. taking care of azriff is the main thing. but we make sure to bring him to the park, playing with other kids + the cousins, swimming class, music class, so that he could develop his socializing skills.
i guess when the time comes where me and hubby can be more democratic when it comes to the household chores & hubby is working in the office, then ill consider to go- maidless!sounds ouh-so-like-a-pampered-bunch right?
who got a domestic maid at home? hands up! i believe for those who have, you have your own reason why and why u are willing to put some amount of money just to get a stranger to stay with you at home.
please know that actually me n hubby seriously dont like any strangers to stay at our home. i mean, well not really stranger la, let say if family members pon, (can come over and sleep at our house for some occasions or what i mean not staying with us for forever or errrr...more than few days) kejam tak statement tuan rumah?mesti xde org nak tido myhouse after this. dont get me wrong, if dtg visit, melawat melepak ok, but tinggal cni for any reason, mcm susahje.sebab kami suka berdua-duaan eh skrg ber3-3 an. if ade org kt rumah like parents or anybody else, rs cam susah je nak bermesra-mesraan dikhalayak rumah. i pulak jenis kt rumah memang tak pernah tak seksi, pakaian di rumah tiada yg mencapai tahap piwaian tertinggi kesopanan&kesusilaan.(dolu2 pakaian kt luar pon mcmtu-hehehe). so mcm susah nak cover2. bila hubby's offshore, PIL will come to my house, teman menantu dgn cucunya (mase xde maid)-baik kan mak mertua i? so mmg kene bersopanla dpn FIL ku...tp if hubby balik, they wont be around, so only 3 of us in the house.yippie-yay!
actually, me and hubby toyed with so many different options before settling on maid option. But we've decided to take a maid for few reasons:
1 - Quality time (ewahhh2, mengade).its because hubby's working 5weeks offshore and has only like 4 and half weeks onshore(break). so during that time only we can hang out together, watching movies, doing our fav things together...etc...etc..if we are maidless, yes we can send azriff to nursery, but we have to pick him up at 6pm, 630pm at the latest!.if i send him to nursery, for sure around 630 i have to be home. so no gym for me? i prefer to go to the gym after work, so 5-6 at the gym and then dash off home. so sending azriff to nursery is not a good option for me plus when azriff's daddy is around so we cant go out dating-datong after work?okayyy, thats not healthy for us=P seriously if my hubby is working in KL, office hour, we definitely wont take maid because pergi-balik kerja dah bersama-sama.hihihi....everyday pon jumpa kan? ni sekali sekala jumpa.....got certain time we only see each other for 2weeks (like this time laaaa).sobs.
2- and how if i do get held back at work.more than 630pm? who going to pick up Azriff at nursery? if im going abroad for meetings, trainings etc ? when im hanging out with the gurls at night? (i pefer to have this kind of lifestyle than later i meroyan and keep saying "no me time laaa" "im not a fun person anymore after being a mom" or else everytime the gurls keluar i'll sedih sendiri psl i xdpt keluar, kene balik awal.gosh, hugeee no!its not necessary to go out every night, i mean like once a month, sometimes got speacial ocassion like birthday party, bachelorette party so of course la karaoke bagia nak rak. then who is going to take care of Azriff? of course the maid......if krg yg hubby always around to bolehla mintak tlg hubby takes care of your baby, but like if hubby's working, how? as i said, if both of us working in the office, memang tak la nak amik maid.yes, we live nearby our parents house, but still....our PIL is busy with their other cucu....plus we are independant like that =P (kononnye) =P
3- my super duper rajin hubby!krg kalau nak kawen tu tlg tengok2 sket hubby tu rajin tak. if rajin memang ok, tp if SUPER rajin, krg sila blah awal2.hahahahah.... 1 good thing is, memanggg krg takkan face things like :
"yang, u tak boleh gantung ke towel u, asal letak atas katil ni?"
"baby, baju u tu tolong letak dlm washing machine ye,eiii yg bau busuk ni ape? ur socks ke?gosh!"
"yang, i letih laaaa.... tolong lipatkan baju tu, kalau u nak bilik ni jd gunung baju, okayy je u takyah lipat,i campak u campak, kan sweet sehati sejiwa gittew"
memang serious bertuahnye jadi dirini ini, tak pernah membebel kat hubby pasal bende2 diatas TAPI. ye ade tapi SAYA lah insan yg selalu diBEBELI!....haaa,kan dh wujud such word? hahahaha....ini penting ye utk mengekalkan healthy relationship psl if not, mmg asyik nak bertekak je la, iyela, hubby 5weeks keje offshore, tak jage anak bagai, im d'one yg who takes care of Azriff , hal2 rumah semua i settelkan sendiri. soi bila time dia balik, sajela nak bg tasks kt dia.hehehhe...biar dia kemas rumah, dia dah memang the youngest child, so memang xreti jage budak. asal nangis pass kt i, itujela kejenye.haha. dia xmerungut pon kene kemas. tapi kadang2 bising jugak.sooo utk mengelakkan BISINGAN itu, mari kite amek maid!hehehe....1 more thing, hubby super rajin ni, keje dia pantang tengok sepah,dia kemas.weekend ke, weekedays ke..keje memang kemas. rimas ok tengok. haaa,sekali amek maid, baru tenang cket hidup ni, xla di aasyik mengemas je.hubby memang spesis morning person, kol 7 bgn then tetibe gi bwh kemas, mungkin dia xley tido pk pinggan mangkuk last nite yg xbasuh!erggghhh! so ambil maid, memang phew! tiada BEBEBLAN lagi!mungkin yg akan dibebeli is the maid.hahahaha....sbab dia ade gak merungut few things
"syg, dia mop xbersih ni, i xsuke camni"
"syg dh ckp kt dia bersihakan betol2 lantai tu? i nak yg memenuhi piawai i ok, bukan sygnye piawai"
(cissss, piawai dia adalah super bersih, tahap laintai dh mop mcm upah 10org org gaji mop, langsung xde kesan debu dan kotoran)...hadoi....
4- how if dah beranak 2-3-dan 4? still no maid at home? we sent azriff to nursery but seriously every week he got different type of disease. this week fever, next week flu, next 2weeks cough+flu...so memang non stop on medicine.gaaa! thats why we chose to have maid at home. taking care of azriff is the main thing. but we make sure to bring him to the park, playing with other kids + the cousins, swimming class, music class, so that he could develop his socializing skills.
i guess when the time comes where me and hubby can be more democratic when it comes to the household chores & hubby is working in the office, then ill consider to go- maidless!sounds ouh-so-like-a-pampered-bunch right?
Wednesday, June 6
Perangai Tak HOT bila dah jadi “EMAK”
Being a mom is such a blessing. A truly blessing from God. Feels like im on the top of the world. Nothing beats this feeling. Soo the kiasu feeling grows each day. Seriously, u’ll feel amazed with ur changes and goes….ahhh…that’s normal for a mommy to do that….i just want to share my happiness with others….so im listing down my so “TAK HOT” perangai once im being a mom.gaaaa! don’t know whether other moms got same symptoms with me or its just me yg berkiasu sorang2.hehehehe
1) so bermulalah sesi ibu2 kerap mengupload gambar anak2 di fb.semalam upload,today upload,esok upload.mcm org lain xde anak, ko sorang je ade anak kan?mcm2 gaye gambo anak nak upload.excited sangatla sampai kadang2 gambar daddy kepada anak tu rs mcm “aahhhh….xpayah upload gambar hubbyla,anak lagi comel”.muahaha
2) maka berleluasalah perangai2 menjadikan anak sebagai profile picture kt fb, twitter bagai. So rase mcm “hello....lets see my comel kids?” like duhhhhh….certain org yg memang tak tau full name ko kt fb and panggil name lain,name fb lain, bukak fb terus blank…. Sape ni? (sebab gambo anak jd profile pic). Even worse ade yg tukar name fb terus jd name anak (ok, yg ni I xbuat…. Hehehhhe) if anak ade 3 letak semua name anak as fb’s name.if 5 letak 5.woooo…
3) dulu ms pregnant ade je my friend yg ckp “tengokla nanti dh ade baby, handbag ko dh xde dah, bag anak tu la bag ko n no more high heels ok!” so far, its proven that what she told me was wrong! Hello, mengapekah bag anak boleh gantikan handbag? Bag anak n brg2 anak kene separate dgn brg2 dlm handbag. Seriously I nvr put diapers, minyak yu yee or susu baby dlm my handbag. Bag Azriff is for Azriff. Silap2 nanti dia dh bley galas bag tu,sila bawak sendiri.(kijam kah?). so I never say NO to handbags and high heels.sekian.weeeeee. TAPI……. Bab bag telekong or bag utk pump susu ya’lll…. Bila dh ade baby, of course la selalu beli barang baby kan. So bnykla paper bags. Asal bukak store cari paper bag, confirm jumpa bag yg tertera perkataan2 familiar from any baby stores/outlets kt dunia ni. And perangai plg tak best is I pulak go “eh cantikla bag ni…” so trus grab bag tu and terang2 tulis .
