how to survive long distance relationship (LDR)

for those who are in a LDR and managed to survive successfully so far,i wish you: congratulations.
for me who have been years (ckp mcm lameee giler,padahal its just 4years baru=P) in LDR and can attests : it was hard in the beginning but as time passes by, im getting used to it and Alhamdulillah im going through this calmly and patiently and become more understanding on how to make things work for both sides.makin lame makin pro bak kate org tua2=P

ok, below are my tips actually more to my opinion on how to survive in LDR. if saudara saudari sekalian got extra tips, u r most welcome to add here and there and share with me=)

so, i think first and foremost as usual, UNDERSTANDING:which is the most important part.

understand ur partner's job/situation:

bila dah jauh2 tu,kenela faham2 situations org dekat sana.eg: he/she is there for study, work etc.
mostly because of those 2 right? so, list down priority students and employees of certain companies.
eg: dia ade mase 24hrs ke nak mengadap lappie,in short nak mengadap fb,ym berchatting dgn ko srgje, mcm xde kerja laen nak buat. then xpayahla yg ko pon mengade2 nak ngadap lappie je 24jam tungggu dia online. bawak2la buat kerja laen.eg: memasak,buat tocang rambut,ketip kuku....etc etc...
actually part ni was hard in the beginning, mase kt office pon dulu2 i online psl tunggu si dia online and chat with me.end up both online tp xsempat bertegur sape or borak sepatah dua psl xmenyempat siapkan kerja.macammm hampeh!

getting to know your partner

yela kan zaman2 mase mula2 nak bercinta and in LDR plak confirm u ols memang nak full attention, rase nak dia spend time to chat with u or talk to u on d'phone whole day (ni mostly ladiesla), but pleasela understand ur partner's routine, habit and tabiat! sebab as for certain males yg xberape nak sensitive eg: my hubby, my hubby, my hubby, dr mula2 zmn bercinta mmg jenis bukan bercinta mcm nak rak.meaning dia kerja on shift kt offshore nun for 12 hrs straight, then 12hrs la d'other time nak tidoq,makan,lepak wif frens atas kapal,basuh bj bagai. so aftr work mmg he'll on his ym but xla ngadap je nak chat ngn i.kdg2 tgh chat dia, mcm dia diam skejap,tyn gi mane.ckp gi gym.ek eleh bgtaula siang2 kan? xpon, bc paper online.wahhhhh,geram seyyy i dok ngadap laptop ni mcm nak msk dlm lappie die bley bc online paper.at 1st mmg susah gakla (actually xla susah sgt if krg dpt boyfie yg type dia xbc paper, xgi gym, xlepak ngn kawan2,dunia dia ialah work n u.so memang heavenla u.pas keje je mesti dia ngadap u sampai tertido atas lappie. and org2 camni mostly perot buncit.hahahhaa.so, better my boyfie going to d'gymla and socialize wf his friend.saye rela.kekekee.give him boy time la jugak kan.so silalah fahami ape yg partner anda suka and tak. but the most important thing is toleransi.waahhhh, toleransi tuuuu.hehe. if krg tak bley accept and mmg very clingy xbley accept ur partner's life dekat sane mmg susahla.it somehow can add a whole lot of stress to your already strained couplehood. so chill-chill saja.

DO NOT COMPARE YOUR PARTNER/RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS

ok, this part kene stress kan cket because u will always surrounded with friends yg ala-ala sedang bercinta jugak.so nanti mmg u'll always face situations like:

situasi satu:
"td kereta i rosak, kamal dtg tolong repair u,sweet kan, dia dr penang tros turun kl tu nk betolkan tyre i yg rosak punye pasal"

padahal yg u ols plak kenela terhegeh2 tukar tyre sendiri, or else call AAM ke ape, or worst dok situ srg2 berjam2 sementare tunggu rescue.hahaha.
so,silela ade mental yg kuat and make preparation dulu for few things. tak payah compare, ckp dlm hati biarla, boyfie dia dekat,selalu ade dgn dia,romantic lg terus turun dr penang tinggalkan sup hameed yg sedap tu semata2 nk tolong dtg tgk kereta ko rosak, padahal dtg2 tu call mechanic je keja dia, tu bley buat sendiri kot

so tak payah pk sangat, things happen and find ways to solve it.dont blame situations especially ur LDR. like me i mmg know how to tukar tyr kereta since bwk satria kt ukm dulu, bcoz i know i srg2 kt kl,and xsuka if kene susahkan boyfie bab ni.ouh i mmg ade 1 perangai yg bile susah2 i xsuke call boyfie dulu, i suke call my bestfriend .yerp a guy ms kt ukm.so mcm tula, silela belajar few things untuk survive.tukar try bukan susah sgt.tapiii skrgni i rs kene take time la if nk suruh i tukar tyre sbab ms kerja terus beli kereta yg  ade tyre RFT( run flat tyre).hahahah.so,bab2 tukar mmg dah lame xberlaku. RFT if ade symbol pancit kt kereta bley drive lg dlm 100km cmtu. so lalalalalala.heheheh. takpela, jgn nak mengada2 sgt,make it as ur own knowledge, guys will find the woman with brain is HOT!heh! dulu mase i dgn hubby deting detong i la yg ajar dia nk tukar tyre, tolong dia pilih rim tyre, hubby i dulu mmg jenis tk give a dam sgt psl baru2 kerja n baru dpt kete,so advantage kepada sy disitu=P

situasi dua:

"ouh my, boyfie hanna giler romantic and cool, mase birthday dia ,boyfie dia dtg senyap2 dkt her house,bwk bunga and then teros bawak shopping you.sekali handbag chanel boyfie die zass utk dia!"

takpe, situasi ini memang akan membuatkan u ols rase nak menitik-nitik-nitik air mata sbab rase besh la kan if ade surprise cmtu (eh ke besh pasal ade part chanel disitu?).hahaha. so, silelah jgn mengharapkan situasi2 seperti ini berlaku.be realistic la cket. cemaneka boyfie anda nk dtg tiba-tiba wat surprise dpn rumah on ur bithday sedangkan u ols sedia maklum dia jauh nun di perantauan.so,jangan nak pening2kan diri nak2 bg i yg mmg tau schedule boyfie now hubby psl kerja secompany ni.so redha jela dgn "happy birthday sayang" -kat tepon or paling sadis kt screen ym je.haha.ape ade hal.gua tough "sile ckp kt diri sendiri berulang kali".hahahah.