haaaaaa…xke xpayah nak bgtau semua org yg ko dah ade anak, let alone nk bgtau org yg ko dah kawen. Pasal org belom kawen n xde anak xkan nak pakai bag mothercare bagai. So, secara tidak langsung anda (ye saya) telah menjatuhkan saham sendiri dengan mempromote diri sebagai “emak”.cisss! I pulak bag pump konon2 xmo pakai yg medela punye psl looks like handbag makcik2 (poyo kan disitu?) tapi apekah xbwk bag medela, bwk bag mothercare *facepalm*
4) then let say if you are in the new company, nobody knows you are married with a kid, tapi mengade2 saje nk bgtau org.
eg: bila masuk new company, confirmla ade org2 yg ajak lunch bersama. Especially guys. So bila ajak lunch ramai2 ok, bukan ber2-2an. Gi makan sama and borak2…tak pasal2 nak menyebut pasal anak (aku lettew)… sila jgn salah faham disini, bukanlah bgtau anak tu pasal drg nak msk line ke ape, tapi sebab bila sebut anak nanti drg ckp “ade gambar anak, nak tengok”….. haaaaa part tu la nak dengar….hahahahah…. so mcm excited tunjuk gambo2 anak kt orang.ntah ape jenis perangai pon tak tau laaa…mcm anak ko comel giler kan? (tapi walaupon xde comel sgt, tapiii tetap comel dihati saye).wuwuwuwu. so secare xlangsung telah menjatuhkan saham sendiri. Orang tu belom sempat lg tanye “single ke?” ko dh tak pasal2 bgtau ade anak. *facepalm laju2* haha.
5) Satu lagi perangai bila sebenarnye sebut pasal anak kt colleague2 yg baru ni sebab nak dengar respond “wahhhh…u don’t look like a mother at all, still got “upmm” body shape okayyyy".. (ehem2, memang rase nak lompat bintang 44 kali disitu). Nak2 bile budak2 lelaki yg korang makan lunch same td ckp “laaa, dh kawen ke …cisssss….baru nak ngurat, penat je tegur n ajak lunch tadi”…(time ni terus lupa diri psl rase wow…..xnampak mcm mak-mak u ollsssss)…hahahaha…aku xtaula perasaan perasan ni nak buang mcmane….hehe.but for me sometimes rase best je bila org puji kan….(pasal laki sendiri pemalas nak puji, dia tau complain aje.grrrrrrrrrrr) pastu mulela riak memberitahu hubby berita2 gembira tadi and cakap “tula,I tau dah I memang xmcm mak org,syg je xmo puji, cepat ckp I gorgeous!”… time2 mcmni yg I rase hubby mcm blank “apehall laaaaa ngn wife aku ni” so dia terpakse melayan…hahahaa….padan muka anda wahai encik Azman! Tapi kadang2 respond yg diharapkan tak dilayan pon, sometimes he goes “alaaaa, tu drg tengok luar je, yg dlm stretch mark drg xnampak”…okkkkkkkkkk!!!!! Aritu mase pregnant I told him that I’ll go for laser treatment to lessen the scars and if boleh, nak make it disappear terus dia ckp “alaaaa xpayahla sayang, bukan ade org Nampak pon,u pakai baju Nampak perut ke? I tak kesah pon”…sekarang nak mengungkit pasal strectch mark itu.grrrrrrr!!!!!!!! haha.
6) Everytime going out with the girls or friends, mostly drg suka gi shopping baju. And yg kita rase mcm “allaaa,baju I bnyk lagi, baik beli baju anak”… so xkanla krg nak ajak member2 pergi kedai baju baby, confirm drg xnak.soooo Korang pon follow je laaaa (sometimes tersambar gak baju sendiri sehelai-dua tu =P) tp hati meronta2 bila Nampak outlets yg jual bj baby.cisss! hehehehehe. And kawan2 krg sometimes pelik siap ckp “udect, dulu ko nak beli ape pon,ko masuk pilih n bayar, y skrg ko mcm hesitate nak membeli?” i mcm “errrr……..” tak tau nak jawab ape.dulu single babe, beli baju utk diri sendiri.if let say baju tu 50rm so beli jela,utk diri sendiri. Now dah ade anak ,kene divide by 2, so if baju 50rm tadi, pk balik, kang bolehke beli baju for azriff pulak? Sooo…begitulah keadaannye…..kene piker 4-5 kali pulak tu nak membeli…. *ade gaye calon ibu mithali?* =P
7) Banyak membebel! For me la, dulu I was like telling myself not to be like my mom when I become as a mother one day…punye tinggi cita2..tapi hampeh! Selalu bebel n marah azriff if azriff wat bende2 pelik (tak la pelik pon, he’s a baby kot)…tapi nanti I bising, mara dia…. Cisss….rupenye jadi mak-mak memang mcm tu eh? Adoiiii!
NOTA KAKI: certain people might be asking why im always on fb, blog while in the office. orang kate keje O&G bz, tapi hang tu mcm xbz pon.hehehee...ye saya memang xde kerja skrg, memang if join O&G ade mcm training or we call it school. during school we'learn everything bout things which related to our job. so saye belom pergi school lagi. so far no commercial jobs yet, just helping others, during easy-peasy thing like QHSE thingy and most of the time studying (eceh! padahal buat bende lain)..so thats y im still free ni, wait until mid july, going to school and after that.....mungkin takde mase nk blog balik.sobs! lgpon normally, im blogging at night then put on schedule, pagi/tghr baru publish =)
so peep taaa.
Tuesday, November 15
on things yg "dah lapuk dek hujan, dah lekang dek panas".
ok, flipping back memories bout before my married life. been quite active yo.yes, my work required me to stay in the office untill late night BUT i never consider it as something which stopped me from doing something else eg:socializing with me frens, gym-ing, playing squash, jamming session and many other things.seriously if stay kt office,pergi balik, pergi balik boleh membuncitkan perut kot.better do sumthing which could ease a bit rase-rase tension tu kan? kan?
so below were my activities semase masih anak dareeeee.yeeehaw!haha.
Gymgoer:
actually memang selalu gi gym since mula2 kerja.well u know to tone up the body n mengecilkan part-part mane yg harus dikecilkan or errrr...membersarkan part mane yg harus dibesarkan. eh ade ke? =P
normally,i'll be going early in the morning.somewhere nearby office.took celebrity fitness platinum.so can go everywhere.if pergi pagi2 (yes, pakse diri bagai nak rak bukak mate kol 6,ouh saye kagum dgn diri sendiri).then terus drive ke kl gi gym, then mandi n pi office. if petang,will be going to midvalley.memang menarikkk.selain dr tujuan2 kesihatan, pergi ke gym juga ialah kerana mahu mencuci mate.if x cuci mate,cemane mate nak bersihkan? =P so sile cuci mate anda melihat abang-abang body, ouh my.... sixpacks occcayyy!handsome2 belaka.pheeewitttt (ok,ini xtvt bfore kawen,setelah kawen gi gym tutup mate).eh?haha.
pole dance class:
ini memang tabiat luar biase saye kerana at 1st pergi dance class,then mcm nak lg mencabar gi pole dance class.it was hard in d'beginning but lame2 ok.memang niat di hati nak ade pole kt rumah, siap nk buat show kat hubby.buuutttttt xkesampaian, pasal pas kawen terus stop.hish rugi2.if not,still bley maen2 dgn mane tiang2 yg ade.boleh pnajat2 kesane sini.mesti Azriff kagum.muahahahaha.
guitar:
gile guitar since zaman sekolah.bnyk kali kene beli pasal jahanam,tali putus bagai.then ade la gi jamming pas kerja n lepak2 ngn member2.sukeeeee sangat tengok mamat2 men guitar.tp since laki i xreti maen,make guitar saye terletak di dlm store.sungguh kasihaaaannnnn.