situasi tiga:

"i pg td si zack hantar gi kerja, lunch nanti dgn dia, balik dia ambil, malam lepak2 kat rasta dgn dia n kawan2 dia"

ini clingy tahap serious!dr pg smpai petang semuala nak bersama.so,sila abaikan jika ade kawan2 anda begitu.being clingy bukan care hidup anda.give each other some space and jgn compare dgn org laen.maybe mereka selesa dgn care begitu tp anda tak mungkin face the same situation.maka redha la.tak semua org same.takpe berjauhan dulu skrg,insyaAllah if panjang umur murah rezeki, hari tua dapat bersama-sama.


share the burden

part ni like krg kadang2 share la wif partner krg betapa rindunya, sayangnya krg kt dia but sometimes sedih jugak pasal anda berdua thousands miles away jauhnya.sobs sobs. maka beruntunglah anda if dpt partner yg "i jugak rindu u,sayang u ,kalaula bukan pasla kerja/study ,lautan pacific,atlantic,lautan nil ni i redah semata2 nak bersama dgn sayang yg comel,cun,hot dsb". menangis kegembiraan la anda dpt boyfie yg romantic tahap gaban cmtu, boyfie i yg merangkap hubby i skrg ni,ms dolu-dolu if i ckp cmtu die ckp "alaaa,sekejap je bukan lame, ramai lg org laen camni,ok je,lame2 biasela tu". so sile hantukkan kepala anda ke dinding dgn harapan dpt trus melupakan tentang part dia yg tak berapa nak romantic tu.in short, redha jelaaa.haha. tapi sekali sekala ckp la gak kat dia kan,dia bukannya takde perasaan.actually dia kat sane pon serabut gak,nak gak balik rumah jumpa mak ayah,u ols and member2 dia,tp nak buat cemaneka if dh situasi kerja mmg jauh.

make your time "together" fun

Talking with your partner on the phone is precious time together for you. Ensure you do your bit to make it a fun call. cakap bende yg lalalalala.jgnla everyday call mengadu problem kerja, family problem, and segala problem yg ade.sometimes drg nak offload their work problem for a day ke nak talk sumthing fun n chill2 je.so, tak payah nak asyik2 every call remind both of u psl how hard to survive in LDR, or else asyik nangis2 "i rindu u, i rindu u,i rindu u".so ur partner serabut kot nanti.cerita bende yg fun, if let say ade yg tak puas hati ,tunggu dia balik, dh jumpa baru ckp (yes,i always do that) sbab tak nak burden ur partner mase jauh2.kadang2 tunggu dia balik,sekali dia dh blk tgk muka dia,langsung tak jadi ckp sbab alamakkk muke seposennn arrr balik dr jauh,cute jugak.takpela,lupekanlaa part dia ckp perut aku buncit dr dia ms kat phone haritu.hahaha.ini contoh. perut saye tak buncit ok! wekkkk. hahaha.

dealing with loneliness

get urself busy with something else people! like ur work, study, or hang out more often with ur friends or family. like for me mmg dulu balik kerja lambat giler, lepak2 with friends,since family jauh so pejam celik-pejam celik taddaaaa tetibe sampai time boyfie now hubby balik.kan kan?yes i understand missing ur partner is sometimes the hardest part of all in a LDR. When the phone’s gone down, or you haven’t been able to speak for a few days how do you deal with the loneliness that can sometimes creep up on you. memang serious kadang2 sbab kapal punye satellite out of prospect la apela.so, takpela,redha je.deal with it. i dulu mase bercinta lg besh, boyfie now hubby tu call seminggu skali, dh tunang baru 2-3hari skali,dha kawen 2kali sehari,dh ade anak baru everyday weh!ini fakta!korang boley survive boyfie call seminggu skali je?conversation yg len menerusi email or chat saje.saye boleh sebab saye a strong person.(sile ckp kt diri anda berkali-kai).haha.insyaAllah boleh.i pon bkn yg type mengada2 sgt, if dia nak call seminggu skali biarla, mls nak pk sgt.lgpon masa mula-mula mmgla serious tp xsure bley survive ke tak,lame-lame "alah bisa,tegal biase" bak kate org german.chill je la.hehehe.ouh n i dulu mmg sentiase membusykan diri dgn gi gym after work, join pole dance class, lepak with friends, maen squasy  and macam2la to kill the loneliness.kene la tough sikit dah ini jalan yg dipilih.memang selalu ckp dkt diri sendiri.

Appreciate small things

bila dah jauh2 tu kan apela sgt bende boleh buat kan?so, make small things count peeps!like bila u bgn pagi,dia dh ym u ckp "morning sunshine". so sile pk,ouh dia bgn pagi2 dh ingat aku. or else ms dia call u when: let say mom u sakit ke,kucing tergeliat kaki, die terus call sbab tau u sedih n try to calm u down ms dlm kejauhan tu.sile appreciate.jgn ckp "i really hope u were here with me ms kucing i jatuh tadi, i sedih,nape u takde sini.nape?nape?nape?" wahhhh.serabot paleotak partner anda camni.sebenarnye percayelah lelaki rase mcm loser giler bile xdpt buat anything for girlfren/wifey dia yg tgh sdey especially time jauh2 camtu. maka sila appreciate.silalah berusaha!hehe

TRUST YOUR PARTNER

ok,bende2 mcm ni memang payah nak decsribe pasal mase dah jauh2 tu,mula lah kepala pusing pk bukan-bukan.bende yg takde diada-adakan. happen to me few times pon,hehe.cudnt help myself sometimes.but over time kite belajarla kan utk percaye dkt org.at first memang susah,lama2 insyaAllah ok. dan berdoalah.itu saje yang mampu time jauh2 tu. and u ols pula sile jgn nak create scene like

"u tau tak,td i gi mkn kt yong tau fu ampang, ade srg mamat bg fon no,die ckp i cun"

"td boyfie si hajar ckp i cantik,die pandang i semacamla u"

"dkt office i ramai lelaki asyik bg i bunga, call i everyday,hish geramla i"

tak payahla buat bende2 mcm tu sbab nak attention frm ur partner yg jauh tu.tok sah la menyerabutkan kepala dia.1st thing dia pilih anda sbab dia tau anda comel dah. tk payah nak ulang 40ribu kali kot untuk menghighlight yg anda comel untuk dia sentiase beringat2 supaya anda x terlepas ke tgn org laen. and tak payah nak buat dia jealous adn sometimes bende2 mcmtu boleh lead to something yg kita takmo eg: ur partner tak trust u or else rasekan yg dia jauh,ramai org nak kat u,maka u better go to them.hahaha.time ni padan muke anda.sbab ur partner dh surrender.tula ,sape suruh mengade2?=p

okla, above tips memang ape yg share dkt u ols la kan.if got anything, jangan segan2 tambah!=)

update: got 1 more thing i guess.important ni.