foreign language:
dulu2 ms kt secondary school, ade srg mamat ni (tgk kt tv) dia polis,tp dia belajar bnyk bahase.so mcm jadi idola kejap. ingat nak jd terror in many languages jugak,tapi apekan daye selalu xsempat after work nk gi class2 bahase (eh melepak ngn kengkawan sempat pulak kan?).mase dulu kt sekolah belajar arabic, jgn tanye dah ape maksud,semua lupa.arabic pon selalu skip class.haha. then uni belajar german language, perggghhh....susah giler ok,budget nak dok german,tp ntah ttahun bile.skrg sudah lupe ape yg dipelajari adelah. then mase kerja belajar mandarin.mcm poyo jap gi class, jap x gi,so ntah ape2 jadinye.langsung lupe skrg.wo ai ni. taulaaa.hahahaha.
swimming:
ini kira daily xtvt mase dok kt rumah (dulu stay kt kondo kt keramat) maka sangattlaaa suka swimming.nyum nyum nyummmmmm.
diving&snorkeling:
ni lagila berhabuk, even slb pon ade buat.join sekali je kot.sbab manjang time kene nak gi ade je bende2 hal menyibuk,deadline la,client meetingla, deting time la.eh? pernah few times gi diving dgn member2.start kerja mmg slow.adoi!
but snorkeling memang quite often la,asal gi holiday kt pulau confirm akan pergi snorkeling.heheehe.
adventurous xtvties,
like hiking (panjat gunung kinabalu), camping, travelling with friens (ouh saye memang sukaaa iniiiiii), white water rafting, free fall xtvties adn u name it la.memang sangatttt sukaaaaa.rs mcm nak gi selalu if ade mase.memang release tension habis.
maka itulah ye kawan2, if ade mase lapang sementare muda ni,rajin2kanla berxtvt selain kerja anda.besh ke gi kerja,balik kerja je?u should have hobbies and passions to do things which out of ur ordinary routine.so once u dah pop like me, u'll fell satisfied.like ouh ini i dh try,ini pon dh.heeee.but 1 thing i still xbuat2 lagi is sky diving.serious nak buat but manjang xsempat.hopefully wiLl find time to do it someday!
taaa peeps!
so below were my activities semase masih anak dareeeee.yeeehaw!haha.
Gymgoer:
actually memang selalu gi gym since mula2 kerja.well u know to tone up the body n mengecilkan part-part mane yg harus dikecilkan or errrr...membersarkan part mane yg harus dibesarkan. eh ade ke? =P
normally,i'll be going early in the morning.somewhere nearby office.took celebrity fitness platinum.so can go everywhere.if pergi pagi2 (yes, pakse diri bagai nak rak bukak mate kol 6,ouh saye kagum dgn diri sendiri).then terus drive ke kl gi gym, then mandi n pi office. if petang,will be going to midvalley.memang menarikkk.selain dr tujuan2 kesihatan, pergi ke gym juga ialah kerana mahu mencuci mate.if x cuci mate,cemane mate nak bersihkan? =P so sile cuci mate anda melihat abang-abang body, ouh my.... sixpacks occcayyy!handsome2 belaka.pheeewitttt (ok,ini xtvt bfore kawen,setelah kawen gi gym tutup mate).eh?haha.
pole dance class:
ini memang tabiat luar biase saye kerana at 1st pergi dance class,then mcm nak lg mencabar gi pole dance class.it was hard in d'beginning but lame2 ok.memang niat di hati nak ade pole kt rumah, siap nk buat show kat hubby.buuutttttt xkesampaian, pasal pas kawen terus stop.hish rugi2.if not,still bley maen2 dgn mane tiang2 yg ade.boleh pnajat2 kesane sini.mesti Azriff kagum.muahahahaha.
my ouh my,i memang teruja giler nak ade pole sendiri at home.
gile guitar since zaman sekolah.bnyk kali kene beli pasal jahanam,tali putus bagai.then ade la gi jamming pas kerja n lepak2 ngn member2.sukeeeee sangat tengok mamat2 men guitar.tp since laki i xreti maen,make guitar saye terletak di dlm store.sungguh kasihaaaannnnn.
sila perhatikan guitar mcm nak dibalut tikar.ini keadaan dalma store.sekian.
dulu2 ms kt secondary school, ade srg mamat ni (tgk kt tv) dia polis,tp dia belajar bnyk bahase.so mcm jadi idola kejap. ingat nak jd terror in many languages jugak,tapi apekan daye selalu xsempat after work nk gi class2 bahase (eh melepak ngn kengkawan sempat pulak kan?).mase dulu kt sekolah belajar arabic, jgn tanye dah ape maksud,semua lupa.arabic pon selalu skip class.haha. then uni belajar german language, perggghhh....susah giler ok,budget nak dok german,tp ntah ttahun bile.skrg sudah lupe ape yg dipelajari adelah. then mase kerja belajar mandarin.mcm poyo jap gi class, jap x gi,so ntah ape2 jadinye.langsung lupe skrg.wo ai ni. taulaaa.hahahaha.
ho-ho ini belajar bahase arab mase kecik2.muahaha. mandarin cert tak dapat ditemuai,di bawah katil dekat kampung maybe.sigh.
ini kira daily xtvt mase dok kt rumah (dulu stay kt kondo kt keramat) maka sangattlaaa suka swimming.nyum nyum nyummmmmm.
diving&snorkeling:
ni lagila berhabuk, even slb pon ade buat.join sekali je kot.sbab manjang time kene nak gi ade je bende2 hal menyibuk,deadline la,client meetingla, deting time la.eh? pernah few times gi diving dgn member2.start kerja mmg slow.adoi!
but snorkeling memang quite often la,asal gi holiday kt pulau confirm akan pergi snorkeling.heheehe.
adventurous xtvties,
like hiking (panjat gunung kinabalu), camping, travelling with friens (ouh saye memang sukaaa iniiiiii), white water rafting, free fall xtvties adn u name it la.memang sangatttt sukaaaaa.rs mcm nak gi selalu if ade mase.memang release tension habis.
this was 1 of company's activity, mase tu Quay2 still my boyfie.auwww=P
muka ganas:memang nampak sgt exaggerate,pose for d'camera!
naik bot,but i wasnt d'coxwain, encik hubby tau la nk bwk bot,saye tatau!
parasailing... yes we did it!in bali ya'alll.*berlagak mcm bagus=P*
yezza.bali with d'gurls!
langkawiiiiiiii....yeehawwww
hello u,meet my frennnnnnnn...=P
maka itulah ye kawan2, if ade mase lapang sementare muda ni,rajin2kanla berxtvt selain kerja anda.besh ke gi kerja,balik kerja je?u should have hobbies and passions to do things which out of ur ordinary routine.so once u dah pop like me, u'll fell satisfied.like ouh ini i dh try,ini pon dh.heeee.but 1 thing i still xbuat2 lagi is sky diving.serious nak buat but manjang xsempat.hopefully wiLl find time to do it someday!
taaa peeps!
Tuesday, November 8
how to survive long distance relationship (LDR)
for those who are in a LDR and managed to survive successfully so far,i wish you: congratulations.
for me who have been years (ckp mcm lameee giler,padahal its just 4years baru=P) in LDR and can attests : it was hard in the beginning but as time passes by, im getting used to it and Alhamdulillah im going through this calmly and patiently and become more understanding on how to make things work for both sides.makin lame makin pro bak kate org tua2=P
ok, below are my tips actually more to my opinion on how to survive in LDR. if saudara saudari sekalian got extra tips, u r most welcome to add here and there and share with me=)
so, i think first and foremost as usual, UNDERSTANDING:which is the most important part.
understand ur partner's job/situation:
bila dah jauh2 tu,kenela faham2 situations org dekat sana.eg: he/she is there for study, work etc.
mostly because of those 2 right? so, list down priority students and employees of certain companies.
eg: dia ade mase 24hrs ke nak mengadap lappie,in short nak mengadap fb,ym berchatting dgn ko srgje, mcm xde kerja laen nak buat. then xpayahla yg ko pon mengade2 nak ngadap lappie je 24jam tungggu dia online. bawak2la buat kerja laen.eg: memasak,buat tocang rambut,ketip kuku....etc etc...
actually part ni was hard in the beginning, mase kt office pon dulu2 i online psl tunggu si dia online and chat with me.end up both online tp xsempat bertegur sape or borak sepatah dua psl xmenyempat siapkan kerja.macammm hampeh!