Boolayan with other people assumptions

part ni mmg la kadang2 kite kene consider ape org ckp la kan.tp xyah la percaye lebih2 sangat.check sendiri.jgn percaye ckp org melulu n jgn pulak percaye ur partner 200%.everything kene investigate dulu. like mine, org selalu ckp "atas kapal tu bahaye weh, ade pompuan ramai,then drg bile balik darat terus gian pompuan,book ke hotel teros".

like hello, macamla aku tak pernah pergi offshore.tak payah nak ckp bende pelik2.got this 1 fler ni,dia dahla xpernah kerja offshore in fact xpernah kerja oil and gas pon tetibe ckp kt u "i know atas kapal,monthly drg supplier perempuan,dtg via chopper ke kapal,beshla org2 kapal".

well, hello ape kejadah company nak supply pompuan?ini bukan pekerjaan suak-suka,ini kerja 12jam busuk2 atas kapal bersihkan barnacles (uweeekkk), dlm coverall pergi back deck kerja poloh2,pastu offshift time nak tido,lepak,makan tgk dvd ,gym-ing or maen ping pong bang oi. i pon pernah gi offshore.yg ramai ialah lelaki,bukan pompuan. lawak giler bile org luar judge.siap ckp blk teros check in hotel.eh,i ade itenerary laki i laaaa dr die keluar kapal naik chopper,naik 2-3flights baru smpai rumah,semua ade.sent by company lg.nak melencong apenye.and if terdapat keraguan like certain time got cases yg hubby takley call in certain countries, and flight die have to reschedule psl tertinggal chopper bagai, i ade direct contact with company's coordinator utk check.org2 yg hati busuk camni jgn dilayan sbab memang xberpekdah. dia boyfie/laki ko,maka ko je yg paham kerja dia.and jgn pening2 kepala nak percaya org ckp bende karut2.lainla if kerja rig,let say kt vietnam,then seminggu turun rig drg lepak2 kt town itu ade possibility la.ini laki gue kerja kapal ok.KAPAL. maka if time port call pon kejap je naik darat and fyi, sgtla jarang nk stranded kt shore lame giler.if stranded lebih 3hari meh sini i fly brasil,besh gak jalan2 gi ipanema lepak2 kt beach dia.ahhhhhhhh (mcm besh nak suggest ni kt hubby for next anniversary.eh melalut=P) .

ok, peeps,daaaaaaaa

about being lucky and unlucky -

we cant be happy all the time right?

an update:

yesterday me had buke puase session wif future in laws.
It's vital to get to know your fiance's parents, rite?!
so.. tadaa..now, im still learning on how to deal and handle my in laws
it will may take some effort - (but seems like everything is fine & in control so far)
2 way communication between me & 'em make my life easier,
yeah, sometime i feel like my schedule is very tight,
but still i can spare the time wif his family
seriously, family harmony is definitely worth the effort!
*bling2...i feel soo lucky in this part*


some time im kinda worry wif my desire.
i think it could make my life miserable,
I do not want to jeopardize my pleasant life,
but....ergghhhh, i should face whatever that might happen in the future right?
* ouh, i hate this part right hereeee-=P*

may GOD bless- amin

S.A.G.I

i've found this somewhere in FB:

I'm Sagittarius:

You are truly romantic. You are very trustworthy. You tend to get sentimental and feel very bad if someone breaks your trust. You enjoy a great rapport with the opposite sex. Acting mushy comes naturally to you. You are very active and adventurous in your romantic quests. Commitment is a feared word for you. You take time to commit. You do not get too possessive. You love fun and excitement in your relationships. You love to flirt with the opposite sex. You like your independence and want space in your relationships.

Your kissing style:
You are an impulsive kisser. Your deeply passionate kisses are remembered forever.


*i miss him soo much...*
OMG..ive been through this ctuation for more than one and half year already.
i should be more tougher...
and yes,i know i'll survive this time. just like bfore. *wif GOD's willing.*
i should conceal my sadness,as patrick also surely need me to be happy while he's away from me. i should gather all the strengths i have and do exactly the same like he does.
*do not think too much about the distance, he's just away for 5weeks to get his handsome monthly wages*
ok, now i feel better. all things in the world have pros and cons right?
sacrifice is needed some times. thats what im doing.
*Dear ALLAH,
may mr fiance reach new orleans and monarch safely-amin*

the Diary: Our sweet, sour, bitter 14 days....=)

recap : me & fiance's activity for the whole last 2 weeks
since: after kursus kahwin -


dinner wif fiance's family at tupai2.
the steamboat taste realllyy goood.!
yummydelicious~~ woohooo...

katie got extra bonuses this month!
so, all the gurls got free marco's pizza-hooray!
*congratz katie n thanks a lot*
lucky u having the bonus, me? uwaaa..... dont ask! pathetic! i wish i have bonus2 as well.

-reunite after more than 2 years- thanks to d'ladies-

-Dudes-

then,i took 2 days off last week to settle my wedding thingy.
we chased time and seemed like 24 hours per day is not enough for us, i wish i have more time for our wedding preparation and on top of it, i really hope mr fiance will be in mesia longer than 2weeks. but.....
nvm, up to today, we managed to settle few things :

1) had meeting with our wedding planners for both side, confirm about or theme (our theme wont be revealed now,will let you guys find out-by attending our wedding) , colour, wedding costumes and make up. - so for both side-DONE!

2) HIV test, borang nikah,- filled up!-DONE! (but didnt get approval from imam yet, he told mr fiance to come again in october because the validation date for nikah form itu will only last for 3 months. so, better submit it in october- see malaysia punye birokrasi- grrrrrr

3) Hantaran stuffs - for wedding it'll be 9th-11th. we've got all the things except for 3 things -so, more or less 85% done la kan ?am i right?

okie, continue with the update- so, i took 2 days off (thursday and friday, we bz-ed ourselves with HIV test, *i got the long story for this*- d'day bfore i took day off, mr fiance showed fever and flu symptoms, so i advised him to go see doc, but he hesitated to go and insisted it was a normal flu & fever. so, i told him,if his condition getting worse,we need to go to clinic asap n he agreed. so, ok, we went for our HIV test. after the process done ( thank GOD we r free from HIV), we were about to step out from hosp and suddenly he collapsed on d'bangku2 kt hosp tu. i was shocked. asking the guard and people there to call doc. then sum1 came wif a wheelchair and i still holding my fiance , i looked at him, his lips & face turned white.very pale. ok, "dont panic i told myself", so i gave all infos to the d'doc, like he' juz coming back from US last week, he had fever and flue since yesterday and bla,bla,bla....they checked his BP, sugar and heart beat. dr claimed he had low sugar level( hipoglisemia- mind my spelling-keke) . he was half conscious. and dr asked whether he ate anything since morning, he said no. ceh! geram beta! bley plak tk makan since morning, if he's in healthy condition, i dont mind, but he was having flu and fever at that time.so, dr said, " kene masuk glukos la ni". mr fiance tros segar when he imagined the big needle and jab? whoaaa, patrick sgtla allergy.-hahaha.lawak2... trs die ckp "no, im ok"... then, i ran to petronas nearby n bought him 2 buns, mineral water and milo. dr n nurses let him rest for few minutes bfore another checked up and after that, they measure again BP, heart beat n sugar level, n they satisfied with the improvement of those, so, they allowed him to go home. then we straight away drove to pavillion, met my wedding planner ,talking & discussing & bla,bla,bla, only after 2 hours later we had proper food at madam kwan's (sian mr fiance, lepas sakit tros kene gi discuss2 n pk2 pasal wedding, then br makan).
then, around 1900hrs, we packed our stuffs and drove all the way to malacca. of course i drove that night since mr fiance wasnt feeling well. almost 2200hrs we arrived at malacca, planed to visit our kiosk, but mom already do the closing. so, juz straight away go to mom's. porridge and chicken soup was ready for mr fiance (my mom mmg bias dkt encik fiance, bile tau die sakit,tros je prepare food for him, cube kalau i..harapan!), then we watched CSI miami (abang HHHHHHHHHHHHHHH =P), ceh sekali tk mati pon, tipu btol. then we went to sleep.

the next day, we went to malacca mall, visited our kiosk, big boss eager nk tgk kiosk die, then he checked the cleanliness,arrangement of the things like this thing need to be in first compartment, that 1 should be on the left side, bla,bla.. (tell you he's more concern bout food quality,cleanliness and stuffs arrangement than money that we've got that day, so i checked stocks in and out, money in and out and many thingsla we discussed and plan to improve few things in future.
then, we had lunch at grannny's. grandpa siang2 dah kopekkan kelape mude untuk mr fiance yg demam, and grandma cooked us few kampong dishes. kami makan joyously. hehe. then, borak2, gelak2 n my baby di served with biscuit kampong tu, alaaa, yellow colour ,thick, n hard biscuits but when u dip it into hot water, it taste better than its look. then we headed to mom's. we planed to go back to to kl that evening (thursday), because we have another meeting wif nurul shukor d'next day. but bfore that, we went to clinic nearby mommy's home, bf got examined, dr confirmed he got high fever-seee, degil,awal2 tkmo pi jumpe dr. so,again i drove back to kl.

big boss checkin' the kiosk





- gambar ini hanyalah dapat dilihat bila anda berada di kawasan perkampungan-

-mommy and grandma- kami adalah keluarge yg tak akan gemok!hehehehe-insyaALLAH.

patrick bermesra2an dgn grandpa-kene belajarla kan


our reflections


serious nak focus kt grandpa's kebun but patrcik selalu ngelat focus kt die =P


my baby wif booties-haha

the next day, P.A nurul last minte told us the meeting will be postponed to sunday.sigh - if we knew it earlier,we'll stay at mommy's much longer. but nvm, mr fiance had a good rest dat day, he spent the whole friday morning and evening on bed and at night we went to his parent's.

on saturday -was our hantaran hunting day- ouh, we went to dzull de classique first. tempah babju melayu for nikah n baju kurung for khatam Quran. then we went to starhill galllery and pavillion -shopped for our hantaran. after 6hours melepak di pavillion, we realized that we spent...err... biasela, for us yg tak biase wif branded stuffs and spending that much money perday, so for us its quite like..whoaaaa...wth? and when i placed my palm on patrick's forehead "baby demam lagi,panas ni?", "mane tk panas syg, banyak keluar duet today"..
ngeeee- so better the kasut hantaran, ill buy by my own, nanti patrcik pengsan when he look at the figures (ouh,im not gonna buy damne luxury brand for heels, its just you knowla patrcik ni tk biase, some time not too expensive pon,but he still thinks its expensive), i dont know what's the limit for my hantaran heels, patrick didnt say bout the price limit yet, but i think im gonna propose the price to patrick,if he didnt agree, then better i buy it by myself. ouh, we bought his mom and dad a handbag n wallet for hari raya (see, bakal menantu yg baik, reminding patrick to buy new things for his parents-heheheh)
then, at nite lepakin' at william's wif d'gurls (nadia and azwa) n then droped by at mina's, then balik rumah.