getting to know your partner
yela kan zaman2 mase mula2 nak bercinta and in LDR plak confirm u ols memang nak full attention, rase nak dia spend time to chat with u or talk to u on d'phone whole day (ni mostly ladiesla), but pleasela understand ur partner's routine, habit and tabiat! sebab as for certain males yg xberape nak sensitive eg: my hubby, my hubby, my hubby, dr mula2 zmn bercinta mmg jenis bukan bercinta mcm nak rak.meaning dia kerja on shift kt offshore nun for 12 hrs straight, then 12hrs la d'other time nak tidoq,makan,lepak wif frens atas kapal,basuh bj bagai. so aftr work mmg he'll on his ym but xla ngadap je nak chat ngn i.kdg2 tgh chat dia, mcm dia diam skejap,tyn gi mane.ckp gi gym.ek eleh bgtaula siang2 kan? xpon, bc paper online.wahhhhh,geram seyyy i dok ngadap laptop ni mcm nak msk dlm lappie die bley bc online paper.at 1st mmg susah gakla (actually xla susah sgt if krg dpt boyfie yg type dia xbc paper, xgi gym, xlepak ngn kawan2,dunia dia ialah work n u.so memang heavenla u.pas keje je mesti dia ngadap u sampai tertido atas lappie. and org2 camni mostly perot buncit.hahahhaa.so, better my boyfie going to d'gymla and socialize wf his friend.saye rela.kekekee.give him boy time la jugak kan.so silalah fahami ape yg partner anda suka and tak. but the most important thing is toleransi.waahhhh, toleransi tuuuu.hehe. if krg tak bley accept and mmg very clingy xbley accept ur partner's life dekat sane mmg susahla.it somehow can add a whole lot of stress to your already strained couplehood. so chill-chill saja.
DO NOT COMPARE YOUR PARTNER/RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS
ok, this part kene stress kan cket because u will always surrounded with friends yg ala-ala sedang bercinta jugak.so nanti mmg u'll always face situations like:
situasi satu:
"td kereta i rosak, kamal dtg tolong repair u,sweet kan, dia dr penang tros turun kl tu nk betolkan tyre i yg rosak punye pasal"
padahal yg u ols plak kenela terhegeh2 tukar tyre sendiri, or else call AAM ke ape, or worst dok situ srg2 berjam2 sementare tunggu rescue.hahaha.
so,silela ade mental yg kuat and make preparation dulu for few things. tak payah compare, ckp dlm hati biarla, boyfie dia dekat,selalu ade dgn dia,romantic lg terus turun dr penang tinggalkan sup hameed yg sedap tu semata2 nk tolong dtg tgk kereta ko rosak, padahal dtg2 tu call mechanic je keja dia, tu bley buat sendiri kot
so tak payah pk sangat, things happen and find ways to solve it.dont blame situations especially ur LDR. like me i mmg know how to tukar tyr kereta since bwk satria kt ukm dulu, bcoz i know i srg2 kt kl,and xsuka if kene susahkan boyfie bab ni.ouh i mmg ade 1 perangai yg bile susah2 i xsuke call boyfie dulu, i suke call my bestfriend .yerp a guy ms kt ukm.so mcm tula, silela belajar few things untuk survive.tukar try bukan susah sgt.tapiii skrgni i rs kene take time la if nk suruh i tukar tyre sbab ms kerja terus beli kereta yg ade tyre RFT( run flat tyre).hahahah.so,bab2 tukar mmg dah lame xberlaku. RFT if ade symbol pancit kt kereta bley drive lg dlm 100km cmtu. so lalalalalala.heheheh. takpela, jgn nak mengada2 sgt,make it as ur own knowledge, guys will find the woman with brain is HOT!heh! dulu mase i dgn hubby deting detong i la yg ajar dia nk tukar tyre, tolong dia pilih rim tyre, hubby i dulu mmg jenis tk give a dam sgt psl baru2 kerja n baru dpt kete,so advantage kepada sy disitu=P
situasi dua:
"ouh my, boyfie hanna giler romantic and cool, mase birthday dia ,boyfie dia dtg senyap2 dkt her house,bwk bunga and then teros bawak shopping you.sekali handbag chanel boyfie die zass utk dia!"
takpe, situasi ini memang akan membuatkan u ols rase nak menitik-nitik-nitik air mata sbab rase besh la kan if ade surprise cmtu (eh ke besh pasal ade part chanel disitu?).hahaha. so, silelah jgn mengharapkan situasi2 seperti ini berlaku.be realistic la cket. cemaneka boyfie anda nk dtg tiba-tiba wat surprise dpn rumah on ur bithday sedangkan u ols sedia maklum dia jauh nun di perantauan.so,jangan nak pening2kan diri nak2 bg i yg mmg tau schedule boyfie now hubby psl kerja secompany ni.so redha jela dgn "happy birthday sayang" -kat tepon or paling sadis kt screen ym je.haha.ape ade hal.gua tough "sile ckp kt diri sendiri berulang kali".hahahah.
situasi tiga:
"i pg td si zack hantar gi kerja, lunch nanti dgn dia, balik dia ambil, malam lepak2 kat rasta dgn dia n kawan2 dia"
ini clingy tahap serious!dr pg smpai petang semuala nak bersama.so,sila abaikan jika ade kawan2 anda begitu.being clingy bukan care hidup anda.give each other some space and jgn compare dgn org laen.maybe mereka selesa dgn care begitu tp anda tak mungkin face the same situation.maka redha la.tak semua org same.takpe berjauhan dulu skrg,insyaAllah if panjang umur murah rezeki, hari tua dapat bersama-sama.
share the burden
part ni like krg kadang2 share la wif partner krg betapa rindunya, sayangnya krg kt dia but sometimes sedih jugak pasal anda berdua thousands miles away jauhnya.sobs sobs. maka beruntunglah anda if dpt partner yg "i jugak rindu u,sayang u ,kalaula bukan pasla kerja/study ,lautan pacific,atlantic,lautan nil ni i redah semata2 nak bersama dgn sayang yg comel,cun,hot dsb". menangis kegembiraan la anda dpt boyfie yg romantic tahap gaban cmtu, boyfie i yg merangkap hubby i skrg ni,ms dolu-dolu if i ckp cmtu die ckp "alaaa,sekejap je bukan lame, ramai lg org laen camni,ok je,lame2 biasela tu". so sile hantukkan kepala anda ke dinding dgn harapan dpt trus melupakan tentang part dia yg tak berapa nak romantic tu.in short, redha jelaaa.haha. tapi sekali sekala ckp la gak kat dia kan,dia bukannya takde perasaan.actually dia kat sane pon serabut gak,nak gak balik rumah jumpa mak ayah,u ols and member2 dia,tp nak buat cemaneka if dh situasi kerja mmg jauh.
make your time "together" fun
Talking with your partner on the phone is precious time together for you. Ensure you do your bit to make it a fun call. cakap bende yg lalalalala.jgnla everyday call mengadu problem kerja, family problem, and segala problem yg ade.sometimes drg nak offload their work problem for a day ke nak talk sumthing fun n chill2 je.so, tak payah nak asyik2 every call remind both of u psl how hard to survive in LDR, or else asyik nangis2 "i rindu u, i rindu u,i rindu u".so ur partner serabut kot nanti.cerita bende yg fun, if let say ade yg tak puas hati ,tunggu dia balik, dh jumpa baru ckp (yes,i always do that) sbab tak nak burden ur partner mase jauh2.kadang2 tunggu dia balik,sekali dia dh blk tgk muka dia,langsung tak jadi ckp sbab alamakkk muke seposennn arrr balik dr jauh,cute jugak.takpela,lupekanlaa part dia ckp perut aku buncit dr dia ms kat phone haritu.hahaha.ini contoh. perut saye tak buncit ok! wekkkk. hahaha.
dealing with loneliness
get urself busy with something else people! like ur work, study, or hang out more often with ur friends or family. like for me mmg dulu balik kerja lambat giler, lepak2 with friends,since family jauh so pejam celik-pejam celik taddaaaa tetibe sampai time boyfie now hubby balik.kan kan?yes i understand missing ur partner is sometimes the hardest part of all in a LDR. When the phone’s gone down, or you haven’t been able to speak for a few days how do you deal with the loneliness that can sometimes creep up on you. memang serious kadang2 sbab kapal punye satellite out of prospect la apela.so, takpela,redha je.deal with it. i dulu mase bercinta lg besh, boyfie now hubby tu call seminggu skali, dh tunang baru 2-3hari skali,dha kawen 2kali sehari,dh ade anak baru everyday weh!ini fakta!korang boley survive boyfie call seminggu skali je?conversation yg len menerusi email or chat saje.saye boleh sebab saye a strong person.(sile ckp kt diri anda berkali-kai).haha.insyaAllah boleh.i pon bkn yg type mengada2 sgt, if dia nak call seminggu skali biarla, mls nak pk sgt.lgpon masa mula-mula mmgla serious tp xsure bley survive ke tak,lame-lame "alah bisa,tegal biase" bak kate org german.chill je la.hehehe.ouh n i dulu mmg sentiase membusykan diri dgn gi gym after work, join pole dance class, lepak with friends, maen squasy and macam2la to kill the loneliness.kene la tough sikit dah ini jalan yg dipilih.memang selalu ckp dkt diri sendiri.