On sunday, i went to the office,checked jobs running and submitting jobs and then off to fiance's sister's. at first, i planed to cook few dishes for patrick n the family, but plan changed last minute due to unavoidable reasons, kekekee..ended up patrick's sister served us wif her nasi ayam. menarik kannn..kekekke....

then,we went to nurul shukur touch, confimed n discussed bout this n that... for our wedding of course... then, we had dinner at yong tau fu.

so, dats it laaa....the story for d'last 2 weeks until yesterday.until d'day i sent him to KLIA, sacrifice again for his work. yerp, for d'next 5 weeks.may he reach monarch safely. we had pretty tight schedule for 2 weeks, but we had quality time together, we shared our own moments, wasnt juz a happy part,we shared our sad, sick time and involved ourselves in a lil arguement as well- yeah,that's d'true colours of relationship.we shared everything. it seems perfect. because we cherish each other and we being thankful to GOD for who we r. we never expected more than what we have now. and because we care, we love and we appreciate each other..Muccchhhhhhh!

i love you baby.I really DO.

happy?

+saye dan kesopanan dan kesusilaan =)+

kursus kawin done!!!! hooray!!!!! =)
so, what else left?

1) HIV test - wednesday
2) fill in borang nikah -him
3) bring borang nikah from both side to malacca , meet the "imam" , me & dad sign it witnessed by imam and tadaaa!!! done =)

see, Alhamdulillah we are few steps moving from bfore, (static n still like almost zero preparation for our wedding..)

he'll be here for only 2 weeks and we r a bit bz settling many things. includin' looking for wedding planner, wedding costumes, make up ,whoaaaa and many2 things.

so now we got our make up artist, wedding costumes and wedding planner for his side.lega2....

all will be done by nurul shukor touch - for his side -so from head to toe ill use nurul's talented touch! gile dying for nurul shukor. but for my side she wont be available on that day, anak sedare die kawen...wuwuwuwuuw... whut to do...sgtla choy!

so, babes, i will keep you updated wif my wedding plan . =)

spongebob n patrcik n bikini bottom - with their wonderful life

amin...

patrick is backkkkkkkkkk =)
so, stop wondering why im on hiatus for about 1-2 weeks..hehhehehe.
we r spending our quality time together...
mushy2 everyday, gado2 for a minute or two... n most of the time bz preparing for our upcoming wedding day...

we'll go for our "kursus kahwin" in setiawangsa this weekend.
meet my wedding planner, make up artist n lots of things need to be discussed.
n hey, patrick is back form paris and guess what he bought for me?
i think most of you know the most irresistible thing from paris =)
but patrcik doesnt allow me to post any pic or talk about "that thing" here.
jangan show off die kate...
bukan show off kan,,.,juz sharing my happiness wif you guys kan?
i should be rewarded wif that thing and many other things for my patience after a long waiting without complaining right?
i endure all my probs, burdens and emotional things by myself without complaining and redha je kan wif the distance. nice lady kan i? hhehehehe....
you should be proud of me baby and thanks for "that thing " darl =) *kisses*

*may this happiness belong to us forever-amin*

mY little daily__fresh =)

juz addin' on 1 more obligation for myself:

owning, handling & monitoring small daily fresh kiosk - we r 1 of daily fresh franchisee based in malacca.

-we have multiple choices of waffle cake, cup corn and various type of ice kimo-

big thanks to mr fiance for allowin' me to do this small business and d'most important thing is he allocated quite huge amount of money to invest in this business. *hugs and kisses*

its always been my dream to have my own business when my age reach 25 and he lived my dream.

truthful confession: mr fiance always live my dreams, many things happened and he was a responsible person who tried to make me happy by fulfilling few of my dreams and ..... i shall say, im pretty lucky having him as my partner, and to ALLAH i pray, may this guy belongs to me forever because no matter what happen in the future, i'll share his happiness and sorrows, his ups and downs, his joys and his tears, no matter what, i wont let him to be alone and if he still needs me, ill always be by his side- forever and ever-insyaALLAH.

and pray to ALLAH to continue give His blessings on us and our business.

mY little daily_fresh at malacca mall


+ bile boss turun padang =) +

customers , staffs and kiosk


my mom unofficially became as an operation manager on that day =P

mY big boss =P -picture of him in old trafford


OMG, its already 5 weeks and i miss him soooo much!
no wonderlaaa, everyday keep posting mushy entries,
bear wif it readers, my *rindu mode to patrick* dah datang! =P

nitey nite babes!

Random~~

story 1

request unapproved!
application declined!
paris??? who r u? -ignoring-

uwaaaaa......

redha..redha...

his words - "siap berkomplot dgn ayong nampak, nak pujuk i to let you go to paris, tak jalan jugak-haha *evil laugh*"


blurp *merajok mode*

rethinkin' and reconsiderin'

majok? useless! jenis2 patrick ni buat penat je nak majok kan.

if i say "baby, i majok"

"ermmm", his prompt reply

"ermmm ,je? i majok betul2 ni tau, tk reti2 pujuk ke?"

"ooOOOooo, kene pujuk eh?, nape sayang majok?"

Oooouh my GODDDDDDDD...will u continue sulkin'?

when u know dat person wont bother to coax you or even not taking serious wif ur *majok* mode?

ceh! penat kan majok??? siap nak kene explain plak nape majok n sometime siap kene explain care2 nak pujuk n kasi kite cool,bley?

yeah, that's my patrick, so i decide not to majok...plus i know and i believe he always knows whats best for us....

like last time mase i ckp "baby, nak gi london n scotland,thinkin' of attendin' ku'in's convocation day in aberdeen,scot"

"ok, syg, i survey tix n d'place"

and when i requested to go to gold coast early dis year, at first i majok gak,die mcm tkmo pergi, then, suddenly he said "ok2, i book now, lets go to gold coast"

terus kite senyum...comel jugak patrick ni some time kan? heheheheh...

so, dis time he explained to me bout money planninglaa ,(plus we'll be getting married this year, we should save more money for our big day plus++ return tix is 10K ++ occay -last minutelaaa...cittt...)

so, takpela, tak majokla ngn patrick....but patrick still tak chomel, comot and tak ensem bcoz patrick didnt allow me to go to france wif u ....

*mogok cket* =P

story 2

"hello, wanie ye?"

yawning wif half eyes closed, "ye, wanie"

"pakcik ni, ape khabar"

shite-jump off from bed, dis time my eyes fully & widely opennn

"yee, pakcik,errr"-mumbling-cursing myself

"lame tak dengar cerite, ape khabar?"

errr,lame - (last week- bali trip, this week- my staffs having training at sunway-damne bz monitoring and pick em up after training and drove all the way to sunway form kl.

"oooOOooo, maaf pakcik, dr balik bali tu macam sibuk cket, pakcik sihat?"

"pakcik sihat, Alhamdulillah, ni tido lagi ke?"

this eyes automatically have a quick look at the tick-tockin' clock - half past eight in the mornin'???? ni dah kire kantoi dgn bakal daddy in law ni-uwaaaa, change the topic or juz make an innocent confession? *thinkin'*

"errr, a'ah pakcik, semalam man call sampai lewat malam,lambat tido" - spontinously the idea came form the brain, so simply the mouth pouring all the words and nicely say it with full of confidence, - blame the fiance!!!!! hahahahahahhaha - good idea- *big grin*

patrick mmg call pon dat nite kan darling? hehehe...

then 2-3 days after, i innocently told patrick the story, and he came wif loong lecture

"i tak tau syg,smpai bakal ayah mertua call, kite nak hidup ber2, syg kene jage hati......bla..bla...bla", cit ...nyesal cite....kene ceramah plak...

the i said" oooo, macamla, baby selalu call my mom, jgn sampai my mom call baby atas kapal tu, haaaa, baru tau"

he laughed and i smiled - silently i told myself "patrick ni cute bile gelak-ceh, padahal tk nampak pon dlm fon-hehehehe-

deep inside im telling myself - only he can bring me laughs and tears, and only he who could understand me better than others - i love you sayang...

hhahahhaha...mushy post- dont puke darlingsssss!!!! =P

am smiling widely =)

" dalam hidup ini,
harungi semua cerita indah mu,
saat2 remaja yang terindah tak mungkin berulang
kuingin nikmati segala cerita di hadapku,
dan cintamu kasihmu agar KU BAHAGIA!"


Alhamdulillah..the engagement ceremony went well...
pictures? wait! i hafto wait for my 2 professional photographers to give me all the photos
most probably by next week =)
once i got the photos, then u guys will get the story =P

later~~

1st anniversary =) 01012009

hehehe..lazy blogger..today only update bout occasion that happened like almost 5 months ago
dig out all my old pics in d-considered-as-old-portable-hard-disk as well,
ive found memorable pics of me n mr bf =)
our 1st anniversary early january 2009.
we had a romantic dinner at kl tower. my treat!
*comelkan saye-kekekke*

i requested him to wear exactly d'same attire like during our fist met.
*we met and officially talked to each other during slb's year end party (2007) at ritz carlton hotel*- additional info-hehe.
ok you can go browse this entry D'blast 1, and you'll notice dress i wore dat nite.

so,yerp, after we had cosy & romantic dinner there, we went home
and then he proposed me to be as his wife..whoaa..
dat story will be in another entry =) -giler potong..kekekkeke..

then, he showed me "nice thing" he bought from US, (ouh, we had an issue on dat bag few days before)- i memang spoilt d'surprise.yess it should be a surprise thing for me, but i ruin it.
ampun sayang - tk buat lagi dah.. apelagi, dat lil browny coach tu laa..supe nice!
ade taste jugak bf saye rupenye -hehhhe..
*for me la kan, if u guys think d'other way around,whut to do* hehehhe..

ouh,anyway just finished my pole dance class...super duper fantastic!
i think im gonna like it more!!!wuuwuwuwu...
it just i need a lil bit more time to catch up few difficult steps, ill try harder next time..
and seems like i need dat tiang!it gonna be as my best buddy when mr bf isnt around.
*baby, i want dat pole-pleaseeeee* -wink-
i cant post any video of my pole dancing in here
mr bf doesnt allow me to do so, keep it for himself he said..
yess, baby u gonna watch me play around wif dat tiang..sooon... on december.kekekeke..
another few months je kan? =P

okie, okie pics of ours-1st anniversay...

table no. je =P

My treat baby-eat as much as u can -hehehe

happily being together for a year and 4 months now =)

tetibe nampak winter park..laan jerk...was for xmas kot

our theme: whiteyyy

mY second coach for last year =)

thanks to baby

biasela tu, a couple yg suke berposing depan cam =P

ok peeps, niteyyy....

+ On patience and emotion +

first n foremost- im not stating dat im outrageously smart + succeed in handling Long Distance Relationship. got tyme i fail to show my patience n fail to be more tolerant in few things while me n my partner are miles away from each other( but it rarely happen), but we respect each other sooo much n we manage to discuss every failures dat we face (sumtyme)in a very good manner without screaming and cursing at each other. The most important thing is we have faith and trust towards each other, but trust me keeping a relationship alive across the miles is not an easy task.

But lucky mr boyfren - im not d'type yg suke merajok tak tentu pasal -credit to me! haha, n eventho i feel a bit terase towards him, ill talk to him nicely without enlarging that specific topic (which made me terase tadi).

i think few long distance couples, still bit luckier than myself. They can still texting their partners when he/she isnt sround, can talk for hours on d'fon while d'boyfren or girlfren is shopping alone or wandering around mall-alone!
email,ym,msn can do it all in 1 go wif mr boyfren or girlfren everyday or almost everyday. ME? dun ask! pathetic occay =(

but Y still feel ungrateful??? still looking for other "potential prospective" -macamla saye baek sangat! yess i know - u blab it a second ago!!!but yeah, now u can see "saye telah berubah"..first tyme being in long distance relationship n seems like i n him can handle it pretty well n may it continuously happen to us *praying & hopping*
n got people asked me "camane boleh tahan??" , "hey,maybe u gonna face dis 5weeks rotation for d'whole of ur entire life", "tak bosan ke, bercinta mcm tak bercinta?"
" boley loyal ke?"

ouh, zip d'mouth n see what gonna happen in d'future. dun have to commnet much bout dis, me n him know what are we going through, how much we appreciate each other n for me, as long as he's being loyal to me from tyme to tyme and treat me nicely ( u define how nice it should be-;), ill just let mr boyfren think d'best way to do it =) -i have no reason to ruin dis relationship by looking for other guy.