Appreciate small things
bila dah jauh2 tu kan apela sgt bende boleh buat kan?so, make small things count peeps!like bila u bgn pagi,dia dh ym u ckp "morning sunshine". so sile pk,ouh dia bgn pagi2 dh ingat aku. or else ms dia call u when: let say mom u sakit ke,kucing tergeliat kaki, die terus call sbab tau u sedih n try to calm u down ms dlm kejauhan tu.sile appreciate.jgn ckp "i really hope u were here with me ms kucing i jatuh tadi, i sedih,nape u takde sini.nape?nape?nape?" wahhhh.serabot paleotak partner anda camni.sebenarnye percayelah lelaki rase mcm loser giler bile xdpt buat anything for girlfren/wifey dia yg tgh sdey especially time jauh2 camtu. maka sila appreciate.silalah berusaha!hehe
TRUST YOUR PARTNER
ok,bende2 mcm ni memang payah nak decsribe pasal mase dah jauh2 tu,mula lah kepala pusing pk bukan-bukan.bende yg takde diada-adakan. happen to me few times pon,hehe.cudnt help myself sometimes.but over time kite belajarla kan utk percaye dkt org.at first memang susah,lama2 insyaAllah ok. dan berdoalah.itu saje yang mampu time jauh2 tu. and u ols pula sile jgn nak create scene like
"u tau tak,td i gi mkn kt yong tau fu ampang, ade srg mamat bg fon no,die ckp i cun"
"td boyfie si hajar ckp i cantik,die pandang i semacamla u"
"dkt office i ramai lelaki asyik bg i bunga, call i everyday,hish geramla i"
tak payahla buat bende2 mcm tu sbab nak attention frm ur partner yg jauh tu.tok sah la menyerabutkan kepala dia.1st thing dia pilih anda sbab dia tau anda comel dah. tk payah nak ulang 40ribu kali kot untuk menghighlight yg anda comel untuk dia sentiase beringat2 supaya anda x terlepas ke tgn org laen. and tak payah nak buat dia jealous adn sometimes bende2 mcmtu boleh lead to something yg kita takmo eg: ur partner tak trust u or else rasekan yg dia jauh,ramai org nak kat u,maka u better go to them.hahaha.time ni padan muke anda.sbab ur partner dh surrender.tula ,sape suruh mengade2?=p
okla, above tips memang ape yg share dkt u ols la kan.if got anything, jangan segan2 tambah!=)
update: got 1 more thing i guess.important ni.
Boolayan with other people assumptions
part ni mmg la kadang2 kite kene consider ape org ckp la kan.tp xyah la percaye lebih2 sangat.check sendiri.jgn percaye ckp org melulu n jgn pulak percaye ur partner 200%.everything kene investigate dulu. like mine, org selalu ckp "atas kapal tu bahaye weh, ade pompuan ramai,then drg bile balik darat terus gian pompuan,book ke hotel teros".
like hello, macamla aku tak pernah pergi offshore.tak payah nak ckp bende pelik2.got this 1 fler ni,dia dahla xpernah kerja offshore in fact xpernah kerja oil and gas pon tetibe ckp kt u "i know atas kapal,monthly drg supplier perempuan,dtg via chopper ke kapal,beshla org2 kapal".
well, hello ape kejadah company nak supply pompuan?ini bukan pekerjaan suak-suka,ini kerja 12jam busuk2 atas kapal bersihkan barnacles (uweeekkk), dlm coverall pergi back deck kerja poloh2,pastu offshift time nak tido,lepak,makan tgk dvd ,gym-ing or maen ping pong bang oi. i pon pernah gi offshore.yg ramai ialah lelaki,bukan pompuan. lawak giler bile org luar judge.siap ckp blk teros check in hotel.eh,i ade itenerary laki i laaaa dr die keluar kapal naik chopper,naik 2-3flights baru smpai rumah,semua ade.sent by company lg.nak melencong apenye.and if terdapat keraguan like certain time got cases yg hubby takley call in certain countries, and flight die have to reschedule psl tertinggal chopper bagai, i ade direct contact with company's coordinator utk check.org2 yg hati busuk camni jgn dilayan sbab memang xberpekdah. dia boyfie/laki ko,maka ko je yg paham kerja dia.and jgn pening2 kepala nak percaya org ckp bende karut2.lainla if kerja rig,let say kt vietnam,then seminggu turun rig drg lepak2 kt town itu ade possibility la.ini laki gue kerja kapal ok.KAPAL. maka if time port call pon kejap je naik darat and fyi, sgtla jarang nk stranded kt shore lame giler.if stranded lebih 3hari meh sini i fly brasil,besh gak jalan2 gi ipanema lepak2 kt beach dia.ahhhhhhhh (mcm besh nak suggest ni kt hubby for next anniversary.eh melalut=P) .
ok, peeps,daaaaaaaa
for me who have been years (ckp mcm lameee giler,padahal its just 4years baru=P) in LDR and can attests : it was hard in the beginning but as time passes by, im getting used to it and Alhamdulillah im going through this calmly and patiently and become more understanding on how to make things work for both sides.makin lame makin pro bak kate org tua2=P
ok, below are my tips actually more to my opinion on how to survive in LDR. if saudara saudari sekalian got extra tips, u r most welcome to add here and there and share with me=)
so, i think first and foremost as usual, UNDERSTANDING:which is the most important part.
understand ur partner's job/situation:
bila dah jauh2 tu,kenela faham2 situations org dekat sana.eg: he/she is there for study, work etc.
mostly because of those 2 right? so, list down priority students and employees of certain companies.
eg: dia ade mase 24hrs ke nak mengadap lappie,in short nak mengadap fb,ym berchatting dgn ko srgje, mcm xde kerja laen nak buat. then xpayahla yg ko pon mengade2 nak ngadap lappie je 24jam tungggu dia online. bawak2la buat kerja laen.eg: memasak,buat tocang rambut,ketip kuku....etc etc...
actually part ni was hard in the beginning, mase kt office pon dulu2 i online psl tunggu si dia online and chat with me.end up both online tp xsempat bertegur sape or borak sepatah dua psl xmenyempat siapkan kerja.macammm hampeh!
getting to know your partner
yela kan zaman2 mase mula2 nak bercinta and in LDR plak confirm u ols memang nak full attention, rase nak dia spend time to chat with u or talk to u on d'phone whole day (ni mostly ladiesla), but pleasela understand ur partner's routine, habit and tabiat! sebab as for certain males yg xberape nak sensitive eg: my hubby, my hubby, my hubby, dr mula2 zmn bercinta mmg jenis bukan bercinta mcm nak rak.meaning dia kerja on shift kt offshore nun for 12 hrs straight, then 12hrs la d'other time nak tidoq,makan,lepak wif frens atas kapal,basuh bj bagai. so aftr work mmg he'll on his ym but xla ngadap je nak chat ngn i.kdg2 tgh chat dia, mcm dia diam skejap,tyn gi mane.ckp gi gym.ek eleh bgtaula siang2 kan? xpon, bc paper online.wahhhhh,geram seyyy i dok ngadap laptop ni mcm nak msk dlm lappie die bley bc online paper.at 1st mmg susah gakla (actually xla susah sgt if krg dpt boyfie yg type dia xbc paper, xgi gym, xlepak ngn kawan2,dunia dia ialah work n u.so memang heavenla u.pas keje je mesti dia ngadap u sampai tertido atas lappie. and org2 camni mostly perot buncit.hahahhaa.so, better my boyfie going to d'gymla and socialize wf his friend.saye rela.kekekee.give him boy time la jugak kan.so silalah fahami ape yg partner anda suka and tak. but the most important thing is toleransi.waahhhh, toleransi tuuuu.hehe. if krg tak bley accept and mmg very clingy xbley accept ur partner's life dekat sane mmg susahla.it somehow can add a whole lot of stress to your already strained couplehood. so chill-chill saja.
DO NOT COMPARE YOUR PARTNER/RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS
ok, this part kene stress kan cket because u will always surrounded with friends yg ala-ala sedang bercinta jugak.so nanti mmg u'll always face situations like:
situasi satu:
"td kereta i rosak, kamal dtg tolong repair u,sweet kan, dia dr penang tros turun kl tu nk betolkan tyre i yg rosak punye pasal"
padahal yg u ols plak kenela terhegeh2 tukar tyre sendiri, or else call AAM ke ape, or worst dok situ srg2 berjam2 sementare tunggu rescue.hahaha.
so,silela ade mental yg kuat and make preparation dulu for few things. tak payah compare, ckp dlm hati biarla, boyfie dia dekat,selalu ade dgn dia,romantic lg terus turun dr penang tinggalkan sup hameed yg sedap tu semata2 nk tolong dtg tgk kereta ko rosak, padahal dtg2 tu call mechanic je keja dia, tu bley buat sendiri kot
so tak payah pk sangat, things happen and find ways to solve it.dont blame situations especially ur LDR. like me i mmg know how to tukar tyr kereta since bwk satria kt ukm dulu, bcoz i know i srg2 kt kl,and xsuka if kene susahkan boyfie bab ni.ouh i mmg ade 1 perangai yg bile susah2 i xsuke call boyfie dulu, i suke call my bestfriend .yerp a guy ms kt ukm.so mcm tula, silela belajar few things untuk survive.tukar try bukan susah sgt.tapiii skrgni i rs kene take time la if nk suruh i tukar tyre sbab ms kerja terus beli kereta yg ade tyre RFT( run flat tyre).hahahah.so,bab2 tukar mmg dah lame xberlaku. RFT if ade symbol pancit kt kereta bley drive lg dlm 100km cmtu. so lalalalalala.heheheh. takpela, jgn nak mengada2 sgt,make it as ur own knowledge, guys will find the woman with brain is HOT!heh! dulu mase i dgn hubby deting detong i la yg ajar dia nk tukar tyre, tolong dia pilih rim tyre, hubby i dulu mmg jenis tk give a dam sgt psl baru2 kerja n baru dpt kete,so advantage kepada sy disitu=P
situasi dua:
"ouh my, boyfie hanna giler romantic and cool, mase birthday dia ,boyfie dia dtg senyap2 dkt her house,bwk bunga and then teros bawak shopping you.sekali handbag chanel boyfie die zass utk dia!"
takpe, situasi ini memang akan membuatkan u ols rase nak menitik-nitik-nitik air mata sbab rase besh la kan if ade surprise cmtu (eh ke besh pasal ade part chanel disitu?).hahaha. so, silelah jgn mengharapkan situasi2 seperti ini berlaku.be realistic la cket. cemaneka boyfie anda nk dtg tiba-tiba wat surprise dpn rumah on ur bithday sedangkan u ols sedia maklum dia jauh nun di perantauan.so,jangan nak pening2kan diri nak2 bg i yg mmg tau schedule boyfie now hubby psl kerja secompany ni.so redha jela dgn "happy birthday sayang" -kat tepon or paling sadis kt screen ym je.haha.ape ade hal.gua tough "sile ckp kt diri sendiri berulang kali".hahahah.
situasi tiga:
"i pg td si zack hantar gi kerja, lunch nanti dgn dia, balik dia ambil, malam lepak2 kat rasta dgn dia n kawan2 dia"
ini clingy tahap serious!dr pg smpai petang semuala nak bersama.so,sila abaikan jika ade kawan2 anda begitu.being clingy bukan care hidup anda.give each other some space and jgn compare dgn org laen.maybe mereka selesa dgn care begitu tp anda tak mungkin face the same situation.maka redha la.tak semua org same.takpe berjauhan dulu skrg,insyaAllah if panjang umur murah rezeki, hari tua dapat bersama-sama.
share the burden
part ni like krg kadang2 share la wif partner krg betapa rindunya, sayangnya krg kt dia but sometimes sedih jugak pasal anda berdua thousands miles away jauhnya.sobs sobs. maka beruntunglah anda if dpt partner yg "i jugak rindu u,sayang u ,kalaula bukan pasla kerja/study ,lautan pacific,atlantic,lautan nil ni i redah semata2 nak bersama dgn sayang yg comel,cun,hot dsb". menangis kegembiraan la anda dpt boyfie yg romantic tahap gaban cmtu, boyfie i yg merangkap hubby i skrg ni,ms dolu-dolu if i ckp cmtu die ckp "alaaa,sekejap je bukan lame, ramai lg org laen camni,ok je,lame2 biasela tu". so sile hantukkan kepala anda ke dinding dgn harapan dpt trus melupakan tentang part dia yg tak berapa nak romantic tu.in short, redha jelaaa.haha. tapi sekali sekala ckp la gak kat dia kan,dia bukannya takde perasaan.actually dia kat sane pon serabut gak,nak gak balik rumah jumpa mak ayah,u ols and member2 dia,tp nak buat cemaneka if dh situasi kerja mmg jauh.
make your time "together" fun
Talking with your partner on the phone is precious time together for you. Ensure you do your bit to make it a fun call. cakap bende yg lalalalala.jgnla everyday call mengadu problem kerja, family problem, and segala problem yg ade.sometimes drg nak offload their work problem for a day ke nak talk sumthing fun n chill2 je.so, tak payah nak asyik2 every call remind both of u psl how hard to survive in LDR, or else asyik nangis2 "i rindu u, i rindu u,i rindu u".so ur partner serabut kot nanti.cerita bende yg fun, if let say ade yg tak puas hati ,tunggu dia balik, dh jumpa baru ckp (yes,i always do that) sbab tak nak burden ur partner mase jauh2.kadang2 tunggu dia balik,sekali dia dh blk tgk muka dia,langsung tak jadi ckp sbab alamakkk muke seposennn arrr balik dr jauh,cute jugak.takpela,lupekanlaa part dia ckp perut aku buncit dr dia ms kat phone haritu.hahaha.ini contoh. perut saye tak buncit ok! wekkkk. hahaha.
dealing with loneliness
get urself busy with something else people! like ur work, study, or hang out more often with ur friends or family. like for me mmg dulu balik kerja lambat giler, lepak2 with friends,since family jauh so pejam celik-pejam celik taddaaaa tetibe sampai time boyfie now hubby balik.kan kan?yes i understand missing ur partner is sometimes the hardest part of all in a LDR. When the phone’s gone down, or you haven’t been able to speak for a few days how do you deal with the loneliness that can sometimes creep up on you. memang serious kadang2 sbab kapal punye satellite out of prospect la apela.so, takpela,redha je.deal with it. i dulu mase bercinta lg besh, boyfie now hubby tu call seminggu skali, dh tunang baru 2-3hari skali,dha kawen 2kali sehari,dh ade anak baru everyday weh!ini fakta!korang boley survive boyfie call seminggu skali je?conversation yg len menerusi email or chat saje.saye boleh sebab saye a strong person.(sile ckp kt diri anda berkali-kai).haha.insyaAllah boleh.i pon bkn yg type mengada2 sgt, if dia nak call seminggu skali biarla, mls nak pk sgt.lgpon masa mula-mula mmgla serious tp xsure bley survive ke tak,lame-lame "alah bisa,tegal biase" bak kate org german.chill je la.hehehe.ouh n i dulu mmg sentiase membusykan diri dgn gi gym after work, join pole dance class, lepak with friends, maen squasy and macam2la to kill the loneliness.kene la tough sikit dah ini jalan yg dipilih.memang selalu ckp dkt diri sendiri.