i think in anything pon, again it depends on us. how are we manage ourselves to be loyal, d'way to treasure our relationship wif d'love 1, juz dun simply give up on him/her.i think its better to take advantage of d'benefits of a long distance relationship offers =) , such as more time to hang out wif fam n frens (big thanks to my gurls, my member2 selepak, n every1 yg selalu melepak2 dgn diri ini) and of course, d'main part is the pleasure of seeing your sweetheart again after a long absence - (dis 1 love d'most), ill go pick him up at d'airport whenever i have chance to do dat.OMG-cant wait!!! another 27days to go-errrrr =( .okie, its d'tyme for u to mull ur options, juz bear wif d'distance or juz let him/her go .. bfore dis, i mean bfore i met mr boyfren, i always wondering how miss sabrina can handle distance wisely + patiently ? now i know, we both are tougher than the others!!!! kaakkkaaaa....instead of manje2 everyday wif mr boyfrens, we handle our emotions independently. we do most of d'things by ourselves (biasela, bile dekat2 dgn boyfren, sure mintak tolong boyfren do dis n it)-but i think d'best examples are -makan sorang2 n shopping sorang2-hahaahah..

summary from dis entry - long distance relationship aint suxx occay!- dun give up too soon ya!

dah2, piffling saje.. later..daaa~~

stress therapy=)

I was captivated by d’lush, beautiful picture of this 1 lady with curly hair (I wont reveal who is she- I think few close frens of mine sure can guess-lorrr) – big curl hair really works on her. So yesterday, I dragged myself to sg.wang to do a lil bit hairdo for my hair. N tadaa….. here I’ve got it perm! Congratulations!- sound like im gonna have a great look like her-heh! Ridiculous! I know. But dats me. Keep on changing my hairstyle is one of my irresistible habit. I think I already changed my hairstyle bout 3tymes dis year. Its juz I still keep it long, over my shoulder length wif layered cut. I think I easily getting bored wif d’same hairstyle and d’max period dat I can bear maybe more or less 3 months!sigh….


So, dis experiment will be last around next week.obviously bfore raya. I dun want to ruin my “raya” day wif ugly,messy hair. Wuwuuww..but I think its gonna be fine, I love d’outcome for what ive done yesterday actually. =) .credit to d’hairstylist. Yeah, back to d’ “keep on changing my hairstyle” topic, I think “posh” is d’best person to bcome s d’icon as every1 knows she keeps on trying to get her best look by changing her hairstyle. And posh really deserve dat “posh” nick name as she knows d’best way to present d’ “posh” name. And beckham as well, they are a perfect couple dewh. Stylo, bravo n posh-O.hehehe.. (is there any word like dat?).haha.

Okie, back to work, I think every nite bfore going to sleep, I told myself to wake up early d’next day n wif full zest n energy im going to sleep juz to make my objective for d’next day to be fulfilled. But I rarely achieve d’objective when I slowly open my eyes 1 hr late than my alarm suppose to scream. And I do things sluggishly juz to take d’s0-called-my-rajin-mood-to-do-things and I end up reach office 1 hour late than I expected. And every morning im going to d’office stressed, rushed and frazzled and I juz make things worse occay. I know2. its bad.sigh. i need some motivations to be as a hardworking gurl, I think. But what d’heck if I still have to go home after “break fast” tyme or still late than 1900hrs in d;evening? Ouh,so I think its better for me to reach office around 9 n go home around –erghhhh – anytime after 1900hrs. grRRRRrr….so, now make sense y Im going late 2 d’offce rite? So, no more resolution to wake up early in d’morning. Hurray!!!!!haha… sudah doinks saye ini. Enuffla of being as a morning person thingy.

Love life: mr boyfren told me he’ll be going to spain for a week after his crew change n then will be in Malaysia for 2 weeks, than fly back to Norway for a week until the next crew change. So, 6weeks of waiting, 2 weeks of loveyy-doveyy tyme n 5weeks of waiting again. Anyone tougher than me in handling “distance situation”? Put ur hands up!

A guy wif his retarded face -whom i miss d'most!

Later. Taaa….

On d'way of taking compliments (small topic only) =)

U gonna squirm at compliments given to u or juz accept it wif grace?
Me? Squirm + negate it a bit + sometimes retort wif a feigned “really?” “am i?” “u think so?- (haha, please la,u guys did dat also rite?hehe- juz to double confirm actually- *big grin*) . lots of reactions. But it differs according to d’person who’s doing the complimenting, rite? If I know its work related and I feel its well deserved, so ill react wif a simple thank then, but if I know it sounds like sooo beayoutiful or sound insincere (like having “kepentingan2 tertentu”- seperti apabila anda menerima compliments from mr louqe or cik hamidah- please juz ignore it and put on a poker face –haha…)

Iskh. Y dis topic came out? Saje2. hehe. Juz its part of our topic dat ;ve been discussed during our catchin’ up session yesterday. And it was funny. Mls nak cerite panjang,nanti mcm mengumpat plak…hehhee..kering pahale puase saye –wuwuwuwuw….

Ouh yeah, and its been a week since he left me last Sunday- seee 1 week already n another 4 weeks left. Im getting used wif this rotation. Counting days for him to come home and when he’s here, am counting days for him to go offshore again. Heh. That’s part of a dreary truth of mylife. But as I said in the previous entry, im gonna take it in a very2 positive way. The 5weeks moment when we r farther from each other, its not really awful dewh. Im appreciating d’distance now. In fact, I feel auspicious wif d’5 weeks separation sumtyme bcoz its really make us appreciate each other more when we r together. So, to hell wif any1’s augury bout us – full stop.

Few frens commenting bout my entry lately bcoz its too mushy and full wif boyfren thingy. Okie, pardon me.wuwuwuuw…..But they said, they eager to know more bout our xtvties when mr boyfren is home. Usually, we always have plan to do or place to go when he’s home. Okie, for his last break, we juz spent most of d’tyme like what other couples usually do –movie, shopping, n urmmm, not so much interesting xtvties to be told I guess, but his last break was d’longest 1 and am happy spending most of d;tyme wif him eventho its just normal xtvties. (he’s very bz wif his work and so do i- so no vacation plus, it doesn’t make sense laaa if everytyme he’s home, we need to go for vacation – but I think doing lots of overseas trips (traveling) bfore having kids is what we gonna do, (he told me so…).. ouh ,we went to gunung senyum and cherating wif few of my best buddies (mun, aswad, hazel, fauzi) and we had lots of funs there.yippie =).. im gonna post bout it soon n seems like more pictures for u guys to browse. Heeee….