Appreciate small things
bila dah jauh2 tu kan apela sgt bende boleh buat kan?so, make small things count peeps!like bila u bgn pagi,dia dh ym u ckp "morning sunshine". so sile pk,ouh dia bgn pagi2 dh ingat aku. or else ms dia call u when: let say mom u sakit ke,kucing tergeliat kaki, die terus call sbab tau u sedih n try to calm u down ms dlm kejauhan tu.sile appreciate.jgn ckp "i really hope u were here with me ms kucing i jatuh tadi, i sedih,nape u takde sini.nape?nape?nape?" wahhhh.serabot paleotak partner anda camni.sebenarnye percayelah lelaki rase mcm loser giler bile xdpt buat anything for girlfren/wifey dia yg tgh sdey especially time jauh2 camtu. maka sila appreciate.silalah berusaha!hehe
TRUST YOUR PARTNER
ok,bende2 mcm ni memang payah nak decsribe pasal mase dah jauh2 tu,mula lah kepala pusing pk bukan-bukan.bende yg takde diada-adakan. happen to me few times pon,hehe.cudnt help myself sometimes.but over time kite belajarla kan utk percaye dkt org.at first memang susah,lama2 insyaAllah ok. dan berdoalah.itu saje yang mampu time jauh2 tu. and u ols pula sile jgn nak create scene like
"u tau tak,td i gi mkn kt yong tau fu ampang, ade srg mamat bg fon no,die ckp i cun"
"td boyfie si hajar ckp i cantik,die pandang i semacamla u"
"dkt office i ramai lelaki asyik bg i bunga, call i everyday,hish geramla i"
tak payahla buat bende2 mcm tu sbab nak attention frm ur partner yg jauh tu.tok sah la menyerabutkan kepala dia.1st thing dia pilih anda sbab dia tau anda comel dah. tk payah nak ulang 40ribu kali kot untuk menghighlight yg anda comel untuk dia sentiase beringat2 supaya anda x terlepas ke tgn org laen. and tak payah nak buat dia jealous adn sometimes bende2 mcmtu boleh lead to something yg kita takmo eg: ur partner tak trust u or else rasekan yg dia jauh,ramai org nak kat u,maka u better go to them.hahaha.time ni padan muke anda.sbab ur partner dh surrender.tula ,sape suruh mengade2?=p
okla, above tips memang ape yg share dkt u ols la kan.if got anything, jangan segan2 tambah!=)
update: got 1 more thing i guess.important ni.
Boolayan with other people assumptions
part ni mmg la kadang2 kite kene consider ape org ckp la kan.tp xyah la percaye lebih2 sangat.check sendiri.jgn percaye ckp org melulu n jgn pulak percaye ur partner 200%.everything kene investigate dulu. like mine, org selalu ckp "atas kapal tu bahaye weh, ade pompuan ramai,then drg bile balik darat terus gian pompuan,book ke hotel teros".
like hello, macamla aku tak pernah pergi offshore.tak payah nak ckp bende pelik2.got this 1 fler ni,dia dahla xpernah kerja offshore in fact xpernah kerja oil and gas pon tetibe ckp kt u "i know atas kapal,monthly drg supplier perempuan,dtg via chopper ke kapal,beshla org2 kapal".
well, hello ape kejadah company nak supply pompuan?ini bukan pekerjaan suak-suka,ini kerja 12jam busuk2 atas kapal bersihkan barnacles (uweeekkk), dlm coverall pergi back deck kerja poloh2,pastu offshift time nak tido,lepak,makan tgk dvd ,gym-ing or maen ping pong bang oi. i pon pernah gi offshore.yg ramai ialah lelaki,bukan pompuan. lawak giler bile org luar judge.siap ckp blk teros check in hotel.eh,i ade itenerary laki i laaaa dr die keluar kapal naik chopper,naik 2-3flights baru smpai rumah,semua ade.sent by company lg.nak melencong apenye.and if terdapat keraguan like certain time got cases yg hubby takley call in certain countries, and flight die have to reschedule psl tertinggal chopper bagai, i ade direct contact with company's coordinator utk check.org2 yg hati busuk camni jgn dilayan sbab memang xberpekdah. dia boyfie/laki ko,maka ko je yg paham kerja dia.and jgn pening2 kepala nak percaya org ckp bende karut2.lainla if kerja rig,let say kt vietnam,then seminggu turun rig drg lepak2 kt town itu ade possibility la.ini laki gue kerja kapal ok.KAPAL. maka if time port call pon kejap je naik darat and fyi, sgtla jarang nk stranded kt shore lame giler.if stranded lebih 3hari meh sini i fly brasil,besh gak jalan2 gi ipanema lepak2 kt beach dia.ahhhhhhhh (mcm besh nak suggest ni kt hubby for next anniversary.eh melalut=P) .
ok, peeps,daaaaaaaa
Monday, November 7
past and present....
ok, fine.
am feeling depressed/sad all of a sudden!why ouh why? maybe i can whatt??? blame the hormones!yes!haha.kesian jadi hormon asyik kene blame.
ok,come to think of pimple, ill give huge-huge sigh to all the pimples on me face! seriously. if la pimples2 ni bley ckp kt diri mereka "eh biarla kasi can muka minah ni licin setahun" confirm i buat kenduri=P like seriously!
tried sooo many products from cheap to expensive ones but still no changes. dulu2 mase anak dareeeeee...anak dareee ok, pimples jarang nak singgah2 kt muka psl makan hormone pills Dr ting yg famous tu. his clinic situated at jalan imbi. but since after kawen ,takkan pulak nak makan hormone pills nanti takut xdpt baby. ni dah dpt baby, takot makan pills psl nak breastfeed baby,takot effect ke ape (eh xcheck plak with docs kan?bley ke tak ek?. then next year tak bley jugak amek pills because rase-rase mcm nak beranak lg (eh seriously kerja beranak je ke kau?) my frens always ask me that.so bilenye kulit nak smooth like a baby'?haha. well,different org differentla planningnye kan.insyaAllah if ade rezeki =). so godek2 balik pics lame2, dapatla pics time muka tak berape nak ade pimples like skrg, pic skrg krg tak pyahla tgk, sebab baik post pics Azriff kot dr diri sendiri.wuwuwu.
ini masa dating!eh miss that long wavy hair!
well,if u u n u got any suggestions on how to get perfect flawless skin, please do not hesitate to share with me.am dying to get flawless skin.pretty please =) thank youuuuuuu.
am feeling depressed/sad all of a sudden!why ouh why? maybe i can whatt??? blame the hormones!yes!haha.kesian jadi hormon asyik kene blame.
ok,come to think of pimple, ill give huge-huge sigh to all the pimples on me face! seriously. if la pimples2 ni bley ckp kt diri mereka "eh biarla kasi can muka minah ni licin setahun" confirm i buat kenduri=P like seriously!
tried sooo many products from cheap to expensive ones but still no changes. dulu2 mase anak dareeeeee...anak dareee ok, pimples jarang nak singgah2 kt muka psl makan hormone pills Dr ting yg famous tu. his clinic situated at jalan imbi. but since after kawen ,takkan pulak nak makan hormone pills nanti takut xdpt baby. ni dah dpt baby, takot makan pills psl nak breastfeed baby,takot effect ke ape (eh xcheck plak with docs kan?bley ke tak ek?. then next year tak bley jugak amek pills because rase-rase mcm nak beranak lg (eh seriously kerja beranak je ke kau?) my frens always ask me that.so bilenye kulit nak smooth like a baby'?haha. well,different org differentla planningnye kan.insyaAllah if ade rezeki =). so godek2 balik pics lame2, dapatla pics time muka tak berape nak ade pimples like skrg, pic skrg krg tak pyahla tgk, sebab baik post pics Azriff kot dr diri sendiri.wuwuwu.
ini masa dating!eh miss that long wavy hair!
inside the cable car.langkawi. zaman2 bercinta.
ok,pics ni mmg sangat sukeeee sbab menampakkan ciri2 kayuan pada seorang yg tak ayu.haha *eh prasan*
1st time got prezzie frm boyfie (now hubby).sweet giler ok.auuwwww=P
berposing ngn "coach" sbab sepanjang kerja xrase nk beli pon,rase membaziq!tp bile boyfie(now hubby) belikan senyum sampai telinge. this time i was 24.wahh muda kan? kan? haha
bab products pulak mcm2 dah try, dr yg made in malaysia, Japan,US bagai.mcm hampeh semua xjadi. *ini fakta seidh sila nangis beramai2*. sobs. products yg i dh try:
1) felissa cosmetics -ok jugak actually product ni pakai ms zaman2 study but the peeling part was too agressive.sakit ok.so stop mase kerja.
2) alken -langsung tak ok!
3) olay - tidak memberikan kesan langsung!
4) tia emilia - ok jugak but after 6 mos dah immune n not working at all.
5) SK2 -pffft!hate this.u buy expnsive products and it was just not match with ur skin type.the pitera was like triggered the pimples to come out more often then it should be!saddddd.
6) took new york skin solutions treatment. it was like everytime pergi ad eje bende kene beli n muka tak ok2 jugak.the heck kan? so, memang benci giler,now just pergi for normal facial je since dah byr beribu2 for the treatment kan.wasted!
5) SK2 -pffft!hate this.u buy expnsive products and it was just not match with ur skin type.the pitera was like triggered the pimples to come out more often then it should be!saddddd.
6) took new york skin solutions treatment. it was like everytime pergi ad eje bende kene beli n muka tak ok2 jugak.the heck kan? so, memang benci giler,now just pergi for normal facial je since dah byr beribu2 for the treatment kan.wasted!
well,if u u n u got any suggestions on how to get perfect flawless skin, please do not hesitate to share with me.am dying to get flawless skin.pretty please =) thank youuuuuuu.
Saturday, November 5
tips to handle baby on a long haul flight
hi, hi, hi
im no pro, but would like 2share few tips -handling baby on a long haul flight. yerp, we went to UK last and that was like a "wow, we meet again london and scotland aftr 3years, with my baby this time.how time flies!"..how was london&scotland?will make my blog lenghty n told ya bout the trip in the next entry. now lets go for the tips!=) as i said, im no pro,please help if you have additional advices or tips =)
1) try to avoid a super duper long haul flight like more than 3 hrs. for us, actually flight to Heathrow for 12hrs, then to aberdeen around 1hr.so total 13hrs.but we stopped over in dubai,so we took 6+6+1 hours flight. phew!
2) make sure (as usual) baby foods, breastmilks or formula milk, plain water are in the baby bag all the time. yes in flight they can served u with the milk and plain water,this one is in case baby lapar kat terminal ke kan. for me i didnt bring much EBM this time just bg supply on demand je.bwk EBM just few je.maleh.haha.
3) ok, during landing and take off try breastfeed baby or let baby chew something or give baby drinks ke, it'd help to relive baby's ear pressure during take-off and landing and for Azriff this time i didnt brest feed him, its either this is his 2nd time in flight experience or because of the pilot was smart enough in making smooth landing and take off,which the pressure gradually chaged during take off and landing,not changed drastically which can course worse ear pressure's effect.auch!
4) hug&play with ur baby during take off and landing.calm him down if he cries.
5) yes, just bear with the 10kgs baby and pagku him sepanjang dia tidur.zzzzz.kebas tangan ok!few ppl asked me y i didnt take extra seat. i) because its gonna be normal price like my tix, membaziq! haha. ii) because Azriff still cant seat properly, nanti takut effect backbone dia, he still needs car seat bile naik kereta, tak boleh just pakai seat belt je.the possibility for him utk gelincir turun is tooo high!hehe. iii) actually we thought he still can sleeps in the bassinet.but obviously NO!he's longer than bassinet.so how!haha.
6) makan time!
7) let him play on the floor, most babies dont like to be carried all the time, they need time for themselves, they want to play with their toys or something.just let em free for a while. but be careful la kan, jgn pulak biar je baby lepas terus dlm flight,silap2 sampai kt kokpit, terkejut pilot.hahhaa.
8) ok, so after few minutes playing on the floor, he bored already, now he wants to go panjat2 and play with daddy.obviously nak main ape yg daddy pakai kt telinga tu (earphone)
9) ok,he wanted to play with the remote.its his new toy for now!
10) ok,nak tgk movie pulak!
11) ok,makannnnnnngggg lagi! yes azriff eats a lotttttt.no wonder more than 10kgs now!
12) ok nak maen dkt bawah! biar aje!
13) so, we are enjoying our in flight dinner and azriff's playing with his toys joyously!
14) ok, seat belt what? thish ish mys toyyysssshhhh!
hope tips above will help u guys a bit la kan=) for babies yg menanigs je in flight, i seriously do not know what to do since Azriff dia auper duper happy if berjalan, if meragam pon a little bit, not much.nangis sikit2 sbab lapar or nak tukar toys or to change environment dia nak maen. tu je la. Alhamdulillah. if got situations like baby nangis all the time, maybe because baby still tka biase with new environment,take time for baby to adapt with new situation, kene try slowly and cuba bace ayat kursi, insyaAllah will be ok=)
till then, taaaaa.
im no pro, but would like 2share few tips -handling baby on a long haul flight. yerp, we went to UK last and that was like a "wow, we meet again london and scotland aftr 3years, with my baby this time.how time flies!"..how was london&scotland?will make my blog lenghty n told ya bout the trip in the next entry. now lets go for the tips!=) as i said, im no pro,please help if you have additional advices or tips =)
1) try to avoid a super duper long haul flight like more than 3 hrs. for us, actually flight to Heathrow for 12hrs, then to aberdeen around 1hr.so total 13hrs.but we stopped over in dubai,so we took 6+6+1 hours flight. phew!
2) make sure (as usual) baby foods, breastmilks or formula milk, plain water are in the baby bag all the time. yes in flight they can served u with the milk and plain water,this one is in case baby lapar kat terminal ke kan. for me i didnt bring much EBM this time just bg supply on demand je.bwk EBM just few je.maleh.haha.
3) ok, during landing and take off try breastfeed baby or let baby chew something or give baby drinks ke, it'd help to relive baby's ear pressure during take-off and landing and for Azriff this time i didnt brest feed him, its either this is his 2nd time in flight experience or because of the pilot was smart enough in making smooth landing and take off,which the pressure gradually chaged during take off and landing,not changed drastically which can course worse ear pressure's effect.auch!
4) hug&play with ur baby during take off and landing.calm him down if he cries.
6) makan time!
7) let him play on the floor, most babies dont like to be carried all the time, they need time for themselves, they want to play with their toys or something.just let em free for a while. but be careful la kan, jgn pulak biar je baby lepas terus dlm flight,silap2 sampai kt kokpit, terkejut pilot.hahhaa.
8) ok, so after few minutes playing on the floor, he bored already, now he wants to go panjat2 and play with daddy.obviously nak main ape yg daddy pakai kt telinga tu (earphone)
9) ok,he wanted to play with the remote.its his new toy for now!
10) ok,nak tgk movie pulak!
11) ok,makannnnnnngggg lagi! yes azriff eats a lotttttt.no wonder more than 10kgs now!
12) ok nak maen dkt bawah! biar aje!
13) so, we are enjoying our in flight dinner and azriff's playing with his toys joyously!
14) ok, seat belt what? thish ish mys toyyysssshhhh!
hope tips above will help u guys a bit la kan=) for babies yg menanigs je in flight, i seriously do not know what to do since Azriff dia auper duper happy if berjalan, if meragam pon a little bit, not much.nangis sikit2 sbab lapar or nak tukar toys or to change environment dia nak maen. tu je la. Alhamdulillah. if got situations like baby nangis all the time, maybe because baby still tka biase with new environment,take time for baby to adapt with new situation, kene try slowly and cuba bace ayat kursi, insyaAllah will be ok=)
till then, taaaaa.
Wednesday, May 25
life & miracle
well, in a long distance relationship-i mean wif his 5 weeks offshore&5 weeks onshore routine,
of course within the 5weeks that he's away from me,im missing him like hell,
now whenever i miss him, i'll kiss my baby Azriff and yes,terubat jugalah rindu=)
so these are the pictures of Azriff
mommy like to buy jumper wif meaningful&funny words printed on it=)
this is sum kind like flashback kan blog ni?sekejap what's happening now and sekejap flashback of what has happened within last year and dis year. and as i mentioned before, recap on few things saje=)
so, again and again what happened on 12/12/09? yes.my solemnization and malam berinai (its kinda traditional&must do things in malacca.but seriously its fun tho!had a chance to fit myself into tiong hua,indian&jawa costume.i looked funny.lol) and got me in kebaya wif 'sanggul lintang'.honeslty i loike dat sanggul lintang.epic!haha
malam berinai in kebaya&sanggul lintang =)
baju jawa
baju tiong hua
outdoor photo shoot after solemnization
solemnization:121209
ouh yes.Allah is gracious.im super happy when Azriff was born in this world.
well, in a long distance relationship-i mean wif his 5 weeks offshore&5 weeks onshore routine,
of course within the 5weeks that he's away from me,im missing him like hell,
now whenever i miss him, i'll kiss my baby Azriff and yes,terubat jugalah rindu=)
so these are the pictures of Azriff
this is sum kind like flashback kan blog ni?sekejap what's happening now and sekejap flashback of what has happened within last year and dis year. and as i mentioned before, recap on few things saje=)
so, again and again what happened on 12/12/09? yes.my solemnization and malam berinai (its kinda traditional&must do things in malacca.but seriously its fun tho!had a chance to fit myself into tiong hua,indian&jawa costume.i looked funny.lol) and got me in kebaya wif 'sanggul lintang'.honeslty i loike dat sanggul lintang.epic!haha
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