+ because relationship is a marathon, not a sprint +

and "things" come and go

holla ppl..im back!!!

i know2..poyonye didnt jot down even a single word in this column when mr boyfren was around.haha. silela maafkan kami.
so,u ppl sure can guess dat he's leaving 4 5 weeks starting from today when dis entry posted. once again....he leaves me for quite huge number of days.sigh.. but no complaints...seriously,juz a lil sigh. a little... bcoz of being alone rite now...but honestly, deep inside my heart, i agree wif "distance" that we shud face n go tru 4 5weeks,bcoz it'll make us more appreciate every single moment dat we have when we spend our tyme together.serious people,it works! "distance" do keep us stong n more stronger each days.

huh, i juz sent him to KLIA, as usual, (dis tyme already my 6th tyme sending him to d'airport)i still cannot force my eyes to drop any tears. i dunno y,its hard for me to cry when seeing him go tru check in counter and going down to departure hall by escalator. my eyes hesitate to drop any tears. and i guess dats what he wants. he showed me how strong he is going tru dis "dramatic" moment and at d'same tyme he really hopes dat i can go tru it maturely and i can handle it welly.so, here im....crying alone at home.naah!!!!!wuwuuwuww..not really, i din cry..its juz i feel lonely, damne lonely rite now.but its ok,tyme will heal as every1 said.

ouh, and 1 of d'reason y i cudnt cry juz now was bcoz of parking system in KLIA.whutt d'heck i need to pay for 129rm for parking??? doesnt make sense rite? sgtla choy!!!! not us only, but got few ppl senasib dgn kami. so,to all, PLEASE DONT PARK UR CAR IN BLOCK A -KLIA. otherwise ull be charged for 129rm..huh, sudahla nak create mood nak nangis for dis farewell to agak susah,ade plak bende2 tk patut menimpe,lagila tak jadik.cissss..... so,mr bf accompanied me to mycar n kissed me goodbye on d'forehead. so,tidakla saye menangis.sekali lagi,gagal!hahahha....okie, 115am in d'morning n i have to go to work tomorrow. to mR azman patrick -U R 1 IN A' MILLION =)*kisses n hugs*

+a little cushion around ur waist gives u no harm at all.....+


haha...am i rite?go do ur search peeps =D
got it after quit a while i skipd my 'gym routine" and dance class.
dewh. depress2.

btw, have u ever told sum1 dat u love him/her sooo much but he/she distort wif a joke ?
y huh?bcoz its better than he/she says "thanks", or its juz d'way out for em to maintain their macho/sexy look than fit in panic?practically i dunno d'real answer dewh,but realistically,i think he/she doesnt love u at all.am i rite?
never been in dat ctuation....juz curious btw =) .. and i think,if i were in dat ctuation,ill lough wif his jokes and continue making jokes even bout d"ilove u "words dat i said to him bfore until he feel confuse if i really mean wif whutt i said to him juz now.lallalalalalala~~

ok nowim buzysearching for hotels dat im gonna stay during my kinabalu trip.for those ygpernah meletakkan kedua2 belah kakinye di atas sane and got infos,buzz me k.

*distance...distance...distance..n i hate it*-actually i'll feel like dis when i didnt hear anything bout him 4 d'whole day,its not easy dewh to survive in a long distance relationship-got tyme when u feel damne lonely,or u need sum1 to talk to after got fight wif other ppl,or got sumthing stuck in urmind dat u need to blab it out to d'only person on earth dat could understand u better than others,or when u r browsing around d'shopping mall alone without companion,then u'll understand how much u need ur partner at dat mo,n ull missing 'em badly,n then u realize how miserable urlife without em,but i know i could n i will never ever give up. other than dat,im enjoying myself wif him throughly.i mean when he's in mesia,after he calld me from vessel,after i chat wif him.i feel undeniably happy.u know la kan,org pompuan,tak boley if tak dengar news pasal org tersyg die sehari.woaaaa-imsooooo typical-wuwuuw....btw, a lil update from me n keyboard off.daa~~~

+D'culoTtes ...+

ehem..can i hav 1?i know its a bit burok....but...ermmm...ok,now i have to think twice..juz let dis idle mind thinks bout fashion again after quit a while im sooooOOOOooo being as a "follower",ergghhh..sounds like i was a trend setter before..*coughing"*..i really hope dat u guys can get what i really mean.."
a biG shopping day i mean "yeah....thanks to all shopaholic out there for being soo understanding wif d'statement mentioned above. *big applause wif a bow* =D

when i bought a sporty armband for my mp3 player dis evening at sg wang,suddenly dis eyes cathed 1 beautiful stuff which d' shape is like a courgette and after checking it out, it's juz a an alrm clock but its quite adorable and pretty cool tho..but i juz walked away instead of buying it n tonite ill dream bout it.erghh...selalu mcm tu kan? grrrrr...

occayla...straight 2 d'point..actually tadi bloghopping sekejap.then,i go tru 1 blog ni,and as dis fingers scrolling down to d'bottom of d'page,i felt like every sentences i read touched myheart and i melted *eventho all those muchy2 words on dat blog aren't dedicated to me*,but i dun care,its juz all dis while i thought "fairytail" thingy
dont exist n'more but i was wrong..ergghh..seriously ifu guys have a chance to read it pon,u'll definitely feel egree wif me.masih ade lagi a guy in d'world who is really appreciate and devoted himself to his gurlfren like in dis entire world,only 1 woman exist-his gurlfren.full stop.i u guys read d'poem he made to his gf,ah..malas nak comment bnyk2...sile bace sendiri..*weee**
occay,im not deplore wif my life occay.and i juz feel great wif my life rite now after i think its almost complete when i met dis 1 person who is really cares bout me.and none of my words above have any intentions to make comparison between my guy and d'guy dat i mentioned above.different ppl have different way to xpress their love feeling.its juz i like d'way dat guy chosed to xpress his feeling towards his gf.dats all.and 1ce again,it doesnt mean dat i dun like d'way myguy did.as i said,different ppl..different....occay,u get it..wif dat,i thank u.~DAA.



+D'routine bfore sleeping at nite:
listening to mypink
MP3player n hugging dat cudly camel +


+when i have nothing to do
or being under pressure =D + +